becoming

Happy 2023!! Nat, Nailah, and Shay are coming back strong from their holiday break with a deep dive on confidence. They discuss their experiences with being both confident and not so confident, while getting to the root of how to be your most confident self this year. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

Nat’s turning 25 this week!! So it only felt right to talk all about birthdays, officially being ‘halfway’ to 30, and even *dun dun dun* having kids. In this episode, Shay and Nat share their thoughts on the stigma around turning certain ages, how they are making peace with getting older, and more! Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

The year is coming to an end, and the girls want to reminisce on their 2022. They recalled everything from January to December, probably flipping through an old journal or two, to share a range of memories from their favorite experiences to their greatest challenges. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

This week we’re talking boundaries. In this episode, Nailah and Shay have an honest conversation about their relationships with boundary setting. They discuss some common challenges that come along with setting boundaries and some of the ways that they have overcome those challenges themselves. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

From being bullied to being the bully, Natalie, Nailah, and Shay unpack their female friendship trauma on this week’s episode. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

Ep 13: failing at life Get ready to cringe… in this episode, the girls share their most memorable failures from throughout their lives. From embarrassing moments to letting themselves down, this tell-all uncovers the beauty in failure. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

In this episode, the becoming girls talk about their most memorable “F it” moments, and unpack the concept of “just saying yes” to opportunities that are worth the risk. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

In this episode Shay, Nailah and Natalie get real about their current realities. They start off by checking in with each other, but halfway through, the conversation takes an unexpected turn. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

Welcome to the self-love series! This week, Shay and Nailah welcome Natalie back from her trip abroad with another episode about self-love. They had much more to say on the topic of self-love so they figured they would make a series of it! In this episode, the girls talk about all things body image: how beauty standards affected them growing up, their relationships with their bodies today, and much more!  Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

This week, Shay and Nailah get ready for fall with a little reflection and a whole lot of self-love. Prepare to care for yourself this holiday season and listen to them get real about self-love: how they show it, the times where they didn’t give themselves enough of it, and how hard practicing it can really be! Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

We had a whole lot more to say on the topic of creating a life you love! In part 1, Nat and Shay scratched the surface on their non-romanticized take on what it means to live a “dream life”. In this episode, now joined by Nailah, they further unpack the concept of a “dream life”. They talk all about the role that mindset, limiting beliefs, and other people play in your journey and so much more! Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

The gangs back together!! So it only seemed right to celebrate by playing a game. This week Natalie, Nailah, and Shay play the viral card game, We’re Not Really Strangers. They go deep, get a bit silly at some points, and learn a whole lot about each other! Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

Uh oh, our spiritual side is showing. In this episode, Nat and Shay share their experiences with setting intentions, opening up to new opportunities, and finding peace to create a life they love. They share their positive yet realistic POV, recalling real life examples along the way. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

This week, Shay and Nat talk about cleaning and cozying up your space for a clearer mind. Throughout this shorter episode, they share plenty of useful tips for decluttering, organizing, and vibing out your area to escape the stress of reality and make your space your sanctuary. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

We’re not adulting experts, but we have learned a thing or two these past few years. This week on the pod, Natalie and Shay share a few nuggets of wisdom that they’ve learned along with some humbling moments that they’ve experienced throughout their early twenties. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

In this episode, Shay, Nailah, and Natalie share and discuss their controversial opinions. They chat about a range of hot topics from food preferences to free bleeding. Things get a little TMI and one of the girls even reveals she doesn’t know her boyfriend’s phone password! Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

This week Natalie, Nailah, and Shay planned on talking about their hometowns, but it turned into more of a conversation about why they left their hometowns right out of high school and how the universe has kept them linked or brought them back. They reflect on and unpack their individual experiences in real time and come to the ever so cliche, but very true conclusion that *~everything happens for a reason~*. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay

In this episode, Natalie, Nailah, and Shay introduce themselves and begin unraveling what it’s like to be 20-something women in 2022. They touch on their unique Becoming journeys, what their highest selves might look like, the media’s toxic effect on women’s body image, and what’s to come on Becoming. Where to find becoming :) Instagram | TikTok Listen to our playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dIpkkETNJAkYxFWiYkom8?si=51319e55a4774b3a Keep up with us on Insta! Natalie Nailah Shay