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Nicole Jardim joins me live on Clubhouse to talk about all things women\'s health, periods, vaginas, and how to function at your best. Holistic health doesn\'t mean divorcing your doctor - it simply incorporates a much broader understanding of natural methods including CBD, nutrition, gut health, liver detox, herbs, and so many other considerations to get your body to function at its max capacity.\r\n Follow Nicole:\r\n Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nicolemjardim/\r\n Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/nicolemjardim/\r\n Buy her Book, Fix Your Period \r\n My latest course, The Social Media Accelerator, is available now and will help you with social media tools and strategies to grow your following and increase conversions.\r\n

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As women we work hard not to compare ourselves to each other. We know we shouldn't and that it's unhealthy, but it's always easier said than done.  Mikala has taken a break from social media and I (Rachel) am more obsessed than ever! Careers, parenting, relationships, faith, mental health and much more are all impacted by what we see on the grid. What would it look like if we STOPPED playing the comparison game and learned to live as ourselves??? Relationship goals are tough because two people with very different everythings are working to make a life together. Relationship challenges are as unique as snowflakes. The nuances are impossible to list, so stop aspiring to be something you saw on the Hallmark Channel or Disney+. No matter what kind of relationship you are in, you are the boss of you and get to decide what your life looks like. Word of the Year We also talk about our words for the year and how they are coming to life already, just a few weeks into the new year. We would love to hear your word of the year and how that's going for you so far. Find us below and check out some of our recommended resources:  Rachel IG: @rachelthestewart TikTok: @rachelstewart_sd Twitter: @rachelstewartsd Clubhouse: @rachelstewart1 Mikala IG: @mikalanicole Resources Relationship Goals by Michael Todd Chaos Clarified by Rachel Stewart Healthy Relationships My One Word

Find more resources at www.piecesofgrit.com  One of the most popular episodes, here is my conversation with Lana Kairos. Everyone has pieces of their true self they hide or dismiss. But what if getting to know your core identity was the key to unleashing your potential? This is the first step to being a better version of you. All you need to experience success is already inside you. It just takes work and often a little guidance to bring that out.  Lana challenges us to identify our core values in the process of achieving our potential.  Success is unique to each person and as we embrace our inner selves, success may mean something different than we originally thought. Feelings ARE reality. At least where you are in the moment. Allow yourself to feel the good and the bad, then use those emotions to trace back to the beliefs associated with them.  Once you identify the beliefs, you can choose to keep or replace them.  This is where the benefits of authenticity have a chance to redirect your path. Inst: @thebiglifecoach web: lanakrtolica.com

Follow Rachel & Mikala to stay up to date on resources and events through Pieces of Grit @rachelthestewart @mikalanicole Abby had been a world travel, living and teaching abroad, adventuring as she worked out her personal identity and navigated the aftermath of a broken engagement and relational trauma. She met and married the love of her life, they were settling in to a new city, she was building her career and working on her personal growth, then came the blow of the century. Diagnosed with a form of cancer so rare her initial oncologist wouldn't even treat her. After being diagnosed with Burkitt lymphoma, she started chemotherapy within 48 hours and spent 21 straight days in the hospital. She has just started a new teaching job, Abby had also recently stepped into a leadership role with the youth at her church and now she had to not only lead herself down this path, but was setting an example of faith for all of these kids through her leadership. I have loved watching Abby through this season. Barely 30 years old she speaks with wisdom and grace. An enneagram type 2, she is also learning how to focus on her well-being and health. I could fill a book with the takeaways she shares. I hope you enjoy this as much as I did recording it. Resources Chaos Clarified Workbook Honest Enneagram Rich Bitch     00000239 00000239 00009E3D 00009E3D 00181AD1 00181AD1 00007E86 00007E86 0016DD92 0016DD92

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Carl Lentz isn't the first megachurch pastor to wear skinny jeans, tight button down shirts, or cheat on his spouse. So where is this problem coming from and how do we as both leaders and church members change what is happening? There is also a definite double standard toward female church leaders and females in any visibly position. Our conversation was instigated by an article written by Katelyn Beaty, which you can find HERE. Also, here is the book Katelyn wrote, A Woman's Place. Instagram Mikala @mikalanicole Rachel @rachelthestewart Get in touch with us at Pieces of Grit if you want to connect just to chat, share your experiences, ask a question, or get a little coaching. We love meeting new women and joining you on your journey. Rachel Stewart is a marketing consultant at Copper Hive Consulting. Mikala is a realtor with Redfin in San Diego. Each have more than ten years of experience in church leadership and are passionate about supporting women in ministry.

As a followup to our conversation about Kamala Harris, we invited someone with a very different perspective to talk to us. We had to reschedule at the last minute, but since we were already on a call might as well record, right? I (Rachel) just took a 23andMe.com DNA test and was surprised by Brooks' results. Mikala has taken one, too, so we cover a little of that. Which led to Angelina Jolie and what you would do if you knew you had a likelihood of getting cancer or you were actually diagnosed with cancer. Instagram Mikala @mikalanicole Rachel @rachelthestewart Resources 23&Me Test Ancestry DNA Test

Mikala suggested discussing calling and I just about gagged. Knowing that we disagreed on this topic and how the church has put so much pressure on women to find their "calling", we decided to jump into this conversation without knowing any details about what the other was going to say. Find us on social media and let us know your perspective on calling and the experience you've had in finding that calling. Instagram Mikala @mikalanicole Rachel @rachelthestewart Resources Callings Callings by Greg Michael Levoy Callings by William C. Placher

There has been a lot of negativity coming from people who didn't vote for Kamala Harris. I'm surprised it came from women, so Mikala and I decided to discuss how breaking glass ceilings and being the first in any area is both challenging and rewarding. As women of faith we are excited to see progress being made in leadership opportunities and happy for whoever is the one breaking those ceilings.

Piecesofgrit.com is where you can find blogs and resources to challenge yourself to learn more about who you are and how to take the next steps down whatever path you are on. Finding Clarity in the Chaos by Rachel Stewart is available on Amazon now. This interactive workbook will help you peel back the layers of life to discover core values, your personal mission statement, strengths and more. Through this introspective deep dive you'll create a framework through which you can filter life's choices and decisions. Jory Micah Jory completed an AA in Practical Theology, a BS in Church Ministries and an MA in Biblical Studies with an emphasis on Christian Doctrine and Church History. She wrote her master’s thesis on female leadership in the first and second centuries of the Christian Church, using the Bible as her primary source. She is a sold-out follower of Christ and has made it her mission to tell others about His amazing, non-judgmental love, as well as His radical counter-cultural empowerment of women & girls (Read my master’s thesis here). She is a traveling speaker & minister as well as a female pastor & writer. She advises & supports women and men of all different ages online via skype or phone on all things life & online platform building (email her @jorymicah@gmail.com if you are interested in setting up an appointment). Explore her website for more details on my speaking & my Christian advice and support business. Find Jory on social media. She is @jorymicah across all platforms. Resources Developing Female Leaders A Woman's Place  Women in Ministry: Four Views

Explore all our resources on grit, faith and feminism at piecesofgrit.com. Follow Mikala on Instagram Follow Rachel on Instagram We cover all the things about being uncomfortable, from Mike Pence's fly friend to sweating over a crush. More importantly, how does this connect to our faith and what does God say about being uncomfortable? Being uncomfortable might not sound like fun, but it can push you to deeper self introspection, personal growth, and life improvements. Resources Bright Line Eating Liturgy of the Ordinary Leonard Sweet: So Beautiful Celebration of Discipline

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We should have many more women working in construction - the multi-tasking, the creativity, the customer service. GC Stephanie Sharp is changing the face of the construction industry. As an architect, realtor, and General Contractor, she serves high end clients in Utah building custom homes. She shares why this is a viable career option for women and how it compares to other trade industries. Stephanie is setting the bar for women to find their place in the construction industry. As an architect and General Contractor she lives in a male dominated world, but knows the balance her perspective and approach brings to each project. In the ever-changing landscape of the job market for young adults she advocates for trades as a viable alternative to a traditional four-year degree. It’s important that women understand all the options available to them as they finish high school and try to determine their next steps. It hasn’t been easy for Stephanie, with serious medical issues throughout her life and pursuing multiple careers that intertwine to give her an edge as a professional woman. Follow her and watch as she continues to change the space for women entering construction. Follow Stephanie on Instagram Pieces of Grit Tip Jar Other Resources Chaos Clarified Book by Rachel Stewart Downloadable Worksheets

It doesn't matter if we are in a pandemic, if you provide value to your company you need to paid what you are worth. Take a listen and prepare for that conversation.  Tip Jar for Pieces of Grit - show us some love! Other Resources Ask for More Negotiating the Sweet Spot Copper Hive Consulting: Nonprofit Development & Marketing

Oneya Okuwobi, author, doctoral candidate, wife, pastor, and mother, joined a Zoom call with some of the show's listeners who requested time with her to open up about some of the questions they have regarding race. The questions hit on a variety of topics, so be sure you catch the whole thing. Watch the YouTube version. Support Oneya's church: 21st Century Church in Cincinnati Oneya's book: Multiethnic Conversations

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There aren’t a lot of notes, so just listen. :) Visit www.piecesofgrit.com/resources for more resources to help you on your journey of personal development. Hey, throw a little tip toward Pieces of Grit to say thanks and help keep the show going. Chaos Clarified book Resources to save and budget your money Dave Ramsey How to Save Money