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Tune in to today's episode to learn a little bit about the science of priming. Discover why it's so important to be aware of the primes that we're exposed to ... and maybe have a laugh or two while we're at it! https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3402412/ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/232593421_The_Influence_of_In-Store_Music_on_Wine_Selections https://www.statista.com/statistics/272314/advertising-spending-in-the-us/

Discover 5 fundamental truths to incorporate into your parenting and learn why encouraging your children to follow virtues trumps showering them with praise https://www.instagram.com/theresilientkids Contact: EllaMaze2@gmail.com https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1541662644&sr=8-1&keywords=mindset+carol+s.+dweck https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Children-Secrets-Dysfunctional-Families/dp/0932194532/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1541662687&sr=8-1&keywords=adult+children+the+secrets+of+dysfunctional+families https://www.amazon.com/What-When-Talk-Your-Self/dp/1501171992/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1541662776&sr=8-1&keywords=what+to+say+when+you+talk+to+yourself+by+shad+helmstetter

In this episode we go over how to be the example that self-driven children need and why instilling hard work-ethic is only part of the “formula” in raising kids to be self driven and resilient adults. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Jrx6mFMrsM http://news.mit.edu/2017/babies-try-harder-seeing-adults-0921 https://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/parenting/nearly-90-per-cent-mothers-feel-guilty-good-news-can-conquer/ Questions, comments? Email me: EllaMaze2@gmail.com

What it means to love ourselves and our children, and how to love when it’s not easy. Books mentioned: The Art of Loving by Eric Fromm: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Loving-Erich-Fromm/dp/0061129739/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1539065798&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=eric+fromm+the+art+of+loving&dpPl=1&dpID=41GDAWN94aL&ref=plSrch Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/080701429X/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1539065890&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=viktor+frankl

A little tough love for parents who feel they need to toughen their kids up. Quiet that voice that you’re being undermined and discover how a true leader responds to being questioned/tested. REFERENCES: Russell Peters Comedy Now clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwbc_v1xBAU Whole show: https://www.amazon.com/Comedy-Now-Starring-Russell-Peters/dp/B000CR8QRU Baby Hearts: A Guide to Giving Your Child an Emotional Head Start by Dr. Susan Goodwyn and Dr. Linda Acredolo https://www.amazon.com/Baby-Hearts-Guide-Giving-Emotional/dp/0553382209/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1537254445&sr=1-1&keywords=baby+hearts Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationship by Daniel Goleman https://www.amazon.com/Social-Intelligence-Science-Human-Relationships/dp/055338449X The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are by Brene Brown https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X/ref=sr_1_1?s=boo

Are you worried that your kids will grow up to be self-entitled, irresponsible adults in this selfie-obsessed era? Are you unsure how to create an environment that fosters a responsibility, independence, and internal motivation? Do you wish to parent in a way that creates a balance of being real with your children but in a loving and mutually respectful way? Join us in the discussion.

Fully accepting our children for who they are; short-term discomfort for long-term gain Discover the benefits for both parents and children when we allow them to fully be themselves. 1) Maccoby EE. Historical overview of socialization research and theory. In: Grusec JE, Hastings PD, editors. Handbook of socialization. Guilford; New York, NY: 2007. p. 1.p. 41. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/growing-friendships/201603/what-s-the-hardest-stage-parenting https://www.empoweringparents.com/article/5-of-the-hardest-things-parents-face-how-to-handle-the-most-challenging-parenting-issues/ 1. https://contemporaryfamilies.org/brief-parenting-happiness/ 2. https://www.amazon.com/How-Raise-Adult-Overparenting-Prepare/dp/1250093635/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1533150290&sr=8-1&keywords=how+to+raise+an+adult pg 124 3. http://www2.psych.ubc.ca/~schaller/Psyc591Readings/HazanShaver1987.pdf Kobak, R. & Hazan, C. (1991). Attachment in marriage: Effects of security and accuracy of working

Feeling ready to allow your children to live their own lives? Or are you still not completely confident in changing your approach? Listen to these mantras to help encourage and support you in this journey.

Do you want your child to grow up to be autonomous and independent? Listen in to hear why the decision to have your child may be steering you in the wrong direction.