So Nigerian

In the spirit of Mother’s Day celebrated yesterday, this episode features chef and restaurateur Imoteda, founder of Fired & Iced, in a heartfelt conversation about motherhood, resilience, and building something for yourself against the odds. Imoteda shares her journey of becoming a mother in her first year of university and the realities of navigating life as a young single mum while still trying to figure out her future. She speaks about the role her family played in supporting her through that period and how that support system helped shape the woman she is today. The conversation also dives into her journey as a chef — from learning to cook for her daughter to eventually taking the bold step of opening her own restaurant. Through humour, vulnerability, and reflection, this episode celebrates the strength of mothers and the different paths that lead women to building the lives they want. Happy Mother’s Day!! JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://instagram.com/imoteda http://twitter.com/imoteda Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re joined by Olumurewa and Isioma, hosts of the MENISMS Podcast and friends of the podcast, for a lively conversation about modern dating and the behaviors that keep showing up in it. We unpack the question “what actually makes someone a fuck boy?”, diving into things like love bombing, avoiding labels, and the rise of situationship culture, especially in the Nigerian dating scene. The conversation also takes a lighter turn as we talk about icks — the small (and sometimes ridiculous) things that instantly turn people off in dating. Overall, it’s a witty and chaotic episode filled with laughs & honest takes.  JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://instagram.com/menismspod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re joined by Oye Pearl — Sexual and Reproductive Health (SRH) educator, youth advocate, and content creator — for a much-needed conversation about consent and what it really means in our context. We break down the misconceptions, the grey areas Nigerians often ignore, and how culture, religion, and upbringing shape the way we understand (or misunderstand) boundaries. From relationships to marriage to everyday interactions, Oye helps us unpack why consent is not just a buzzword — but a responsibility. JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://instagram.com/oyepearlinitiative Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s just Dami and Isaac this time — no guest, just pure gist, hot takes, and unfiltered opinions. The duo dive into listener dilemmas, offering advice (solicited and unsolicited), sharing their perspectives, and reacting in the way only they can. They also get into the ongoing drama in the Nollywood industry, unpacking the subtle (and not-so-subtle) jabs flying around about marketing strategies, promo tactics, and the politics of attention. As always, the conversation blends humour with sharp observations. From relationship wahala to industry side-eyes, this episode feels like sitting in on a chaotic but insightful group chat. JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re joined by Idris Abdulkareem, a listener of the podcast, who opens up about his journey as an ex-gambling addict now 6 months clean. With courage and vulnerability, Idris shares how his relationship with gambling started, how it slowly escalated, and how it eventually took over his life. He speaks candidly about losing everything, battling suicidal thoughts, and reaching a breaking point that forced him to confront the reality of his situation. The conversation walks through the darkest moments of addiction, the isolation that comes with it, and the difficult but life-changing decision to quit. More than anything, this episode is about accountability, recovery, and hope. It’s a reminder of how quickly things can spiral, but also how choosing help, honesty, and change can begin a new chapter. This is a powerful, sobering, and necessary conversation — one that may resonate deeply with anyone who has struggled, is struggling, or knows someone who is. JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://www.instagram.com/cambiassowrld https://www.tiktok.com/cambiasso950 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re joined by Virtuosi (aka Osasbaby) — host of Is This a Safe Space?, talent manager, influencer, brand strategist, and now freshly launched cheating recovery coach (yes, it happened live 🤣). This marks her second time on the podcast, after her first guest appearance years ago — an episode that remains a listener favourite to this day. We get into how Nigeria limits romance, the unspoken rules around love and dating, and why being romantic here can sometimes feel like a crime. The conversation also dives into cheating, how deeply it affects relationships, why some betrayals permanently change things, and whether you can ever truly come back from it. It’s witty, insightful, and full of laughs. JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://www.instagram.com/virtuousi https://twitter.com/virtuousii Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re joined by Chinasa Anukam — host of Is This Seat Taken?, Director, Stand-up comic, Writer, Actor, Certified jack of many trades, and Master of maintaining beauty — for a lively and humorous conversation. Although we couldn’t be joined by Isaac this week due to unforeseen circumstances, the vibes were still very much intact. We dive into the hot take that Nigerians — especially Nigerian men — may have completely lost the art of flirting, what flirting used to look like, and how it somehow turned into dry compliments and awkward DMs. Chinasa shares her thoughts, personal experiences, and very honest observations on modern-day flirting. The conversation also takes a playful turn as she talks about how much she loves Abuja, why the city has her heart, and how agberos somehow deliver the most creative, unfiltered compliments you’ll ever hear. From city love to street wisdom, nothing was off-limits. Overall, it’s a light and witty conversation!  Enjoy!  JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://www.instagram.com/chinasa_anukam https://twitter.com/chinasa_anukam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re joined by Ajibola Grey — lawyer, caterer, and social media influencer (yes, all three) — for an engaging conversation that jumps across culture, life choices, and personal growth. We get into the ongoing Wizkid vs Fela conversation, unpack how making impulse decisions has shaped major parts of his life, and dive into his journey of quitting smoking — the discipline, mindset shift, and lessons that came with it. It’s honest, entertaining, and surprisingly reflective — a conversation about choices, growth, and becoming more intentional with life. JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://www.instagram.com/theajibolagrey https://twitter.comtheajibolagrey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re joined by Chude Jideonwo — journalist, TV host, storyteller, and author — for a rich and engaging conversation. From being a genuine So Nigerian fan to sharing his thoughts on the growth of the podcast scene in Nigeria, Chude brings insight and depth to the conversation. He also opens up about his deeply personal new book, How Depression Saved My Life, speaking candidly about navigating depression, choosing healing, and the discipline and mindset shifts that led to his weight loss and personal transformation. It’s a vulnerable and insightful conversation about growth, purpose, and learning to live intentionally, even when life gets heavy. JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://www.instagram.com/chudeity Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Please hit the link below to join the whatsapp channel: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B On this episode of So Nigerian, we’re joined by Oladipupo Adebowale, popularly known as the King of Japa, for a deep and eye-opening conversation on migration, marriage, and the realities young Nigerian couples face after relocating to the UK. We unpack why so many couples choose to leave Nigeria together, the pressures that come with starting over abroad, and how cultural shifts, financial stress, and changing dynamics can strain relationships. From the expectations people carry into “Japa life” to the hard truths behind why some marriages don’t survive the move, this episode goes beyond the glossy version of relocation. Honest, thought-provoking, and necessary, it’s a conversation for anyone considering leaving Nigeria with a partner, or trying to make love and marriage work in a new country. First episode of the year, and we’re back with another banger! FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

First episode of the year, and we’re back with another banger! On this episode of So Nigerian, we ease into the new year by talking about our plans, resolutions, and the goals we’re carrying into the months ahead. From personal growth and career moves to the habits we’re trying to build and break, we get honest about what we want to achieve and why this year feels different. It’s a mix of intention-setting, realistic expectations, and a little pressure to actually follow through. Whether you’re big on resolutions or just figuring things out as you go, this episode is all about clarity, alignment, and starting the year with purpose. For the deepest parts of our hearts, we wish you all a happy new year. A year filled with goal smashing, achievements, blessings and more of So Nigerian.  As part of our new year goals, we’ve created a WhatsApp channel to connect with you guys on a more personal level. Please hit the link below to join: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

New year, fresh energy, and a moment to look back before moving forward. In this New Year episode of So Nigerian, we take time to reflect on the year that just ended, the wins we’re proud of, the losses that shaped us, and the lessons that stayed with us. We talk honestly about personal achievements, missed expectations, and everything in between, then round it all off with our own version of a year wrapped, the moments, memories, and milestones that defined our year on and off the mic. It’s reflective, real, and hopeful. Whether you’re setting intentions, taking stock, or just easing into the new year, this episode is the perfect companion as we step into what’s next. Here’s to growth, clarity, and a brand new chapter FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s Christmas, it’s chaotic, and it’s a major milestone for us! On this special Christmas episode of So Nigerian, we’re celebrating our 150th episode the only way we know how - with good vibes, unboxing some amazing goodies, and a lot of unseriousness. With the year winding down, we decided to let loose, reflect, and celebrate how far we’ve come, and in the process, you get to see a much crazier, more unfiltered side of Dami and Isaac. From laughter-filled moments to spontaneous energy, this episode is less about structure and more about celebration, gratitude, and holiday cheer. If you’re in the Christmas spirit and want something light, fun, and very on-brand So Nigerian, this one is for you. Tune in, relax, and celebrate 150 episodes with us. 🎁✨ FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of So Nigerian, we sit down with Melody MIA, radio host, hype woman, and one of the most electric voices in Nigeria’s live entertainment scene, for an honest and inspiring conversation about carving out space as a woman in a male-dominated industry. From commanding crowds on stage to holding her own behind the mic, Melody opens up about the journey that shaped her confidence, her voice, and her brand. We talk about how she found her calling in hosting and hyping, the realities people don’t see behind the energy, and the misconceptions that often follow women in entertainment. Melody shares moments where being a woman worked in her favour, times when it didn’t, and how she learned to set boundaries, earn respect, and stay unapologetically herself in spaces that don’t always make room for women. This episode is a candid exploration of confidence, resilience, and self-belief, packed with real-life stories, industry insights, and lessons for anyone trying to find their footing, especially women navigating industries where they’re often the minority. Whether you’re in entertainment, media, or just figuring out how to own your voice, this conversation will resonate deeply. FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://www.instagram.com/themelodynotmia Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on So Nigerian, we sit down with the one and only Check Edgar, host of the Why Am I Still Single podcast, a man who has somehow made navigating Lagos dating chaos both hilarious and painfully relatable. Together, we unpack the madness that is bachelor life in Lagos: the blessings, the curses, and the pure premium gbas gbos that come with it. From ideal (but realistic!) Lagos dates, awkward run-ins with people you’ve ghosted, and the art of spotting the friendzone before it embarrasses you. Edgar also shares some of his funniest stories, unfiltered takes, and why he thinks so many people are struggling to find love in this city. We also revisit one of our most talked-about topics: “Is cheating ever a mistake?”, and Edgar definitely did not hold back. If you love gist, dating wahala, sharp insights, and premium laughter, this is one episode you don’t want to miss. Tune in! Google forms: https://forms.gle/LKG8XM4v2yrax5dj9 FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://instagram.com/checkedgarr Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s episode, we sit down with one of Nigeria’s fastest-rising creators, Tobe “TOBESZN” Ugeh. If you’re active on TikTok, Instagram, or X, you’ve probably come across his clean aesthetics, travel content and hilarious videos. Here, we talk about what it really feels like when virality hits, how sudden attention can shape a creator’s journey, and the pressure that comes with becoming “the internet’s new favourite.” Tobe shares the story behind his first big moment, how he navigates the expectations to constantly top his previous work, and the realities of dealing with scrutiny in an online space where everyone has an opinion. We also explore the business side of content creation - the decisions, the opportunities, and the challenges that come with turning numbers into a career. Through it all, Tobe reflects on the importance of staying grounded and staying true to your voice even as the noise gets louder. This episode offers an honest and insightful look into the exciting, chaotic world of modern Nigerian content creation. If you’ve ever wondered what happens when the internet suddenly picks you, this conversation is one you don’t want to miss. Make sure to listen and share with your friends and families, even your enemies, there’s something for everyone in here! Google forms: https://forms.gle/LKG8XM4v2yrax5dj9 FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://instagram.com/tobeszn https://twitter.com/tobeszn Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we’re diving into one of those relationship topics everybody has experienced but nobody likes to admit - jealousy and insecurity.  Why do we get jealous? When is it normal, and when is it a red flag? Is it “cute” or is it a sign that something deeper is off? We break down the thin line between love, fear, and control, and why insecurity shows up even in the healthiest relationships. We talk triggers, trust issues, social media wahala, emotional maturity, and all the little things that make jealousy spiral into something bigger. And of course, we also get into how to communicate better so your relationship doesn’t turn into a battleground. If you’ve ever caught yourself overthinking, snooping, or fighting imaginary battles in your head, this one is for you.  Tune in, laugh with us, and maybe learn a thing or two about keeping your peace (and your relationship). Google forms: https://forms.gle/LKG8XM4v2yrax5dj9 FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From running a full-blown creative agency, to managing campaigns, to building a podcast network that has housed giants like I Said What I Said, Tea With Tay, and now, yours truly. And even contributing to Hilda Baci’s 2-time Guinness World Record journey, Seyi has seen it all. And today, he’s letting us behind the curtain. We talk about what it really takes to run a creative agency in Nigeria, the realities of leading a team, handling clients, scaling ideas, and staying relevant in a constantly shifting digital ecosystem. Then we dive into the podcast world, how Eggcorn built and manages some of the biggest shows, the business behind the scenes, and what the future of podcasting in Nigeria could look like. It’s a conversation packed with gems for creatives, storytellers, entrepreneurs, and anyone trying to build something meaningful in this chaotic but beautiful country. Trust us, you’ll love this one. Tune in! FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Watch and comment on YouTube - https://youtu.be/t4BTl1pvlVA Hey guys! On today’s episode, we are joined by the one and only Tosin Akinbo, a networking and marketing expert, and nightlife entrepreneur who knows the Lagos scene inside out. We talk about his evolution from marketing to nightlife, building relationships, the business behind the parties, and what really goes into creating those unforgettable nights out. From bottle service culture to brand activations, the economics of clubbing, and how social media has changed the entire game, nothing was left off the table. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to thrive in Nigeria’s nightlife industry (or just want to hear some wild behind-the-scenes gist 👀), this episode’s for you. If you’re looking forward to having many unforgettable nights in Detty December, this episode is made specially for you. So make sure you listen and share!! PS: This episode was recorded on 23rd of October, 2025. FOLLOW US ON: http://x.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ https://www.instagram.com/tosinakinbo https://x.com/itosinakinbo http://x.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://x.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re back, guys. Officially! A brand new season of So Nigerian is here, and we’re so happy to be back in full swing! It’s been a minute, and trust us, we’re coming with all the gist, all the hot takes, and the conversations that actually matter. For our comeback episode, we’re diving deep into something a lot of us have faced (or are currently facing - toxic relationships and knowing when to leave. From ignoring red flags to losing yourself in the name of love, we’re unpacking why it’s so hard to walk away, and what healing actually looks like after you finally do. If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Is it me, or is this just not healthy anymore?” — this episode is for you. Plug in, laugh, reflect, maybe text your therapist. We’re back and we’re going deep this season! FOLLOW US ON: Follow us on  http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.