Precisely Nowhere

If you’ve ever thought, “what the hell am I doing with my career?”, this is for you 🩵 No one really teaches you how to navigate the in-between… the part where you’re applying to jobs, second guessing yourself, and trying to make the “right” decision. Instead of guessing your way through it, here’s a more grounded approach:: ➡️ Treat your job search like a two-way street. You’re not just trying to get picked, you’re deciding what fits. ➡️ Pay attention to culture, not just titles. Your day-to-day experience > how the job sounds on paper. ➡️ Take advice, but don’t outsource your decision. You’re the one who has to live that life. ➡️ And maybe most importantly, stop assuming everyone else has it figured out. They don’t. They’re just moving anyway. This episode walks through how to navigate a career pivot or job search in a way that actually feels aligned, not rushed, not forced, not just “good on paper.” If you’re feeling stuck, this might help you get clearer on your next step (even if it’s not the final one) ✨ 🎧Tune in if you’re in this season right now, what’s one decision you’ve been overthinking that you’re ready to trust yourself on?   Relevant links: Loop & Tie: https://www.loopandtie.com/  @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

History repeats if we stay silent. From attending No Kings rallies, to finding the courage to start a Podcast before I felt “ready”, this one is for anyone looking for new ways to keep growing.  PS: Tune in for tips on how to tackle that thing you’ve been wanting to start, but don’t feel “ready”.    Relevant links: I am app (positive affirmations): https://theiam.app/  wekeep.us.safe.ranchocucamonga on Instagram @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Whether it’s spring or fall, a good spring cleaning sesh does the mind good. Or at least that’s my hot take. In today’s episode we share some highlights from a recent family trip to Mexico, and talk about how new seasons are a great opportunity for us to pause, practice being present, and check-in with ourselves.    Book I’m currently reading: “There Are No Stars Here” by J.S. Thompson   Relevant links: Link to buy your own copy of “There Are No Stars Here” by J.S. Thompson - https://jsthompsonauthor.com/  Tacos, Therapy & Thriving Through Fall - https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-u267n-195f3b6  Fall Self-Care Guide and Home Decor Tips - https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-jemsi-16e4123  Celebrating Growth, the Fall Equinox, and Baby Steps - https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-f3f5e-14b69a3  @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Dearest Precisely Nowhere Listener,   In today’s episode, we’re chatting about inspiring women that I’ve come across through film, television, and literature. Stories that moved me, grounded me, and reminded me where I come from and what actually matters.   Consider this your curated watchlist (and read list), with a lot of spice. An episode full of culture, growth, and women who are navigating life (and messy moments), just like us.   Relevant links: Inland Empire No Kings Rally: https://www.mobilize.us/aft/event/840226/ @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

March already?! This episode is about the art of saying no and why boundaries aren’t about doing less, they’re about building a life that actually supports your growth.   Last year, burnout forced me to pause. This year, I’m choosing intention. We’re talking about reframing “no” as a yes to yourself, plus practical ways to set boundaries in relationships, work, and your social life (without guilt or overexplaining).   I’m also reflecting on a powerful line from Kathleen Griffith’s article “Walking the Site Before You Add Another Floor”: “I was building floors on a foundation that was already cracking.” It’s a reminder that growth doesn’t work when the foundation isn’t solid.   Before asking what you want to achieve this year, ask yourself: What kind of foundation are you building?    If you’re unlearning hustle culture, protecting your energy, and learning that “no” is a full sentence, this episode is for you.    Relevant links: “Walking the Site Before You Add Another Floor”, LinkedIn article by Kathleen Griffith @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

I’m on team humanity. As a first generation Latina with friends as diverse as they come, I stand with immigrants, LGBTQIA+, women, people who are facing injustices and discrimination for being alive. There’s no simpler way to put it, we need to abolish and defund ICE, take action to protect each other, and demand action from our representatives to protect us.   Relevant links: Stay informed (IG handles): Voto Latino (website, @votolatino) Indivisible (website, @indivisibleinlandempire) Inland Coalition For Immigrant Justice (website, @ic4ij) CHIRLA (website, @chirla_org) @_unidospodemos_ @jcfrias @jeremysthompson @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

In a world filled with noise, sometimes it can be challenging to find time to recharge and make time for growth. Join me and start the new year on a quieter note, with gentle intentions that allow you to meet yourself where you’re at.    Tune in to today’s episode and may it help you embrace your uniqueness, the timing of your life, and kick-off the new year at your own pace.      Relevant links: @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Being in a long distance relationship taught us a lot about each other and ourselves. In the words of the wise RuPaul, “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love somebody else?” Today’s episode is inspired by lived experiences and love.    Relevant links: @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram @midnite mind on SoundCloud

If you’ve ever left your comfort zone or moved to a new city, this one is for you. I know from firsthand experience that navigating a new environment can be daunting and exciting, all at once.  Remember to meet yourself where you’re at, and baby steps are progress. Let these 10 tips be your guide as you navigate a new city. Start with One Tiny Anchor Make a “Winter Joy List” Feel Your Sh*t, Don’t Lose Your Sh*t Say Yes (But Only to What Feels Safe & Aligned) Invest in Cozy Survival Gear Build a Soft Social Rhythm Bring Your Culture With You Create Your Own Sanctuary Let Yourself Be a Beginner Take One Tiny Step Toward Community Weekly Relevant links: @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

What does it really mean to find strength in the face of adversity? In this episode, I’m reflecting on powerful lessons from Oprah’s conversations with Dr. Maya Angelou, on resilience, inherited wisdom, and remembering your worth when life feels heavy.  A grounding conversation for anyone navigating change, growth, or a season that’s asking more of you. Relevant links: Super Soul Special: Dr. Maya Angelou, Part 1: 9 Words That Changed Her Life Super Soul Special: Dr. Maya Angelou, Part 2: Best Advice She Ever Received 35 Best New Year’s Traditions To Bring You Good Fortune in 2024 @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Trying something new as an adult can feel… humbling. This episode is a reminder that it can also be fun. José Salgado joins me to talk about learning to DJ in real time; chasing creative dreams in your thirties, finding joy in the messiness of starting something new, and all the laughs in between. If you’ve been craving a creative reset or permission to start before you feel “ready,” this one’s for you.   Relevant links: 365 featuring shygirl by Charli xcx: https://music.apple.com/us/song/365-featuring-shygirl/1767863308 Sweat by Melanie C (former Spice Girl): https://music.apple.com/us/song/sweat/1840516709 @manupushplay on Instagram, TikTok & SoundCloud @josemsalgado on Instagram @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Welcome to soft season — where we’re prioritizing rest, joy, cultura, and intentional gifting. This episode brings you simple winter self-care ideas along with thoughtful gift picks from Latin-owned brands.    Gift recommendations Fashion & accessories: JZD:https://shopjzd.com/  Hija De Tu Madre: https://hijadetumadre.com/ Olvera Street: https://www.olvera-street.com/  Home goods and more: Si Sabo Kids: https://bluestarpress.com/pages/si-sabo  Lil Libros: https://lillibros.com/ Mi Cultura store in Riverside: https://instagram.com/miculturariverside/  Beauty and skincare:  Nopalera: https://nopalera.co/  Vavica (va-vee-ka): https://shopvavica.com/ Rare Beauty: https://www.rarebeauty.com/  Relevant links: Reimagining Your Downtime, Practicing Compassion, and Unique Gift Ideas - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/precisely-nowhere/id1671835927?i=1000679441436 Mini-sode: 5 Self-Care Types and How to Practice Them - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/precisely-nowhere/id1671835927?i=1000639321487 The Importance of “Me Time”, Focusing On The Good, and Unique Holiday Gifts for Everyone On Your List - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/precisely-nowhere/id1671835927?i=1000634878602 @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Since I’m taking some intentional downtime this winter to rest and stay creatively inspired, I’m recording this one early. In this Thanksgiving-spirited episode, we talk about boundaries, little habits bringing me joy, seasonal self-care, and empowering shows to add to your list this winter. A chill, reflective, feel-good episode to help you move through the season with more intention and less pressure.   Relevant links: Simple Ways to Create Meaningful Connections and Moments of Gratitude: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-9a7pz-150705f  Build The Life You Want with Oprah and Arthur Brooks: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-6knwu-1510561  Simple Ways to Find Your Holiday Vibe and Make the Most of this Season: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-fphyv-1748559  A Dose of Gratitude (To Improve Your Mindset): https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-uihin-1752534  @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

What happens when you stop shrinking yourself? After two days of inspiration at Shine Away, I’m reflecting on what it means to live unapologetically and to expand without waiting for permission.   We’ll talk about what growth really feels like (spoiler: messy and magic), how to rebuild self-trust, and why joy is found not in arriving, but in the figuring.   Because expansion isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about outgrowing what no longer fits. ✨   Relevant links: @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

It’s episode 100 (!!) and wild to think how much has changed since Precisely Nowhere first launched — and since my assistant days with Rose Balzano.   In this special episode, we’re diving into The Devil Wears Prada, assistant life in NYC, and the girlboss era that shaped so many of us. We talk about chasing success, losing ourselves a little along the way, and the power of finding joy (in the present), growing up, and redefining what fulfillment looks like.   Relevant links: @astra_rose19 on TikTok @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Yes, my mom could actually outrun me, and she’s in the best shape of her life. In this episode, we chat about health, being a first-gen Latina, and her journey from single mom to total powerhouse.   If you’ve ever needed a reminder that it’s never too late to take care of yourself, or you just want to hear some real mamá wisdom — this one’s for you.     My mom’s 3 recent fav things: AirPods Good Culture (cottage cheese) OIKOS triple zero yogurt with granola   Relevant links: @anissarosales on Instagram @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

This fall, I’m choosing harmony over hustle. In today’s episode, I talk about slowing down, celebrating culture, and finding joy — even when life feels busy. I share what I’ve learned from Tracee Ellis Ross about harmony, how gratitude can shift your mindset, and why living intentionally matters more than checking every box.   Relevant links: “I Traveled to Thailand & Learned That Time Isn’t Real” by Racquel Reichard, https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/thailand-time-isnt-real  Millennial Loteria: https://bluestarpress.com/products/millennial-loteria  Cup o Coffee face and body mask: https://www.lush.com/us/en_us/p/cup-o-coffee-face-and-body-mask Follow @anissarosales on Instagram Follow @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram or Facebook  Follow @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

What’s scarier: a jump-scare movie or life’s surprises? 👀 Marco’s back and we’re diving into horror movies, ghost stories, haunted memories, AND that one zombie apocalypse strategy you didn’t know you needed. 🧟   Marco’s 3 recent fav things: Brain Gain App: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/brain-gain-iq-training-games/id6475691697  “For the Love of Men” by Liz Plank: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/for-the-love-of-men-liz-plank/1137054264  Sandman TV Show (on Netflix)   PS: Fall officially started this week, so happy fall and Hispanic Heritage Month. Here’s to celebrating our culture and cozy szn.https://preciselynowhere.podbean.com/e/tacos-therapy-thriving-through-fall    Relevant links: Liz Plank: https://www.instagram.com/feministabulous/?hl=en  Follow @anissarosales on Instagram Follow @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram or Facebook  Follow @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Hispanic Heritage Month begins next week. I’m celebrating by sharing my fav cultura-inspired recs—Karol G’s Tropicoqueta, Porto’s Bakery, Mi Cultura in Riverside, and binge-worthy shows like Wednesday season 2 and Acapulco. Plus, a few tips for surviving your next familia gathering (boundaries + abrazos included 😏).   I’m also diving into my pre-fall bucket list: terapia, gratitude, play, descanso, planning my next holiday. ✨   Think of this episode as your cultura-filled, cozy reset before the season changes. 🍁Perfect for celebrating roots, nurturing comunidad, and adding a little alegría to your life.   Relevant links: Trust your power, play more, and press play on something good ✨: https://admin5.podbean.com/preciselynowhere/episodes/form/YXeovjixYugY  Mi Cultura (Riverside, California): https://www.instagram.com/miculturariverside/?hl=en  Olvera Street (Los Angeles, California): https://www.calleolvera.com/  Palo Fierro (Rancho Cucamonga, California): https://palofierro-tacos.square.site/  Porto’s Bakery & Cafe (multiple California locations): https://www.portosbakery.com/  Baqba (San Bernardino, California): https://baqba.com/  Sugared At Venus (Brazilian Sugaring Hair Removal): https://www.vagaro.com/sugaredatvenus  Drafted: https://www.wearedrafted.co/  Nide Jardin (Aurora, Illinois): https://nidejardin.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoqt5SsvYGZoBj384Ez1fYVTDSVlv5eR_KTladnbFGyUAk9M9RkJ  Tecalitlan Restaurant (Aurora, Illinois): https://www.yelp.com/biz/tecalitlan-aurora  Follow @anissarosales on Instagram Follow @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram or Facebook  Follow @midnite_mind80 on Instagram

Life’s messy, magical, and full of surprises—kind of like my recent binge of Girls and my latest adventures.  In this episode, I’m recapping personal milestones (turning 32), diving into the difference between a full moon and a new moon, sharing binge-worthy TV recs, and reflecting on what it means to keep moving forward—baby steps and all.    Relevant links: Manifesting For Beginners, Target Holiday Decor Finds, and Personal Goal Setting: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-427pc-14dd520  BBC Article: https://www.skyatnightmagazine.com/space-science/full-moon-new-moon  September Full Moon Explained: https://parade.com/living/september-full-harvest-moon  Follow @midnite_mind80 on Instagram Follow @PreciselyNowhere on Instagram or Facebook  Follow @anissarosales on Instagram