How to Keep Your Man Out of My Bed

I knew this day would come, but I didn’t think it would be so soon.  I’ve run out of people to interview!   I’m a Law of Attraction Expert and have a coaching practice based on that.  Since I’ve enjoyed podcasting I’m going to continue having a talk show and have recently been invited to join the Law of Attraction Radio Network.  I’ll be hosting a live call in show twice a month starting in October.  I’m not sure of the exact date yet as I’m just getting back from my honeymoon and don’t know the specifics just yet.   If you enjoy listening to me and would like to call in and ask me questions about relationships and the Law of Attraction.  I’d love it if you would find me over there at the www.loaradionetwork.com.  Most of the other shows are about money, I’ll be the only one about love.  If people I can interview start appearing, then I’ll reconsider keeping this going.   Many thanks to those of you who have been listening and rating and reviewing and emailing me.  If I haven’t emailed you back, I do apologize! I’ve moved, gotten married been in and out of town - had 2 deaths in the family I before I got married and one the day we got back from our honeymoon!  Such is life! What an adventure.    with love, Mary  

In this Episode #10 I talk to Jennifer, a former phone sex operator and amateur porn star.  She explains the ins and outs of the amateur side of the business, how her ex boyfriend got her into fetish modeling and helped her create a lucrative business with her own porn site.  She talks about her life as a swinger first with other women and then other men, too.   Even though it was her exe’s idea to get into swinging once they were full on swinging or “Hard Swapping” he was the one who freaked out!  When their relationship ended he showed photos to their teenage sons of Jennifer with another woman and told them that their mom was a dirty and disgusting human being.   Even after all of this craziness and bullshit, Jennifer has maintained a positive attitude about men, sex and relationships.   She candidly shares her path, insights, ups and downs and the importance of honesty. 

After hurricane Katrina my ex-husband and I moved down to New Orleans to work - me as a stripper and him as a bartender. In this episode I go solo and share a story about how being overly positive was a coping mechanism I learned growing up.  My mom is mentally ill and when I was growing up, I wasn’t allowed to express strong emotions.  This led me to always keeping smile on my face and learning to look and act happy no matter what.   I talk about how this kept me in bad marriages and difficult situations because I was unable to see the reality of what was really going on.  It was a FEMA worker who was a strip club client of mine, who showed me that I was being used and my husband was a fraud.  Intro music by: Honky off of their “421? album.  I mention:  Marc Maron’s podcast, WTF  My website:  www.lovemagnetcoaching.com, www.maryeknight.com - they point to the same place.   You can go there and sign up for my free newsletter where I tell stories about my life and weave in relationship tips and fun stuff.  When you sign up for my newsletter, you get a copy of my free e-booklet on how to be hotter in bed!  It’s good stuff!  You can email me at mary@lovemagnetcoaching.com with any questions or comments. I love hearing from you! 

This is the long awaited Kate Part 2! In it we discuss body image issues, dating while escorting, dating after escorting, dating clients, how men say they are okay and even turned on by your being an escort and when things get real, they leave. How do men really view sex and how is it different for women? How women using sex as a weapon is detrimental to men’s mental health and emotional stability. Contact me at mary@lovemagnetcoaching.com.

In Part 1 of this two-part episode, you’ll meet the fabulous Kate! Kate lived in a West Coast city that she describes as having many examples of what a it looked like to be a successful escort. After getting her Bachelors Degree and then working for a short time in the corporate world, Kate did some research and decided to give escorting a try. A few years into her highly successful career, she developed an eating disorder.We talk about how money is freedom, body image, telling your mom and dad you’re an escort, making awkward connections with clients, debilitating loneliness and other fun stuff!  I mention: The Tim Ferriss Show, Marc Maron, Shannon Cason and Brendon Burchard. I also mention my newest book, Orgasm Now! for sale on my website at www.lovemagnetcoaching.com.  You can reach me at mary@lovemagnetcoaching.com

Sam started seeing escorts after a decade in what he describes as a “loveless marriage.”  He notes that from the 1st time he saw an escort she was “so different from my wife.  She talked to me, she listened to me. I felt attractive. I felt like I mattered.”   He describes his experiences with escorts as “rich and dynamic” and knew that once he made the decision to cheat on his wife there was no going back to a relationship with her.  He admits that a relationship requires a tremendous amount of work and presence and reconnection and “we didn’t do those things.”  We discuss how men are a lot more sensitive and emotional about sex than women think and that sex is “more than sex.”   I talk about my book, Orgasm Now! and how it’s for sale on my site!  www.lovemagnetcoaching.com for $7 - go get you one!  As always please contact me at mary@lovemagnetcoaching.com with any questions, comments or suggestions.

Mary talks with David, a once frequent patron of many escorts.  After 15 years in a “lukewarm” marriage he felt compelled to seek sex from another woman, an escort. David first learned of prostitutes as a boy, seeing them from the car window on the drag on the way into Philadelphia.  Later as a teenager, he became fascinated and researched them in the ads in backs of local magazines.  Mary and David discuss the importance of women wanting sex, how it’s the little things that count in a relationship, a little effort from a woman can make a man feel very special and the importance of being NICE!     

Men See Escorts Because They Love Their Wives  In this episode we discuss:  loving money, the money/orgasm connection, opening a blowjob only business, having sex with men you’d rather not, why some women are afraid to receive, men who truly love their wives DO cheat, how to keep marriage spicy and playful, clients falling in love with Linda, dating clients, client marriage proposals, being your own best lover and why I would never date a man who had seen escorts!  A booklet I have in progress Orgasm NOW!  How to Have More, Better and Faster Orgasms (Even if you’ve had problems in the past)  Its out March 15, 2016.  You can find it here: www.lovemagnetcoaching.com If you sign up for my newsletter you will get a free copy of my report:  How to be Hot Hot Hotter in Bed!  I send out my newsletter once or twice a month with another email if I have something special to announce.  I promise you won’t be overloaded with emails from me.  Once or twice seems to be all I can manage.  In this episode I mention:  Booklet I’m currently writing: How to Love to Give Your Man AHH-mazing Oral Sex.  It will be for sale on my website www.lovemagnetcoaching.com  April 1, 2016. A fine charity, Children of the Night, and I mention Lois, but I couldn’t remember her last name:  Dr. Lois Lee at www.childrenofthenight.org.  I encourage you to check out this website and donate!  Motherhood: The Second Oldest Profession by Erma Bombeck

In this podcast series I interview women who either were or are working in the adult industry as escorts.  Here you have behind the scenes insight into a fascinating world that is not what you think it is!  We don’t pull any punches here!  In this first show, I introduce the podcast, how it came to be and how I went from high-end escort to bestselling author and successful dating and relationship coach.  I talk about my struggles as well as those of other women in my past situation.    Discover what kinds of women choose this vocation and what are the REAL motivations behind this secret life.  Learn from the escort’s point of view what kinds of services the men who saw them expected, how they acted behind closed doors and what they said they REALLY wanted from the women in their personal lives. 

Many years ago Mary and Andrea met one snowy day in New Orleans - yes, you read that right!  She is another woman who had a college degree and chose to go into escorting.  It all started for Andrea when she was in college and working as a stripper to pay for school.  During the Super Bowl in New Orleans, she was propositioned by a client who asked her to spend the night with him and the rest you’ll learn in this very interesting interview.    In this episode we discuss: Clients who fell in love with her, Clients she fell in love with. What an escort’s idea of financial budgeting is. Being addicted to escorting. Most men who see escorts are naive.   www.lovemagnetcoaching.com  

Linda is an intelligent, insightful, educated, compassionate woman. Why in the heck did she turn to a life of prostitution?  In her words, she tells us how she learned many “beautiful” lessons of how to treat and be treated by men, how sex for money is honest and she loved the way she felt like she really added a much needed yet missing dimension to a man’s life. We also discuss our own personal insecurities we deal with in the bedroom because of our pasts and how important it is to our men to be able to be the “man” in the relationship.  Two books are mentioned in this episode: Man and His Symbols by Carl Jung Men are from Mars: Women are from Venus by John Grey