Om Rupani Podcast

STUDENT TESTIMONIALS FOR PRIESTESS TRAINING Student testimonials for my ProDomme Training. Next courses in Jersey City, NJ Level I - September 14 - 20 Level II - November 30 - December 6 COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/#/the-priestess-of-dark-eros/ Please reach out if you have any questions. — Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 02 : YOU ARE CONTAINING HIM. This is an unmitigated disaster.  A woman containing her man, or a man repeatedly reaching to his woman for containment is a severe breakdown in hierarchy and polarity. The bulk of the blame for this breakdown I would put squarely on the men.  If you have allowed this to happen in your relationship, the fault is yours.  If you have SOUGHT this out in your relationship with your woman, you have ushered in your own breakdown and misery. On women’s part, there are a few shadow pieces that cause them to seek this reversed polarity or at least say yes to it.  These shadow pieces are also worth examining. On the man’s part, if you are not offering your woman consistent, good Containment, your chances of LEADING her in your relationship are nil. If you are not Containing your woman, your chances of Dominating her erotically are also nil. Many men can’t connect these dots.  I hope this will be clearer to you after this video. — Om Rupani On women’s part, there are 3 significant shadow pieces that cause them to end up in relationships with men who are not capable of Containing them, and whom they end up Containing instead:  You don’t know any better.  You have never been Contained in your life.  You don’t even know that is something you should be seeking from your man. 2.  You had a weak father who sought Containment from the women in his life, possibly even you. 3.  Your Maternal Energies are misfiring and misplaced. COUPLES’ COURSE : https://omrupani.org/#/dscouples/ www.OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 01 - AFFECTION minus RESPECT This is the first video in this series.  This lament from women that their husband/partner has become like their child is far and wide these days.  I believe the lament is genuine.  That the problem and breakdown is genuine. I believe this problem is rooted in the collapse of male leadership, and the collapse of RESPECT from the feminine towards the masculine.   Unless we understand this phenomenon in its correct context, and acknowledge the need for healthy hierarchy between women and men, this problem will persist and will be impossible to solve. Modern culture shuns the idea of a hierarchical dynamic between men and women, and yet the collapse of this hierarchy is the root of so much of the misery and failure in man-woman relationships today. —  Om Rupani COUPLES’ COURSE : https://omrupani.org/dscouples www.OmRupani.org

REDUCING FEES FOR D.R. RETREAT FROM $4400 TO $3200 I’m reducing the course fee for BDSM FUNDAMENTALS in the Dominican Republic, June 4 - 10. Course fee was $4400.  I’m reducing it to $3200. The fee includes room and board (with a double room). There are some quad rooms also available for $2800. COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/bdsmfundamentals ——————————————- Many people are feeling understandably stressed and contracted during this time of global upheaval and war.  I really empathize.  I too have felt the desire to just hunker down.  But, from past experiences, I can share that these times of stress and contraction sometimes also can offer us pathways towards having breakthrough and expansion. As annoying as the Covid period was, in retrospect, it turned out to be a very productive and prolific time for my work. I hope more of you will join for this very rich and tested exploration.  Hope the reduced cost will serve as an incentive. I’m listing below the benefits I have observed students have from taking the BDSM FUNDAMENTALS course.  Both singles and couples welcome. BENEFITS OF TAKING BDSM FUNDAMENTALS WITH OM RUPANI Both men and women will get a proper sense of the Dominant and the Submissive archetypes.  They will also get a better sense of where on these 4 quadrants do each of them mainly falls. 1.  Dominant Man. 2.  Submissive Man. 3.  Dominant Woman. 4.  Submissive Woman. Knowing your constitution more clearly in this manner lays out the path for you to more fully accept who you are, and to also seek the correct partnerships that complement your energies. *************************** You will learn to give and receive CONTAINMENT.  This skill alone can be a life-changer for many couples.  Men not giving good Containment to their women is one of the biggest breakdowns in relationships.  Fix this, and a ton of other problems you’ve been having may just disappear. *************************** You will receive permission for your fuller erotic expression.  This course container is where you are allowed to pursue your desires and be who you really are.  Everyone is in the same boat in this course, so there is a shared vulnerability that we are all creating the permission field for each other’s erotic expression and the shedding of erotic shame. *************************** You will get a SUPERLATIVE education in the BDSM arts in these 7 days!  You will learn body safety, impact play, spanking, flogging, sensation play, pain play, combining pain and pleasure.  And that will also bring us to the midpoint of our week.  From there we explore a variety of psychological play — Humiliation Play, Objectification Play, Exclusion Play.  You will move further into different forms of Role Play — Daddy/Little Girl, Master-Slave, and more playful invented erotic roles. In this one week, you will receive a thorough foundation in the BDSM arts.  You will be well on your way to creating effective and fun scenes with your partners. *************************** THE 4 QUADRANTS: 1.  DOMINANT MAN.  If you discover that your joy is in dominating your woman sexually and leading her in your romantic relationship, that gives you the clarity about which further skills you need to acquire to fully come into your Dominance.  For you, I highly recommend coming with your woman to the Couples’ Training. 2.  SUBMISSIVE WOMAN.  Similarly, you will know that your joy is in picking the right kind of Dominant Man who www.OmRupani.org

LAURIE ELLINGTON PODCAST - THE DISASTER OF THE MODERN WOMAN FALSE ARCHETYPE PODCAST TOPICS: Om’s origin story. The failed experiment of women investigating masculinity. The Modern Woman False Archetype — The Karen archetype. Men have lost their radar while being across from masculine women. How women use their erotic power and energy in a second rate manner. When we use our Eros as a means to some secondary end, we misuse it. Women employing their Eros to prop up their self-esteem is a crucible the feminine has to pass through. Women’s Eros is so much bigger than what most women use their Eros for. The shift happens when a woman begins LISTENING to her Eros, instead of using her Eros as a bargaining chip. The difference is between staying in control and finding a place where you can surrender your control. When you start listening to Eros, Eros is in charge.  Neither partner, neither Dom nor sub, is in charge. When you truly allow Eros to move, often times catharsis happens.   Eros is not hot and sexy; eros is a firehose to our system. Eros is a mess.  It is not controllable. The Modern Woman dreads this chaos of her Eros. The longer a woman avoids her Eros, the greater her fear and aversion gets towards entering her Eros. Men today have become unimpressive. If the woman doesn’t respect the man, nothing else is going to happen. Today, most women don’t respect most men.  That’s why we are in a hole. Most men don’t have the wherewithal to take women into their Erotic chaos. Women seem to be fed up with couples’ work. Women seem tired of working on their relationships with their men. The skilled Dom knows how to listen to their submissive’s system. Women’s feminine embodiment is inspirational and course-correcting for men. Right now, men don’t know how to win with women. CALENDAR OF COURSES : https://omrupani.org/workshops-test/ www.OmRupani.org

NEW COUPLES’ RETREAT! Hello Everyone.  I’m very excited to be offering a new week-long, couples’ retreat, especially for men and women who know that they want the man to be in the lead/dominant position in their dynamic, and they want the woman to move deeper into her feminine submission. For the first time, I will be teaching on the topic of RELATIONAL DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION, compared to only sharing about EROTIC DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION (BDSM). This couples’ retreat will be 50% RELATIONAL D/S, 50% EROTIC D/S (BDSM). These are charge-y topics.  There is a lot of misunderstanding and bad ideas around the notions of any hierarchical dynamic, particularly around the idea of a woman submitting to a man.  In this conversation I want to cover two foundation points that might help people clarify their thoughts and expectations around this matter — at least in the manner that I teach these topics. These are the two main cornerstones of how I conceive this exploration:  SELF - INTEREST. GOOD LEADERSHIP / GOOD FOLLOWERSHIP. This video/podcast discusses these two cornerstones. One more important point worth touching on early, for all those who think they want to occupy the Dominant position.  These are my 3 basic criteria for what a good Dominant brings — into their Relationship and into the EROTIC field with their submissive:  The Dom should deserve to lead their submissive.  Meaning, the Dom should have integrity, be self-contained, keep their word, be consistent, be reliable.  These are not soft prerequisites. The Dom must have the Mastery to Contain their submissive, as well as the Mastery to handle their submissive’s Eros,  Under the Dom’s leadership, their submissive’s life and eros should thrive more fully than it would without the Dom’s leadership. COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/dscouples www.OmRupani.org

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WOMEN’S EROTIC RECEPTIVITY, RELATIONAL RECEPTIVITY & LIFE RECEPTIVITY Lauren and I are prepping for our upcoming training for women : EROS IN HER HANDS.  This training is as much for female practitioners who want to raise their skill levels in handling the bodies of other women. Even more than that, this training is an invitation to ALL women to come into this immersive container for a week to create more erotic flow in their systems — and as a result to widen their Erotic Receptivity channels. Doing a training that expands one’s Eros is amazing enough, but we believe that opening the aperture on one’s Erotic Receptivity also has deep impact on one’s receptivity in other areas of life, including in one’s partnerships. Lauren and I discuss some of these topics in this video. We hope many of you will join us in this amazing training in a month, in Cyprus! Please reach out to us if you have any questions. Course Page : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-hands — Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org

COURTESAN MASTERY TRAINING - WEBINAR Lauren and I talk about our expanded Courtesan Mastery Training, and our upcoming Dominatrix Training, Level I in Tulum, December 8-14. CONVERSATION TOPICS: Expanding from Dominatrix Training towards a fuller COURTESAN MASTERY curriculum. Dark Eros is one aspect of a Courtesan’s mastery. The Courtesan Archetype is one of the most ancient and elegant feminine archetypes through history. The Courtesan as Muse, as Consort, as Influencer. Self-activation is a necessary cornerstone for a Courtesan’s embodiment of her mastery. How much Permission we have for pleasure is a big determinant regarding how much pleasure we feel or allow ourselves to feel. Skills in Somatic Mastery are going to be in high demand through the AI job demolishment apocalypse of the next 5  - 10 years. Testimonials from Priestess graduates. Erotic expansion as an aspect of Spiritual growth. People often let their Dom see them more deeply than they allow their therapist to see them. The Dom holds space for whatever comes out of a submissive during a scene. Please reach out if you have any questions.  Lauren and I are happy to get on a zoom call to answer your questions and concerns. COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/ PRIESTESS OF DARK EROS, LEVEL I : https://omrupani.org/the-priestess-of-dark-eros EROS IN HER HANDS : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-hands www.OmRupani.org

ALEX LEHMANN PODCAST TOPICS: What can men get out of BDSM training? Holding FRAME vs. Giving CONTAINMENT. Leadership is needed to be a good Dom, to hold a scene from beginning to end. A man needs to be self-contained first if he is going to contain anyone else. It takes a while for men to come into their own.  It makes sense that women pair with men older than themselves. First contain your woman, then see what problems still exist in your dynamic. Women are getting sick of weak men, en masse. There is a difference between showing a woman your heart and asking her to contain you. Arousal lives on the other side of Containment. Understanding archetypes and their necessity. The Dom & sub archetypes hold the erotic reservoir; the husband & wife archetypes do not hold eros. Role Play is a gateway to switching over from domestic archetypes. Human beings seem experts today in screwing up great Loverships. Mastery as a genuine source of self-esteem. Contribution as a genuine source of self-esteem. The man who finds himself right is very attractive. It’s good for men to fail early and often. Leadership mastery translates to different domains — from erotic to professional. Leaders promise a brighter future. — Om Rupani  BALI COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-principles-dom-sub-exploration-course www.OmRupani.org

WEBINAR—COURTESAN TRAINING FOR PERSONAL EXPANSION Lauren and I have designed our COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM to be a robust enough training to create superlative practitioners.  But this is also a training that can be tremendously valuable to women simply for their own activation and expansion.  A good 30%-40% of women who have done our training have done it simply for their own benefit. In this conversation, we focus on these personal aspects that each of our course modules can serve for women. COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/ —  Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org

MIKAAL BATES PODCAST TOPICS: What it means to be a dangerous man? To be loyal, a man needs to be dangerous. Who were the mothers of feminism? Men need to build before pursuing women. Men need a hierarchy to climb. Men want to be of use to others. Women don’t want to lead their men. Women are in shadow about their desire for submission. It’s difficult for women to create what they are in shadow about. Dominance is about leadership. Don’t try to lead people who don’t want to follow you. Men need to build their life before chasing women. Men should fall in love with women before falling in love with a particular woman. I don’t hate women; feminism hates women. Women are the biggest cock-blockers of other women’s eros. Have the mindset of incremental change in your eros and relationships. Men need an appetite for hearing the bad news in their life. A man in denial is not a good look. You cannot lead if you live in denial. Failure and getting off the dirt is how men are forged. Men should be reality-testing other men. Women’s unconditional eros is indeed magnificent; and it is so big that it scares even women. Women’s eros stops following rules after a certain point. Focus on what you have to offer the other — men to women; women to men. Acquire more mastery so you have more to contribute to others. Give to the right people, and then look for reciprocity. UPCOMING WORKSHOPS : https://omrupani.org/workshops-test/ — Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org

SOMATIC PRACTITIONERS WILL THRIVE IN THE COMING AI JOB DISPLACEMENT Lauren are I are thrilled to be launching the next cohort and version of our very successful Priestess of Dark Eros — a premier BDSM training for women — for women who want to be practitioners, as well those who simply want to have this expansion for their personal growth. For those of you who do want to bring the BDSM arts into your mastery as practitioners, let us just say that our graduates are doing quite well and lucratively with our training.  And, we believe that in the coming few years, the need, desire and demand for somatic practitioners is going to skyrocket, while so many other lines of work become obsolete by the coming onslaught of technology. Our Level I of Dark Priestess launches in Tulum in December, 8-14.  Please reach out if you have any questions.  Lauren and I are happy to get on a zoom call with you to answer any questions. Hope to see you in Tulum. COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/the-priestess-of-dark-eros Warmly, Om   www.OmRupani.org

PODCAST - ABOUT UPCOMING BALI WORKSHOP TOPICS Timestamps :  02:53        Why Relationships Thrive With Good Sex  05:54        How Containment Unlocks A Woman’s Femininity  09:03        Why Women Feel Attracted To A Man Who Leads Her 11:56        What You Can Do To Improve Your Sexual Mastery  15:01        How Men & Women Can Build Genuine Esteem  21:02        The Trait That Helps Men Get Good Fast  38:07        Why Misrepresenting Yourself Is A Bad Deal  41:58        What Is A Permission Field 49:10        Exploring Edgy Topics: Cuckolding and Open Relationships 56:06        Navigating Eros in Long-Term Relationships 01:01:09   The Alchemy of Desire 01:05:35   The Science of Desire and Functionality 01:12:37   The Importance of Discovery in Relationships COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-principles-dom-sub-exploration-course Please reach out if you have any questions. — Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org

COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM   Lauren and I are very excited to have expanded our very successful THE MODERN PRIESTESS OF EROS into a wider COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM. This new curriculum contains 6 Modules.  Each Module will be taught as an independent week-long retreat. Here’s more information about the curriculum : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/ Please reach out if you have any questions. Om www.OmRupani.org

WHY WOMEN SHOULD COME TO MY BDSM TRAINING I see the men and women who come to my training benefiting slightly different from what I offer.  I wanted to make two videos sharing what benefits I see my students gaining.  Men’s video to follow soon. 1.RECEIVE GOOD CONTAINMENT 2.GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR LITTLE GIRL 3.YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO VET A DOM GOING FORWARD  Or truly, how to vet any man you are considering of taking as a lover or a partner. — — AUSTRIA - August 5-11; 2025 Course Page : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-principles-dom-sub-exploration-course DOMINICAN REPUBLIC - February 8-14; 2026 Course Page : https://omrupani.org/tantra-bdsm —— Both retreats are $3200 per student.  Room & Board included in course fee. www.OmRupani.org

UNDERSTANDING WOMEN’S FUCKING ENERGY I believe women have at least two distinct modalities of turn-on or arousal.  I believe there is a particular ‘frequency’ of women’s arousal that is their fucking energy — where they want to be penetrated. Men’s erections occur in response to this energy. If this observation is correct, the implications that come out of it are many. This is a starting conversation on this topic and on this premise.  Others to follow soon. — Om Rupani Course Mentioned In Video : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-hands www.OmRupani.org

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5 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T PARTNER WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE  NEGATIVE PEOPLE ACTUALLY DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO RELATIONSHIPS. A successful relationship is two are more people coming into agreement. Chronically unhappy people tend to be out of agreement with life itself. They are ungracious. They are ungrateful. They have no appreciation for the good that is around them. Such a person has true inclination to be gracious towards other humans, to be thankful for the good that others bring into their life.   If a person seem determined to not come into agreement with you or with life, you will not have a successful connection with them. 2.  NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE DREAM KILLERS To be negative is to be negative about the future. I would in fact define whether a person is officially negative or not by this particular metric : WHAT’S THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARDS THE FUTURE — THIER OWN FUTURE AND THE WORLD’S FUTURE? If a person is future-forward, they are not negative. Those who are negative people by this definition — don’t ever share your future plans with these people.  They will do their utmost to snuff your flame. 3.  YOU WILL FAIL AS A ROMANTIC PARTNER WITH THEM. This particular point applies even more to men than women.  We all have the desire to please our partner, but men feel this metric at an even deeper level.  When our woman is happy, we feel like kings.  When she is unhappy, it lands in us as failure. Pick a woman who is chronically unhappy, and you set yourself to being and feeling like a chronic failure. 4.  THEIR NEGATIVITY IS OFTEN MALEVOLENT Maybe there is a small number of negative and pessimistic people who just live their sully ives in the corner, but most people who are future-negative are deeply envious of others who are optimistic, future-forward, creative, endeavoring, taking chances, succeeding. Be double careful of inviting such malevolent energy into your creation and production circle.  They are saboteurs. 5.  AS YOUR PARTNER, THE NEGATIVE PERSON IS ROOTING FOR YOUR FAILURE A truly negative person cannot tolerate progress and success anywhere.  They won’t make an exception for you even if you are married to them. The very core purpose of a good relationship ought to be that the two people are rooting for each other.  You are a stand for each other.  You want the other to succeed and thrive.  If you can’t say this about yourself, you suck as a partner and your other will suffer because of it, and vice versa. — Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org