Sommiie Speaks

I know I know! It's been a loooooong time! It wasn't even a hiatus, more like an extended procrastination. A lot has happened to me since the last time I published an episode. And I talk about some of it here, including some recent events too. And yes, Sommiie and SommiieSpeaks stand in solidarity with the youths of Nigeria demanding an end to police brutality and impunity in the country. #EndSARS #EndSWAT #EndPoliceBrutalityinNigeria Please listen, subscribe and share with your friends and family. And reach out on @sommiiespeaks on IG with your feedbacks. XOXO

Whats Your Spec? This is a question we always ask our friends when they pin their singleness on the type of people they usually some across. On today's episode, my awesome cousin and I sat down and discussed this topic from different angles and even talked about what the stereotypical Nigerian spec is. We also spill tea on what our own specs are, you know, just in case *wink*. Please click the link below to listen and subscribe 👇.

This is the story of how I got dumped by my first girlfriend. Lol. I still think about it sometimes and wonder how all the events leading up to it had shaped my actions and her decision too. Oh well, sit tight and enjoy this weird story. Lol.

Marriage is the legally and traditionally recognized union between people. It is a complicated lifelong commitment that people get into for various reasons. On today's episode I speak to some friends to get their take on the subject. Please listen, and share. Thank you.

I saw a debate on Twitter about this topic and the responses triggered me, so I had to address it. Listen and tell me what you think.

Red Flags in relationships are those behaviors you find odd in a person and make you uncomfortable. These are usually deal breakers that tell you the person might not be good for you. What are your Red Flags? Let's discuss.

The Hoe Phase is a period where you decide to just casually flirt and hookup with people with no strings attached. But, does this go away? Does it end? Is this just an excuse people use to mask their infidelity complex? Let's discuss

Long Distance Relationships are a no no for a lot of people because they come with amplified issues. Today I'm discussing the 5 biggest problems that plague Long Distance Relationships. I'll like to hear from you too. What are the issues I missed here? Also, would you date a person miles away that you've never had a close proximity relationship with?

Guuuuyyyyyssss I'm still recovering from my weekend. It was a roller-coaster and an eye opener too. Anyway, take a listen and tell me how yours went too. ????

As a guy do you feel the Bro Code is more important than your friendship with your female friends? Would you spill certain game secrets in order to prevent them getting their hearts broken? Let's talk about this!

A lot happened in the past week; from Kobe's passing to Pastor Adeboye's take on office relationships to the EPL deadline day drama and a lot more. Let's try to talk about as many as we can.

This is a topic a lot of guys lie about and a lot of girls prefer not to speak on but, today I want to address this from 3 angles; when to talk about it, how you'd feel about your partner's past numbers, and potential red flags in your partner's past. Tune in, listen and share your point of view too by leaving a voice message. Thank you!

There are a lot of misconceptions around the topic Domestic Violence. In this episode I try to shine a light on a few of them. Please note that you shouldn't be hitting anyone or encouraging anyone to do the same. You shouldn't even be protecting anyone who hits you in the name of love. Domestic violence is WRONG!!!! DO NOT AID AND ABET IT IN ANYWAY.

This is a question that most people have sought a definite answer to. Well, I decided to go straight to the source! I took a survey among people who have admitted to cheating, both boys and girls (and myself included). Some of their answers will surprise you. Take a listen. Ciao.

Is there a weirdness in the possibility of friendship between exes? I personally don't feel there's anything wrong with it but I can see why some may feel different. Take a listen and see if you agree.