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A Woman's Podcast Journal about waking up & healing from her Narcissist Induced Nightmare! https://anchor.fm/hornswoggled
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A Woman's Podcast Journal about waking up & healing from her Narcissist Induced Nightmare! https://anchor.fm/hornswoggled
www.hornswoggledpodcast.wordpress.com
Episode 46: Van Diary: Low Self Esteem & Insecure Attachment Style
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Episode 45: Van Diary: Care what others think and you'll always be their prisoner.
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Episode 44: Van Diary: Allowing yourself to be vulnerable?
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Episode 43: Van Diary: Narcissist Transaction & Follow up
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Episode 42: Holding boundaries in "The Wild" and on the fly!
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Episode 41: Van Diary: Keeping toxic people in your life to avoid loneliness.
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Episode 40 Watch out for the narcs return!
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Episode 39: Porch Diary: Do the work and make those boundaries loves!
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Episode 38: Van Diary: Take the time to learn more about yourself!
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Episode 37: Van Diary: Breaking "No Contact" Update
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Episode 36: Flying Monkeys! Are you one?
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Episode 35: Van Diary: Choosing to break the abuse cycle from childhood.
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Episode 34:Van Diary: Healing from narcissistic abuse & raising kids while dealing with narcissists.
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Episode 33: Van Diary: How the internet has helped me go no contact!
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Episode 32: How to Know If You're Dating or in a Friendship with a Narcissist !
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Title: How to Know If You're Dating or in a Friendship with a Narcissist !
Date:3/16/2023
Greetings to you!
Welcome to my podcast journal where I share my awakening from my narcissist induced nightmare!
Hornswoggled means “to trick or deceive (someone)” and ohhh let me tell you, I have definitely been Hornswoggled and by someone so close to me, for at least the past 20 years.
I have decided to share my experience to offer support to others who are going through the same thing my family is.
The content I have found surrounding Narcissistic abuse by professionals and fellow survivors has brought me so much comfort in knowing we are not alone.
This Podcast is meant to share my experience, information I have found helpful and the sources so you can check it out on your own, and share my feelings as I unpack this huge blow, as well as share content that has helped me find answers.
Making Sense
https://psychcentral.com/disorders/how-to-know-if-youre-dating-a-narcissist
Here are some narcissism red flags to look out for:
Lacking empathy. They seem unable or unwilling to have empathy for others, and they appear to have no desire for emotional intimacy.
Unrealistic sense of entitlement. They expect others to cater to their desires and may get angry when corrected, put out, or treated as if they’re “common.”
Needs to be the center of attention. They may get unreasonably distressed if they feel ignored or if someone else gets more attention than they do.
Displays arrogant behaviors and attitudes. They may constantly talk about their successes, romantic conquests, or money. They might “complain” about how much they get hit on.
Exploits and takes advantage of others. They use others for their own gain. For instance, they might be “friends” with someone just so they can use their pool or get rides to work.
Regularly talks about their fantasies of power, success, or beauty. Conversations often revolve around material things and never get too deep.
Behaves as if they’re exceptionally “special.” They feel like they can only be understood by other “special” people.
Envious of others or think that others are envious of them. They may gossip about people they’re secretly envious of, or make up their own reasons for why that person is successful, attractive, well-liked, etc. (“She only looks good because of all that plastic surgery.”)
In closing
I hope each episode I record helps someone else who may be going through a similar situation or knows someone who has. It can be discouraging to many because they feel guilty for airing the dirty deeds done by others, but we should never feel shamed into silence.
I would also Like to add, that I feel it is very important for us not to take on the identity of what was done to us, but instead identify as a person who is overcoming what was done to us as we grow closer to our true self and not the victim role our abuser wants us to be imprisoned in.
We don’t want to become the same monster we are trying to heal from.
If you have a story of your own that you would like to share you can email the show @ Iwashornswoggled@gmail.com , Tweet the show on twitter at @HornswoggledPod on twitter, or head to https://hornswoggledpodcast.wordpress.com/ to leave a voice mail message, find the show notes and to listen to past episodes!
Until next time, have a great day and God Bless <3
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Episode 31: What's your biggest weapon against a narcissist?
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Episode 30: Van Diary: Narcissists, Technology, and the Internet!
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Episode 29: What are Abandonment Cycles and how does the Narcissist use them on you? Reddit Bonus: Narcissist's &..
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Title: Abandonment
Date:1/2/2022
Greetings to you!
Welcome to my podcast journal where I share my awakening from my narcissist induced nightmare!
Hornswoggled means “to trick or deceive (someone)” and ohhh let me tell you, I have definitely been Hornswoggled and by someone so close to me, for at least the past 20 years. My Mom.
I have decided to share my experience to offer support to others who are going through the same thing my family is.
The content I have found surrounding Narcissistic abuse by professionals and fellow survivors has brought me so much comfort in knowing we are not alone.
This Podcast is meant to share my experience, information I have found helpful and the sources so you can check it out on your own, and share my feelings as I unpack this huge blow, as well as share content that has helped me find answers.
Making Sense
Abandonment:
To abandon, leave, or desert someone—either physically or emotionally. The word is typically used in the context of narcissistic abuse when referring to childhood desertion from primary caregivers or another key connection where stable and continual dependency is a legitimate expectation.
The Confusing Narcissistic Cycle of Abandonment and Return
https://psychcentral.com/pro/exhausted-woman/2018/01/the-confusing-narcissistic-cycle-of-abandonment-and-return#1
REDDIT for some validation!
https://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticAbuse/comments/100pnlx/was_there_something_weird_about_your_narcs_eyes/
In closing
I hope each episode I record helps someone else who may be going through a similar situation or knows someone who has. It can be discouraging to many because they feel guilty for airing the dirty deeds done by others, but we should never feel shamed into silence.
I would also Like to add, that I feel it is very important for us not to take on the identity of what was done to us, but instead identify as a person who is overcoming what was done to us as we grow closer to our true self and not the victim role our abuser wants us to be imprisoned in.
We don’t want to become the same monster we are trying to heal from.
If you have a story of your own that you would like to share you can email the show @ Iwashornswoggled@gmail.com , Tweet the show on twitter at @HornswoggledPod on twitter, or head to www.hornswoggledpodcast.com to leave a voice mail message, find the show notes and to listen to past episodes!
Until next time, have a great day and God Bless
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Episode #28: Van Diary: Book Spotlight:Covert Aggressive Narcissist by Debbie: "Why do they Abuse!?"
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Episode 27: What Is Idealization and Devaluation and how does the Narcissist use it on you?
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Title: Idealization vs. devaluation
Date: 10/11/2022
Greetings to you!
Welcome to my podcast journal where I share my awakening from my narcissist induced nightmare!
Hornswoggled means “to trick or deceive (someone)” and ohhh let me tell you, I have definitely been Hornswoggled and by someone so close to me, for at least the past 20 years. My Mom.
I have decided to share my experience to offer support to others who are going through the same thing my family is.
The content I have found surrounding Narcissistic abuse by professionals and fellow survivors has brought me so much comfort in knowing we are not alone.
This Podcast is meant to share my experience, information I have found helpful and the sources so you can check it out on your own, and share my feelings as I unpack this huge blow, as well as share content that has helped me find answers.
If you have a story of your own that you would like to share you can email the show @ Iwashornswoggled@gmail.com , Tweet the show on twitter at @HornswoggledPod on twitter, or head to www.hornswoggledpodcast.com to leave a voice mail message, find the show notes and to listen to past episodes!
Does taking your narcissistic ex back always mean that another cycle of idealization - devaluation - discard will start?
https://www.reddit.com/r/LifeAfterNarcissism/comments/wiqffi/does_taking_your_narcissistic_ex_back_always_mean/
Understand a Narcissist From an Object Relations Perspective
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/peaceful-parenting/202203/understand-narcissist-object-relations-perspective
From love bombing to isolation, the red flags for coercive control can be dangerously difficult to spot before abuse escalates
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-08-07/love-bombing-isolation-coercive-control-red-flags-domestic-abuse/101283156
In closing
I hope each episode I record helps someone else who may be going through a similar situation or knows someone who has. It can be discoruaranging to many because they feel guilty for airing the dirty deeds done by others, but we should never feel shamed into silence.
I would also Like to add, that I feel it is very important for us not to take on the identity of what was done to us, but instead identify as a person who is overcoming what was done to us as we grow closer to our true self and not the victim role our abuser wants us to be imprisoned in.
We don’t want to become the same monster we are trying to heal from.
If you have a story of your own that you would like to share you can email the show @ Iwashornswoggled@gmail.com , Tweet the show on twitter at @HornswoggledPod on twitter, or head to www.hornswoggledpodcast.com to leave a voice mail message, find the show notes and to listen to past episodes!
Until next time, have a great day and God Bless <3
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