All Secure with Tom and Jen Satterly

KaLea Lehman is the Executive Director and Founder of the Military Special Operations Family Collaborative (MSOFC). KaLea grew up in rural Missouri and learned to cook as a young child at home and more formally through required home economics classes in high school. She took this homegrown spirit to Washington, D.C., where she’s been a longtime advocate for health education, research, and policy. KaLea earned her bachelor’s degree in Sociology from George Washington University in 2007, shortly after marrying her husband of nearly 20 years. In 2018, she earned her Master of Education from Vanderbilt University and founded MSOFC to address the SOF wellness challenges that too often get lost in tempo and time or muddled by the unique aspects of the special operations lifestyle. KaLea and her husband have six children. Her favorite pastimes are running with her family and friends and exploring coastal places. Connect with KaLea on Linkedin. Follow MSOFC on Instagram, Facebook, and X. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Dr. Topher Murphy graduated with his PsyD from Regent in 2008 and has served as a Psychologist both in the US Army in the in the Department of Veterans Affairs over the past 9 years. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Joe Stimac is the founder and President of AccuHire Corporation, a company that specializes in selection, engagement, and retention. His clients include notable firms including H&R Block, Enterprise-Rent-A-Car, PeopleSoft, DoD commands, MIT, PWC, Marathon Oil, The White House, and others. He has trained over 12,000 hiring managers at global firms, elite military commands, universities, and fast-growing startups on how to hire high performers over his 20-year career. He has been a speaker at SIOP as well as at national and international conferences. Joe’s passion is research and teaching. According to the Harvard Business Review, two out of five new CEOs fail in their first 18 months on the job. Joe has identified twenty- nine failure points that can derail C-class leaders. He advises corporate boards on how to target these failure points when selecting CEOs, CFOs, and senior executives. Joe holds a Bachelor of Science degree from the University of Kansas. His newest creation is Interview Ready, an online program created from his years of observing where job candidates fail during the job interview. The program helps job seekers understand the job search process from the employer’s perspective, create position-specific interview questions, and practice their interviewing skills to gain the confidence needed to get job offers. Show notes: www.InterviewReady.com www.accuhire.com Connect with Joe here: Joe@AccuHire.com For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Meet Dr. Angus Fletcher. Dr. Fletcher has his PhD from Yale and is the Professor of Story Science at Ohio State's Project Narrative. His research has been called "mind-blowing" by Malcolm Gladwell and "life-changing" by Brene Brown. In 2023, he was awarded the Army Commendation Medal for his work with US Special Operations on training the brain to act smarter in chaos. He began working with the Army’s Command and General Staff College two years ago, both virtually and by conducting in-person sessions at military bases. “If you can come up with an original action and you put two actions together, that’s an original plan. And then you start to put a lot of actions together, and that’s an original strategy,” Fletcher said. “We wanted to train up these areas of the brain that allow you to come up with original actions, plans, plus strategies, so that when you’re in an environment that’s a contested space, when someone else is trying to break your plan, you can come up with a new plan that allows you to achieve what it was you wanted to do in the beginning.” So how does this apply to our new mission after the military? Tune in today. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

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Long before CBS cast Tyler Grey as operator Trent Sawyer on the hit show SEAL Team, he was a real-life Army Ranger sniper turned operator assigned to the US Army’s most secretive counterterrorism special missions unit. He deployed multiple times to Iraq and Afghanistan, where he went after high-value targets and endured multiday reconnaissance missions in austere terrain. His military career changed forever after Grey was seriously wounded in an explosion during a nighttime raid in Sadr City, Iraq. The injuries took him out of the fight and put him in a hospital for months. His post-injury transition wasn't easy, but it led him to be a prominent veterans’ advocate and started him on his new path: acting and producing in Hollywood. As someone who has been there, and done that, Grey provides a lot of value on set, helping to keep everything realistic and authentic. In our Season 4 opener, Tyler speaks candidly about the challenges he faced during his transition.  From chasing adrenaline to confronting grief and the desire for the peace he found in chaos, self-imposed or not. He shares some great advice about creating awareness about what isn't working for you anymore, how Hollywood is getting it right in how they are telling our stories and other ways in which they're missing the target. Great stuff, let's dive right in! Show notes: Find out more about Tyler Grey here. Here's how to watch SEAL Team. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Stacey Stone. Where do we even begin! She is our lead coach and has worked with thousands of Special Operations family members, whether active, ETSed, or retired, and their significant others.  She has helped to redirect struggling relationships with tools that help us during our worst times.  She is here to teach us the tools to help us live our next best life without the bad baggage of our past. For those who are unaware, Stacey is a licensed clinical social worker who provides coaching services for All Secure Foundation. She specializes in relationship issues related but not limited to trauma and the impact of these painful experiences on both the individual and their relationships. She was fortunate enough to begin working in the field of mental health in 1989, starting her career in an inpatient addictions facility. Thus began the journey of training with trauma, PTS, depression, anxiety, and grief, to name a few.  The most recent training with couples in emotionally focused therapy (EFT) began about 17 years ago that has enabled a plethora of tools, understanding, and an in-depth approach to working with and supporting people and their most valued relationships utilizing a mapping system to guide them along in their journeys.  She was invited to join the All Secure team in 2019, working with military personnel and their significant others facilitating retreats that includes in-depth communication tools utilizing exercises with the training, guidance and support of Stacey, Tom and Jen. Beginning in 2020, she began coaching individuals and couples, virtually expanding the generous resources that All Secure Foundation has to offer.  To say that it is a deep honor to work with the military, and their loved ones is such an understatement. “It is with complete gratitude that people trust and let me into the most sacred parts of their lives," says Stacey about what she gets to do with us.  Let’s get right to it!  Tune in to hear the tools that can help our relationships and lives, too. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

The growth mindset is important to cultivate as you journey onto the next step following your time in SOF. In this episode with Aaron, he recognizes and owns what he's done in the past, speaks on imposter syndrome, is able to reflect on his growth and questions Tom on his same path. Aaron also knows he's not on mile 26 of the marathon of life. There's more growth to come.  Aaron Hill served for five years with the 45 Royal Marine Commandos and  five years with the 22 SAS (UKSF). From the military he went into the Private Security industry for ten years, working generally in high risk, high pressure, hostile environments, but also for a Premiership football team and a few of their players.  Feeling the need to be closer to home to support his young family, he retrained as a Personal Trainer and started working in a local gym outside of Barcelona, Spain.  While in the gym he went from an under-stimulated and frustrated victim to starting to see his real potential and how to be his authentic self. This was thanks to the work of his friend of mine who coached him and lead him to realise that he  had a desire to help people and that for many years he had been living with a very narrow view of the world and about himself  He now works as a Resilience Coach. And helps drive  individuals who feel stuck and want to get the best of themselves, find their own version of success and fulfillment. He lives in Barcelona, Spain with his wife and two kids.  This episode is exceptional and important for you to listen to as you move onto the next step of your life! Tune in now. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

All Secure... meet the brilliant Virginia Gallagher. She's been adopted into the SOF community for years. Not only because of her heart and relatable story, but our own community has been sending folks to get yoga teacher training by her, at her studio, Hot Asana, so that they can teach it at groups and on deployments. Virginia knows that we are all on our own personal journey and she is ready to share a little bit about her yoga journey with us! Virginia attended her first Hot Yoga Class on August 12, 2007 and fell in love with the mental and physical connection. She began practicing 3 – 6 times a week, shed 40 pounds in 4 months, and was able to discontinue the use of all of her prescription medications. She began to feel healthier and stronger than ever. Convinced of the benefits of yoga, she continued her daily practice and began to deepen her dedication to and knowledge of yoga. In this episode, we deep dive into the ideology of, "what we heal in ourself we heal in the world." We had a wonderful time speaking with Virginia and it's no wonder that a significant amount of her students are from our community. You have to listen in to this one to understand!  For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Bryce Mahoney is a US Army Special Operations Veteran living in North Carolina. He served in 3rd Ranger Battalion, Joint Security Area Korea, and E. co 51st Long Range Surveillance. After leaving the military he struggled to find his purpose again. Through trial and error he came to the realization that to provide peace to others you first must be in a place of peace yourself, and that started with relocating to the mountains where he could fulfill his purpose. He is the owner of Yadkin Valley Adventure, an all-inclusive adventure outfitter whose mission is to remove as many barriers as possible for people to experience the outdoors. He serves as an NC contact for Climbers For Christ and is the Northern Piedmont Board Representative for Carolina Climbers Coalition. He is an AMGA Single Pitch Instructor, Wilderness First Responder, and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Purple Belt. He is married to Charissa and has three children, Parker, Kellen, and Jax. In his free time, he is either climbing rocks with friends, building and repairing trails, or spending time with his family. Straight from the hot tub in his back yard, here is Bryce. Let’s dive right in!! Honorable Mentions: Yadkin Valley Adventure For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Shauna ‘Doc’ Springer is a licensed psychologist, frequently requested keynote speaker, award-winning podcast host, and one of the world's leading experts on psychological trauma, military transition, suicide prevention, and close relationships. A Harvard graduate who has become a trusted Doc to our nation’s military warfighters and first responders, she navigates diverse cultures with exceptional agility. She is the author of three best-selling books, WARRIOR: How to Support Those Who Protect Us, BEYOND THE MILITARY: A Leader’s Handbook for Warrior Reintegration, and RELENTLESS COURAGE: Winning the Battle Against Frontline Trauma. As the Chief Psychologist for STELLA, she advances a new model for treating psychological trauma that combines biological and psychological interventions. Doctor Shauna Springer is an expert in all things PTSI (Post Traumatic Stress Injury) and has spent over a decade working with elite warriors and their families in healing from trauma, no matter the source of it! We are coming in hot with this first episode of 'Listen Up!' Honorable Mentions: Connect with Doc Spring on Linkedin Stella | Stellate Ganglion Block (SGB) & Ketamine Therapy Treatment - Stella (stellacenter.com) Speaking - Doc Shauna Springer WARRIOR: Doc Springer's Personal Online Guide to Her Work (shaunaspringer.com) For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Eric Frohardt is a Navy SEAL combat veteran with nearly 12 years of service to our great nation. While on active duty, he served on various SEAL Teams including the highly revered Naval Special Warfare Development Group (DevGru). Over the course of his career, he deployed numerous times to hot spots around the world including Iraq and Afghanistan. As a SEAL, Eric was trained in the use of various firearms, explosives, radio and computer communication devices, combat diving, high-altitude parachuting, battlefield medicine, wilderness survival, climbing, mountaineering, hand-to-hand combat, and tactical driving. He was also a sniper! While on active duty he also climbed El Capitan and (2) of the (7) Summits: Denali and Aconcagua. Eric was medically retired at the beginning of 2010 as a SEAL Operator, Chief after being injured in combat. After leaving the Navy, Eric went on to start an indoor gun range and gun store in Lakewood, CO. He stepped down from the daily operations in order to become the CEO of StrongFirst, a fitness company with nearly 5,000 instructors in over 40-countries. After that, Eric served as the Director of Education and Training for the National Rifle Association where he led and served the over 110,000 NRA Certified Firearms Trainers nationwide. Now, Eric works as the COO of Defy, a performance beverage company with nationwide distribution in over 11,000 stores. Most importantly, Eric and his wife have been happily married for 20 years and they have 4 kids ranging from 10 to 17 years old. He volunteers for the Navy SEAL Foundation and serves as a committee chair for the Denver-based, “Evening of Tribute.” He is also active in his church and local community. Most of all, he enjoys being a husband and father! Honorable mentions: Connect with Eric on Linkedin. Be part of the Navy SEAL Foundation's “Evening of Tribute” in Denver Drink Defy StrongFirst: School of Strength Blucore Shooting Center For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Born in Chicago and raised in St. Louis, John Stillman was a quiet boy yet found fun in teasing his younger sisters and brother. His love for the Rome plows in Vietnam led him to a career as an operating engineer, where he earned a living running the big equipment on job sites. Now retired, he busies himself helping out with nonprofit veteran’s organizations and tending to the almost one hundred acres he calls home in Missouri. John has been happily married to his wife Rita for fifty- three years and is the father of four children, two daughters and two sons. He still loves his road trips Unearthing fifty years of repressed memories with stunning accuracy and raw details, John also wrote a book. It is titled, Jumping from Helicopters, and is a vivid and moving Vietnam memoir that will open your eyes to the realities of what our brave young men witnessed and endured, and why they returned facing a lifetime of often unspoken unrest, persistent nightmares, and forced normalcy. This is a very special episode with an incredible man and Warrior. Hearing these stories is often rare or told second-hand, so don't miss this episode! Grab a copy of that book here. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Herb and Corrie join us today to share part of their journey, both individually and their road together. Transitions (military or otherwise) can be tough, blending families can be tough, healing from trauma can be tough, yet having a strong relationship with your forever battle buddy can make the road much easier and the load much lighter.  Tune in today to hear Herb and Corrie share how they take care of each other, playing hard and loving hard, this couple knows a thing or two about strong bonds and not only how to create them but sustain them. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

Dr. Kate Pate is a Ph.D. neurophysiologist and Founder of The Way Back, a company that provides education and coaching services related to military, veteran, and first responder health, often in wilderness settings. Within these communities, she advocates for functional and non-traditional approaches to healing. She is also the Founder and CEO of Coruna Medical, a military-specific medical company that creates innovative solutions for administering medical care in austere environments. Kate serves on the Board of the Psychedelic Medicine Association and is part of the Medical Advisory and Research Team for HunterSeven Foundation as well as the Human Performance Team at SOFlete. Kate’s doctoral research focused on respiratory neurophysiology, or the brain-breath-body connection, but her postdoctoral research was broader and involved studying the role of redox biology in inflammatory disease processes. The latter included the specific study of traumatic brain injury (TBI), spinal cord injury, arthritis, and cancer and radiation biology. The topics she’s most passionate about these days include TBI, neuroinflammation, and mental health. In this episode, you will hear her passion for serving those who serve, and that has led to many innovations in care. She is a leader in the community through her many efforts in research, and coaching, and today she shares with us the science behind Post Traumatic Stress Injury, how it can show up in your life, and ways to begin your healing journey forward, today. Tune in and share this one with your friends, please. It will change perceptions, provide resources, and get you on the way to the life you deserve to live! For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

We are BACK! Season 3 is launching with an unfiltered discussion on getting your life together. We can all agree that doing so takes a certain level of honesty and accountability which can be very uncomfortable and extremely challenging. Getting your act together also demands you to be vulnerable with the connections you surround yourself with. Not only at home but within your entire community. Who better to talk about all of this than with Doug Kiesewetter? SFC Kiesewetter is a dad, an avid adventurer, and a dog lover. He’s also a Special Forces Engineer and Weapons Sergeant with the US Army National Guard 20th Special Forces Group and the Chief Content Officer at SOFLETE, a premier. Doug has served in Afghanistan, Iraq, and Africa. In this episode, we get the privilege to dive deep into Doug’s very relatable personal life. We talk about his divorce, co-parenting, alternative healing treatments through other organizations like Task Force Dagger Foundation, discussing your faults with your children, asking for forgiveness, and with that forgiveness learning from your mistakes and making sure to not let them happen again. This podcast reminds us all that no matter your rank, your job title, and even your notoriety, sharing your very human experiences with the people in your community will help strengthen the individuals in it, generationally.  You can’t miss this one! Subscribe and Tune in today. Honorable Mentions to Check Out: SOFLETE SOFLETE Team Room Task Force Dagger Foundation For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

J. Matthew French is a St. Louis-based attorney with Morgan & Morgan and is a fourteen-year veteran of the U.S. Army.  Matt served as a combat medic, with nearly ten years in the Special Operations community. Upon leaving the military, he attended Saint Louis University School of Law and now practices law in the areas of personal injury and medical malpractice with an emphasis on catastrophic injuries and wrongful death actions. Matt is Chief Legal Officer and Advisory Board Member for All Secure Foundation and offers his services to those warriors who need them most.  He shares with us an all-too-familiar story of how he too suffered through a hard transition from the military and offers his thoughts on how he turned things around, facilitating growth for his life and family. Matt's Twitter Contact Matt via email: MFrench@forthepeople.com For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/

This episode is a little different in that we have not one, but two guests. Today we welcome Marcus and Amber Capone. Over the course of 13 years, Marcus served through multiple combat deployments as a U.S. Navy SEAL until he medically retired in 2013. He and his wife, Amber, thought that life would return to "normal," when in truth, their struggle had just begun. Marcus was experiencing an ever-growing echelon of challenges, including depression, isolation, cognitive impairment, excessive alcohol use, headaches, insomnia, intense mood swings, and impulsivity. Marcus was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress Injury  (PTSI). Shocked by this discovery, Amber felt there was more to the story. After learning about the effects of blast waves, concussive, and sub-concussive brain injuries, a broader picture was painted. Marcus’ military career as an explosives expert, combined with his prior years of contact sports, had left him with the seemingly invisible wounds of traumatic brain injury (TBI), a condition that has significant overlap with PTSI, and is often not properly diagnosed. Subsequently, they cofounded Veterans Exploring Treatment Solutions (VETS) with a mission to end veteran suicide, providing resources, research, and advocacy for U.S. Military Veterans seeking treatment with psychedelic-assisted therapy. To support their organization and to find out more about VETS, please click here. For more information about All Secure Foundation, visit https://allsecurefoundation.org/