Craig Groeschel leads one of the largest churches in America, but that doesn’t mean the journey has been easy.
In this interview, Craig talks about the hard side of life and leadership – How the early mistakes of a rookie leader can almost sink you, where to find God in the midst of it, and how Craig has experienced God in the midst of personal disappointment and suffering. This interview is a powerful and personal conversation.
Welcome to Episode 228 of the podcast. Listen and access the show notes below or search for the Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast on Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts and listen for free.
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3 Insights from Craig 1. Pain is a catalyst in leadership
Early in his ministry, a wise mentor advised Craig that as a leader “when you do more, you’re going to hurt more”. Leaders experience different levels of challenges – whether brought on by outside sources, the brokenness in the world, or self-inflicted pain. All are difficult to work through, but it seems the hardest to process can be self-inflicted wounds because they bring so much personal regret and shame.
Those difficult times are often the catalysts that mold incredible leaders and shape them to become who God wants them to be. God doesn’t cause pain, but he absolutely can use the hurt to create a more effective leader.
2. Self-awareness and honest friendships matter
Many leaders struggle with self-awareness. It is a continuous fight. Lying to yourself can be so easy and often the more people you have around you, the harder it is to be sure you’re hearing honest feedback about who you are and what you’re doing.
Surround yourself with people who can speak openly into your life. Honest friends will make all the difference to keep you on track as long as you remain open to listening to them.
3. Transparency in hard times still ministers to others
Leaders must remember that they are children of God first and leaders of people second. When that order gets mixed up, healthy leadership deteriorates.
That order is crucial when it comes to dealing with personal hurt. Grieving publicly isn’t easy for leaders, especially in ministry. Most people don’t take into consideration that a pastor has to process hurt, doubt and pain just like everyone else.
Being transparent in those vulnerable times not only allows people to minister to you, but it also ministers to them. They gain a better understanding of the fact that a pastor experiences hardships in life just like everybody else. They get to see someone they respect wrestle with the same questions they have while still clinging to God when times are hard.
Quotes from Episode 228
If you're not hurting, you're not leading, because the more responsibility you have, the more complications tend to come with it. @craiggroeschel
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Being surrounded with people who can speak openly into your life really matters. @craiggroeschel
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We enjoy God on the mountaintops, but we get to know him intimately in the valleys. @craiggroeschel
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