School of Life

We're backkk! In this Season 6 kickoff, we tackle procrastination, overthinking, and the fear of taking action. I open up about my own struggle with holding back—like hesitating to host the Beyond Empowerment Women's Summit or delaying growth for this podcast. But here's the truth: perfection doesn't exist, and waiting doesn't serve anyone. Whether it's a side hustle, career pivot, or personal development—your ideas matter. Tune in for real talk, encouragement, and three actionable steps to start moving forward on your ideas today. It’s time to put that idea in motion!   Homework: Take action NOW!    Submit a Life Line at www.schooloflifepodcast.com   Follow Miss Jaye on all platforms @_missjaye

About the Check-In A Note from Miss Jaye, Host    Get ready for some life updates and a peek behind the curtain at the upcoming season six of the podcast. I'm excited to reveal that we're leveling up with fresh projects and celebrating five remarkable years of sharing, learning, and growing together. And while 'adulting' continues to test us, we keep setting those goals—like finding the perfect legal side hustle. So stay tuned, stay strong, and thanks for being a friend of the School of Life. Your support means the world, and I can't wait to welcome you back for our next chapter.        

About the Episode  Listen in as Miss Jaye takes a moment to reflect on the wisdom earned with each year as she approachs her 29th birthday. Sharing 29 life lessons, she invites you to join her in a celebration of personal growth and the trials that forge us. She touches on everything from setting boundaries, embracing forgiveness, and acknowledging the impact of her upbringing as the eldest daughter of young parents to the hard truths of adulting—evading Uncle Sam, wrangling student loans, and navigating health insurance. These stories are not just her own—they are signposts for anyone on the journey to self-improvement and empowerment. This episode is packed with heartfelt advice and affirmations to inspire you to keep pushing forward on your unique path, recognizing the beauty in each challenge and triumph along the way.   Annoucements Season 6 returns on Monday, July 1, 2024 Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram and TikTok @_missjaye for all behind the scenes footage

About the Episode Ever found yourself sweating bullets before a job interview, wishing you had the secret playbook to calm your nerves and crush it? That's exactly what we're unpacking in our audio-only journey, as I draw on personal experiences and lay out a battle plan to help you make your mark. From the importance of research to the art of storytelling through the STAR method, we're tackling how to present your experiences with clarity and confidence. Plus, we're turning the tables, ensuring you walk away knowing if the company's culture fits your career aspirations. Get your pens ready; this is the insider's guide to stepping up your interview game.    Time Stamps (05:46 - 08:19) Job Interview Preparation (16:47 - 17:50) Key Questions in Job Interviews (14:47) Effective Interview Prep Strategies    

About the Episode The complexities of life's journey demand a robust foundation in love and understanding, and this episode promises to equip you with the wisdom to build just that. Amidst adulthood's relentless pace, Miss Jaye's heartfelt reflections guide you through the ebbs and flows of a partnership, while offering key lessons from her personal tales of healing and bonding. Exploring the subtle dance of different communication styles, this episode reveals how patience and empathy can deepen your understanding of each other. It's a candid look at the practical steps you can take to ensure that your voices are not only heard but truly comprehended, paving the way for a thriving, growing partnership. Miss Jaye introduces you to the game-changing habit of monthly check-ins and challenges you to join us in this relationship-strengthening practice. By the episode's end, you'll be armed with a treasure trove of advice to invigorate your partnership this summer and for many seasons to come.   Time Stamps (00:20) Navigating Healthy Relationships in Adulthood (05:42) Building Healthy Communication for Growth (17:37) Healthy Relationship Strategies (25:03) Monthly Relationship Check-in Challenge

About the Episode This episode is your guide to thriving in the workplace, no matter where you're planted. Miss Jaye walks you through the mental shifts and proactive steps that have transformed her career path, proving that challenges aren't just obstacles—they're the stepping stones to your professional evolution. Specifically, learn how to leverage the often-overlooked benefits and networking opportunities right under your nose, turning every job into a launchpad for your career goals.    Time Stamps (00:20) Transforming to Your Dream Job (12:51) Maximizing Workplace Benefits and Networking (23:45) Maximizing Your Job Potential   Follow Us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/schooloflifepodcast/ Catch the Podcast on YouTube http://www.youtube.com/@schooloflifepodcast  

About the Episode  In this episode, Miss Jaye and her first cousin curls up on the couch for an intimate and engaging conversation that travels through the layers of family dynamics, hardships of adulthood, and the power of rebuilding connections. As blood relatives who have navigated the rough waters of estrangement, they candidly explore what it means to mend ties and cherish family. From laughter to the brink of tears, they offer personal insights into their journey of reconnection after almost a decade of being a part.    During their heart-to-heart, they reminisce about childhood days at their great grandmother's home in Birmingham, Alabama, and reflect on how adult family dynamics and physical distance can create chasms that take years to bridge. With the help of social media and a shared desire to reconnect, they discuss the emotional considerations and life changes that accompanied their rekindling. It's a story of reaching out as adults amid major life events, like pregnancy, and learning the value of communication, understanding, and support through all of life's ebbs and flows.   Time Stamps  (00:20) Family Rebuilding (04:18) Rebuilding Family Relationships (15:35) Building Familial Relationships Through Communication (23:50) Building Relationships Through Understanding (35:12) Nourishing Family Relationships Through Grace (40:15) School of Life Podcast

About the Episode Listen in as Miss Jaye opens up about a topic that's often overlooked but resonates with many of us—the grief of losing a friendship not through death, but through its natural end. In this heartfelt discussion, she shares her personal journey of navigating the complex emotions that accompany the loss of a close friend. The pain of such a loss can be confusing. Miss Jaye talks candidly about the necessity of processing these emotions without allowing them to anchor us in the past and stress the importance of remaining open to forming new friendships, even when we've been hurt before. She offers insights on how to move past the sadness while honoring the memories and lessons learned from these cherished relationships.  Miss Jaye reflects on the overall theme of personal growth and resilience. It's a gentle reminder that, while she doesn't have all the answers, the aim is to spark a flame of inspiration in you, encouraging continuous learning and self-improvement.   Highlights (03:52 - 05:03) Grieving a Lost Friendship (10:32 - 11:26) Importance of Friendship Accountability

About the Episode Embark on a profound exploration of identity with our esteemed guest Obaba, as we dissect the layers of selfhood shaped by the rich tapestry of HBCU life, the Nigerian-American dichotomy, and the trials of personal transformation. The School of Life podcast opens its doors to stories of cultural fusion, academic navigation, and the pursuit of authenticity. Obaba's candid revelations paint a vivid picture of the 'scenic route' through college, a reflection of the twists and turns in his journey to self-discovery. We celebrate the essence of living true to oneself, despite the pressures to conform, and the impact of identity on our everyday choices.   This episode is a tribute to the resilience and adaptability we muster as we redefine ourselves and our professional brands.   Time Stamps (00:20) Navigating Adulting and Identity Challenges- Obaba shares his college journey and the importance of identity, including morals, values, and living authentically for holistic development. (05:59) Navigating Nigerian American Identity Challenges- Navigating dual cultural identities as a Nigerian-American, balancing parental expectations, embracing heritage, pursuing personal passions, and the role of family support. (14:38) College Experience- Transitioning from high school passions to HBCU life, we explore cultural immersion, academic success, and identity exploration. (22:27) Identity Challenges in College Transition- Mother's gift of sewing machine, academic struggles, mental health challenges, and cultural identity within HBCU college experience. (26:22) Navigating Identity and Priorities in College- College student's journey of self-discovery and identity, balancing academics with social engagement and personal transformation. (32:17) Identity and Friendship in Life- Personal transformation, social dynamics, and self-perception are explored through a candid story and the value of honest friendships. (36:40) Navigating College Identity and Priorities- A young African student's transformative college experience, grappling with identity, academic challenges, and social pressures. (44:02) Navigating Identity Crises in Adulthood- Overcoming failures, embracing talents, and valuing self-worth outside of societal expectations in the journey of personal growth and self-discovery. (53:46) Identity Exploration and Self-Discovery- Relocating to DC led to a shift in identity, self-reflection, and renewed dedication to personal and professional growth. (59:18) Transitioning to a New Phase- Lessons from identity crises guide decision-making, balancing support and self-care, trusting intuition, and finding purpose in new life phases. (01:05:12) Homework Based on Authentic Identity- Self-awareness, authentic decisions, and personal growth shape our identity and contribute to rebranding ourselves professionally.   Follow Us Instagram: @schooloflifepodcast; @_missjaye TikTok: @_missjaye

About the Episode Say goodbye to the smoke and mirrors of social media "real estate gurus" as I strip down the hype and walk you through the tangible steps and harsh realities of real estate investment. As a fellow survivor of the post-college financial battlefield, I'm here to share the raw truth about the grind behind successful real estate ventures—no trust fund required. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom, beginning with a reality check about the financial commitment necessary to step into the property game. I'll walk you through the significance of rallying a squad of real-estate superstars—your realtor, broker, lender, and contractor—and the impact they can have on your investment outcome. You'll hear firsthand about the costly missteps I made and how they solidified the importance of money, teamwork, and continued education in the real estate domain. By the time we wrap up, you'll have a strategy-focused mindset, equipped with insights on market trends and the importance of staying the course with one investment path at a time.  Miss Jaye dishes out the actionable advice you need to start building your real estate knowledge base and identifying key allies to help elevate your investing game.    Time Stamps (00:04) Real Estate Investing for Regular People- Real estate investing for regular individuals, dispelling myths and emphasizing due diligence for building generational wealth. (05:09) Essential Tips for Real Estate Investing- Real estate investing requires at least a $20,000 commitment, a strong team, and continuous learning for success. (17:09) Real Estate Investing Tips and Strategies- Craft a clear strategy (whether its fix and flip, buy and hold, etc.), focus on one approach at a time, understand market trends and rates, network, set goals. (23:11) School of Life Podcast Episode Summary- Continual growth, resilience, life transitions, earning income, and connecting on Instagram were discussed in this episode.  

Unlock the secrets to soaring up the career ladder with our latest podcast episode where Miss Jaye shares her personal blueprint for achieving a six-figure salary by the age of 28. Guaranteed to provide you with actionable insights, this episode is a must-listen for everyone from eager graduates to seasoned professionals seeking that next big career leap.    This isn't just about reaching that six-figure milestone; it's about continuous evolution and mastering the strategic moves on the career chessboard. You'll hear about the significance of realizing and harnessing your undeniable skills, the power of standing out through consistent excellence and why expanding your skill set is crucial to avoid plateauing.    Tune in and let’s elevate your career together.   Timestamps (00:33 - 01:32) Elevating Your Career Mindset (04:51 - 06:22) Setting Yourself Up for College Success (09:10 - 10:23) Career Game Changer and Networking Growth (16:52 - 18:18) Career Transition Success Story (20:57 - 22:04) Transitioning Careers for Financial Success

About this Episode  Ever stare down the intimidating path of personal growth and wonder where to start? I've been there, and in this heartfelt return to the mic, I spill the secrets to conquering fears and striking a rhythm in life's chaotic dance. Join me as I lay bare the emotional hurdles that held me back, like imposter syndrome and the daunting fear of success, and discover how crafting my own blueprint for success led to a resurgence of passion—not just for podcasting but for embracing fitness and self-care as integral parts of my journey.   This episode is packed with revelations and strategies that promise to shake up your approach to goal setting and personal development. Picture your ambitions on a "bingo goals card," a novel method I've adopted that's transforming the way I chase my dreams. From the pride of stepping into real estate investment to navigating the twists and turns of a thriving relationship, I unpack the wisdom gleaned from this adventure. Plus, I give you a sneak peek into the exciting world of private equity and the lessons learned in the trenches of health and wellness.   As we welcome a new season of the School of Life podcast, we're not just stepping into another chapter—we're leaping into a transformative expedition. It's more than a podcast; it's a classroom where we pledge to outgrow our former selves.  Prepare to be inspired and challenged, and let's keep pushing the boundaries of what we know together.   Time Stamps (00:00) Overcoming Fears and Finding Consistency (05:54) Personal Growth and Success Journey (10:51) Real Estate, Imposter Syndrome, and Growth (16:29) New Season, Class in Session

With Mother's Day right around the corner, Miss Jaye takes time to discuss her very real struggle in navigating an estranged (but now budding) relationship with her biological mom. From anger, to forgiveness and growth, she tackles the importance of extending grace to moms and accepting what is while acknowledging the pain of missed moments. Grab your Kleenex and a journal, because it's about to get real.   Homework If you're navigating an estranged mommmy/daughter relationship, THINK about giving your mom some grace Share this episode with anyone you know navigating an estranged relationship with their mom   Leave Miss Jaye on Voicemail, for a chance to be featured on the show Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram  

Ladiesssss, this one is for you! This week we're getting real about why we need to get our insecurities in check and what it means to work on them while in a relationship. Miss Jaye gets straight to it, reminding us that making excuses for our insecurities is not cute and will not sustain us. She unpacks the root of insecurities- acknowledging the ugly monster that is childhood trauma, and give us practical advice to consider when on the journey to being a better person.    Homework Check at least one of your insecurities this week   For reference, check out episode 18: I Am Not My Childhood Trauma   Leave a voicemail Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram

How are you going to build generational weath if you don't have YOU wealth? Think about it... This week Miss Jaye is getting all up in our financial business- with love of course- to discuss the importance of establishing good money habits on the road to building wealth. That's why she shares 5 measurable actions we can take as we take better care of our finances; including how to budget better and get ahead of debt. She also discusses her definition of a financial "level up plan," and why you should have one.    Homework: Conduct a personal finance check up   Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram Leave Us a Voicemail, for a chance to be featured on the show

Life has been lifing like it's never lifed before! That's why in this episode, Miss Jaye takes time to remind you that you've survived 100% of your bad days, and will continue surviving as long as you reshape how you see your challenges. She shares from her personal experience of not imagining graduating college 10 years ago because life felt so dark, to walking across that stage 6 years ago and what it took to push through the darkness.  Homework Remind yourself of what you've overcome  Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram Leave us a voicemail

You better not leave that job without giving proper notice! Aht Aht. No matter how good or bad, a proper resignation is required. Contrary to popular belief, no matter how wronged you might feel, leaving a company without following proper protocols says more about YOU than the company. Sorry, we don't make the rules. But we can help you follow them. In this episode, Miss Jaye shares 5 tips to not burn your bridges on your way out the door, and walks us through how to write a proper resignation letter.   Homework Draft your resignation letter and plan how you'll have the conversation with your boss! Share this episode! Leave me a voicemail!   Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram

If we all learned to live in our purpose we would probably be happier, healthier, and full of more life. At least that's what Miss Jaye thinks! This week she explores the root of her professional unfulfillment and how a 9-5 experience helped her come to the life-changing realization that her paycheck did not match her purpose. She discusses the questions you should ask yourself to determine if you're in a purpose vs. paycheck battle; and offer three steps to take to WIN it.    Homework: Ask yourself if you're in the purpose vs. paycheck battle.    Learn more about our classmate, Jasmine's MaryKay business    Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram  Leave Miss Jaye a Voicemail    

Let's be real, one source of income just isn't going to cut it anymore, especially not in today's jacked up economy! That's exactly why Miss Jaye has turned to the world of investing to secure her "meal ticket out of the struggle." In this week's episode she discusses the role investing is currently playing in her life, dissects the importance of conducting thorough research before trusting Google's University graduates, and shares her top 3 resources for investing information.    Miss Jaye's Top 3 Investing Resources:   The Motley Fool Bigger Pockets  Black Girls in Real Estate    Homework: Interested in investing? Conduct thorough research on at least 1 reputable company.    Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram  Leave us a voicemail 

"I’m convinced that some of what we’re labeling 'mental health issues' are actually emotional immaturity issues..." Coach BJ Thompson definitely read us all for filth on Twitter; but y'all aren't new to this.     Just like @bj116, Miss Jaye is coming for necks and insecurites this week as we tackle a much needed conversation on emotional maturity, childhoold trauma, and pushing the limits of growth – all for the betterment of self. Grab your notebook, a mirror, and maybe event a Kleenex because the self-reflection will get real. Miss Jaye discusses her very personal and very real journey to emotional maturity and shares the keys that keep her on the mature path, most times.       Homework When faced with a difficult situation this week, and one will arise, choose emotional maturity.  Practing pausing and thinking about how much energy your emotional decisions will cost     Leave Us a Voicemail We want to hear from you! Head to www.schooloflifepodcast.com to leave us a voicemail. You never know, you might be featured on the show.      Follow Miss Jaye on Instagram Follow the podcast on Instagram