Not Another F*cking Podcast

In this episode we talk about why you keep choosing people who can’t give you what you need. It’s not because you’re weak or stupid. It’s because that kind of love feels familiar. I explain how old pain, family patterns, and culture trained you to expect the bare minimum in relationships. If you’re tired of being the strong one, the patient one, or the one who “understands,” this episode will hit home. If you want to stop settling, start here: 📍 Buy my book (English): From Wounds to Wisdom 📍 Compra mi libro (Español): de las heridas a la sabiduria If you want help breaking this pattern for real, apply to work with me: ➡️ Apply for 1:1 to work with me

After years of building, creating, and holding a lot of responsibility, I’ve entered a season of intentional pause and honest reflection. In this episode, I share where I’m at right now, what quietly stopped feeling aligned, and how I’m approaching 2026 differently than any year before. This conversation isn’t about burnout or walking away. It’s about discernment. About recognizing when something that once fit no longer does—and choosing to listen before your body or life forces the change for you. I talk about: What it looks like to step back from intention, not exhaustion Why success isn’t always the signal we think it is How I’m redefining fulfillment, creativity, and capacity What I’m choosing to protect moving forward I’m not disappearing. I’m not done. I’m creating space—because something new is forming, and I hope you give yourself permission to do the same. Xoxo, Doralee

In this episode, Coach Doralee sits down with Dallisa Hocking to talk about trusting yourself again and reconnecting to your inner knowing. She is a 5th generation psychic, who's expertise spans psychic development, mediumship, astrology, and tarot, blending spiritual insight with real-world coaching to help people navigate life’s most pivotal moments. She breaks down why every woman is intuitive, how we dim our light to stay accepted, and how self-doubt becomes a learned survival pattern. This conversation blends emotional healing, nervous system awareness, and spiritual intuition in a grounded, real-life way. If you’re ready to stop performing, stop second-guessing, and start listening to yourself, this episode is for you. 🔗 Follow & Connect with Dallisa Hocking 🌐 Website: https://spiritandspark.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dallisahocking/ Take the Quiz: What psychic gift do you have?

In this raw, unfiltered interview, Doralee finally reveals the real story behind the woman she became before she ever became a coach—childhood wounds, marriage battles, identity collapse, and the moment she walked away from counseling for good. You’ll hear the truth she’s never shared publicly about the depression, insecurity, and self-sabotage that almost destroyed her… and the breakthrough that rebuilt her. We dive into Latina cultural conditioning, root-cause healing, relationship patterns, motherhood, and the harsh truths women avoid until their life forces them to listen. But the biggest shock? The one mindset Doralee had to kill to find peace—and the truth about why so many women still sabotage the love they pray for. And if this episode wakes something up in you… Doralee’s Healing Tour hits Tucson, AZ on December 20 — doors open at 6PM. Secure your seat here: Tucson Healing Tour

In this episode, I get brutally honest about why I’ve resisted showing up and selling, and how every fear I had about “failure” was really a fear of rejection. I break down the psychology behind why high-achieving women self-sabotage: not because they can’t heal, but because they’re terrified that healing will separate them from the people they’re scared to outgrow. If you’ve ever stayed small to avoid losing relationships, this conversation is going to expose the cost of dimming your own power. And if you’re ready to stop shrinking and finally rise into the woman God keeps showing you in your visions, this episode is your wake-up call. Come meet me in San Diego on November 28th, 2025 for the Healing Event — if this episode hits you, you’re exactly the woman who needs to be in that room. Doors open at 6:00 p.m. Get Your Tickets Here

In today’s episode, Doralee pulls back the curtain on the real-life shifts happening behind the scenes—what she’s creating, what she’s releasing, and what rest is teaching her as a woman, healer, and leader. She breaks down the difference between I-statements and emotional vulnerability statements, and why this simple communication shift can change every conversation, every boundary, and every relationship. Doralee shares honest updates about what’s bringing her joy, what’s draining her spirit, and how she’s recalibrating her energy to stay aligned with her purpose. You’ll hear a raw, grounded story from a recent conversation with her husband that reveals exactly how powerful emotional responsibility truly is. This episode is for high-achieving women who are ready to communicate with clarity, lead with emotional maturity, and finally ask for what they want without guilt or fear. Meet Doralee live in San Diego—your next breakthrough starts in the room. Buy your tickets here For questions or inquiries: info@heartourminds.com

What happens when your present, healed self sits down to coach the wounded girl you used to be? In today’s episode, I revisit the very first blog I wrote five years ago — a raw, unfiltered look at teenage trauma, toxic relationships, domestic violence cycles, and the moment my purpose first revealed itself. This is a powerful conversation on inner child healing, trauma recovery, self-worth, and what it means to evolve into the woman God always knew you’d become. If you’ve ever carried childhood wounds into adulthood, ignored red flags, or confused chaos for love… this episode is for you. Click here to read the full blog Meet me LIVE in San Diego for the Healing Tour. Follow me on Instagram @HeartOurMinds TikTok @HeartOurMinds for daily healing tools and breakthrough content.

One thing I’ve noticed is how loud the chatter in our heads really is—and how instead of silencing it, we amplify it. We work, we stay busy, we overdo everything just to avoid sitting with our thoughts. But that busyness? It’s a trauma response. It’s the ego’s way of protecting us from emotions that once felt unsafe to feel. In this episode, I break down how the emotional walls built in survival mode keep us disconnected from our softness, our peace, and the people who love us most. You’ll learn how to: 💭 Recognize the “wall” your ego built to keep you safe 💭 Reconnect with your emotional self without judgment 💭 Communicate your needs clearly instead of defensively 💭 Heal the wall between you and your “safe people” Because when we refuse to feel our feelings, we block love, intimacy, and even our own peace. Feeling is not weakness — it’s emotional intelligence in motion. If you’re ready to stop surviving and start connecting, this episode will help you lower the wall, reclaim your softness, and feel safe in your truth. Join us for The Healing Tour — a night of inner healing, spiritual connection, and emotional freedom. Come learn how to release what’s no longer serving you, step into alignment, and experience what peace actually feels like. 🎟️ Tickets available now at Heartourminds.com Follow my socials: Instagram Youtube Tik Tok

If you’ve ever caught yourself saying, “It’s not my fault,” “I can’t help it,” or “Why does this keep happening to me?” — this episode is for you. Doralee exposes the three clues the victim mindset always leaves behind and reveals the deeper emotional roots behind blame, justification, and complaining. This isn’t about judgment — it’s about awareness, accountability, and finally stepping into the level of ownership that changes everything. 🎟️ Join Us Live in San Diego — November 28th Doors open at 6 PM. Grab your tickets now at posh.vip before they’re gone.

In this powerful episode, Doralee Quintero explores what it really means to stop running from pain and finally open yourself to the possibility of what it looks like to get better. Recorded in a season of deep reflection, she shares how burnout, overgiving, and emotional exhaustion are not signs of failure — they’re signals that you’ve been trying to heal alone. Doralee breaks down why you can’t see out of the fishbowl of your own life without community, how to refill your cup before it runs dry, and why pouring back into yourself is an act of spiritual maturity. She reminds every high-achieving woman that nervous-system healing, self-regulation, and sacred rest are the foundation for lasting transformation. If you’ve been living in survival mode, this episode will help you return to peace, rebuild your capacity, and believe again in what’s possible. Join The Healing Room — Doralee’s private community on Skool — for just $27/month to go deeper into this work, reconnect to your inner safety, and learn how to heal without running on empty.

In this raw and prophetic episode, Doralee opens up about what happens when the healer herself burns out. From leading her healing tour to showing up on live for hours on end, she reveals how her flow was disrupted when she started convincing instead of standing in conviction. She shares how failing to celebrate her own wins — and continuing to pour from an empty cup — became a spiritual mirror, forcing her to face the truth: the enemy is often the inner me. This episode is a homecoming to every woman who’s ever led while depleted, helped while hurting, or confused pressure for purpose. You’ll walk away with clarity, compassion, and practical tips to help you: Recognize the early signs of burnout Stop confusing exhaustion with obedience Protect your conviction from convincing energy Celebrate your wins without guilt Because real healing isn’t about doing more — it’s about returning to the rhythm of who you truly are.

I called myself a healer, and that alone was enough to trigger people. But judgment isn’t new to me. From being a farmworker’s daughter in Idaho, to a counselor dismissed because of how I looked, to an author, teacher, and CEO leading a national healing tour, I’ve been underestimated, doubted, and judged my entire life. In this raw episode, I share: Why the people doing worse than you often have the loudest opinions. What Brené Brown’s ‘arena’ quote has taught me about ignoring critics. How being the underdog (David vs. Goliath energy) shaped my calling. Why healing requires movement — and how to know if you’re ‘her,’ the cycle breaker. This episode will light a fire under you to stop circling, step into your purpose, and finally break the patterns holding you back. 👉 Applications are open now for my signature 8–12 week transformational healing program (prices increase Jan 1). 👉 Join me live November 6th in San Jose for the Healing Tour. For a transformative night of healing and connection.

Buckle up, this is going to be a bumpy ride. No sugar coating. Just truth telling.

My rules are simple: • Never force. • Never personalize. • Question anger. • Let sadness move through. And that’s only the surface. Tap in to hear the daily laws that keep me unbreakable. 🚀

Have you ever wondered why it’s always up to them? Why they’re always the one deciding for you? Why the ball is always in their court? If so, this episode is for you. This is for women ready to stop playing small, take their power back, and finally run their own life. ⚠️ Warning: this isn’t soft. This is for strong women who are done waiting for permission. And if you’re ready for more than just listening—this is exactly why I created The Heart Our Minds Healing Room: ✨ A private community of cycle-breaking women ✨ Live calls + real-time support ✨ The Healing Vault (masterclasses, resources, & prompts) ✨ Space to heal deeper without the noise or lurkers It’s only $27/month. No contracts. Cancel anytime. But if you’re serious—you won’t want to leave. 👉 Click here to join and get inside now. Buy your Long Beach Tickets here. Show is 9/25/25. Doors open at 7:00 p.m.

In this episode, I break down why so many people cling to control and resist surrender—even when they say they want peace. Often, the false sense of safety we find in our jobs, routines, or titles keeps us stuck in survival mode. That “security” becomes a cage, convincing us we’re safe while quietly draining us. I’ll walk you through why this happens, how to recognize when you’re holding onto a false anchor, and what surrender actually looks like when it’s rooted in trust rather than fear. 🎟 👉Meet us in Long Beach, CA September 25th @7:00

Have you ever asked someone for advice… but deep down, what you really wanted was their approval? Maybe you already knew the answer. You knew the next step. You knew what you should do. But instead of trusting yourself, you wanted their agreement — their validation. That’s how rejection sneaks back in, even when you think you’ve healed. We don’t realize it, but half the time we’re not seeking guidance… we’re still trying to be chosen. And here’s the truth: chasing external validation will keep you trapped in cycles of approval-seeking — romantically, personally, and professionally. You can have the degrees, the success, the titles — and still feel unchosen. If this you, you are not alone. Limited seats to the Long Beach Healing Tour Click here for tickets 🌐 Stay connected – heartourminds.com 📲 Follow on Instagram 🎥 Follow on TikTok

Have you ever wondered if your “strength” is actually just a wall keeping everyone out? Have you ever wondered why people admire your toughness but can’t seem to get close to you? Have you ever wondered if being called “hard to love” is really about the armor you’ve worn for survival? If so, this episode is for you! In this episode, Doralee unpacks the invisible walls we build to protect ourselves from pain, rejection, or betrayal. But those same walls often block the very connection and restoration we crave. She breaks down: Why carrying a chip on your shoulder is weighing you down more than protecting you. The dangerous illusion of “future pain” and why living in defense mode keeps you stuck. How to finally remove the chip—and replace it with the crown God already anointed you with. What it really means to step into your softness, your femininity, and your divine authority. 🎟️ Join me LIVE in at the historic Edison Theater in Long Beach — September 25th, 2025 👉 Click here for tickets 🌐 Explore more healing resources 👉heartourminds.com

Have you ever wondered why it feels impossible to truly open up? Have you felt the weight of unspoken feelings you can’t bring yourself to share? Do you find yourself replaying that breakup, sinking into the sadness over and over again? If so, this episode is for you! So many of us think the danger is in being rejected, but the real danger is what we’re willing to tolerate just to be picked. How many secrets have you swallowed, tears you’ve hidden, or lies you’ve agreed to… all for the sake of being chosen? The truth is, many of us aren’t quiet because we have nothing to say — we’re quiet because deep down, we’re terrified that speaking our truth will cost us the very thing we’re desperate to keep: being chosen. It’s time to confront that fear, break the unspoken contract, and stop settling for connection that comes at the cost of your own self-worth. Your healing starts when you stop negotiating with your own pain. • 🎟 Click here to grab your seat for Long Beach – very few seats left! • 💼 Click here to apply to work with me 1:1 • 📚 Click here to get my Virtual Healing Course – lifetime access and 7 day money back guarantee.

Have you ever felt like no one truly understands you? Like you’re quietly drowning while everyone around you assumes you’re fine? Like you’re the one checking on everybody else… but no one checks on you? This is the hidden burden high-value women carry — the unspoken reality of always being the strong one, the one people come to for help, but rarely the one they come to help. In this episode, I’m exposing why this happens, how it erodes your emotional reserves, and what you can do to stop feeling unseen while still being the powerhouse you are. 🎟 Join me in Long Beach, CA — HeartOurMinds Healing Tour (Sept 25) Heartourminds Healing Tour 📩 Apply to work with me 1:1 (limited spots) Apply for free here 💻 Get the Inner Child Healing Course – Lifetime access, self-paced Price increases from $333 to $888 on August 12 Virtual Healing Course Heal in payments with 👇🏽 Heal Now, Pay Later Course access – 4 x $83