Tea with China

I was asked to speak on how long you should wait to mess around with someone your friend has had dealings with in the past, or an ex in most cases. My opinion is way off for the most part, but it's how I felt about the situation I was in and situations I've witnessed! Often times, we talk about the code of girls and guys not realizing that a lot of times, certain situations shouldn't be considered as "violating the code." However, there are some instances where the code shouldn't be violated. I talk about a scenario of both and give my opinion based on past experience and how I felt at the time. Don't get me!!!! IG: chinadollcee_ SC: chinadollcee Email: chinadollceetv@gmail.com Rate the episode and share the podcast! Thanks for listening.

Sex Sells...or Does It?

A lot of people believe if they have their own house, car, job, and are without child, the should also have someone special in their lives. This my take on what it's like to be a parent in the dating world as it pertains to dealing with how "#teamnokids" may make single parent parents feel. It also touches on the other factors of why said team may be single vs the single parent having a healthy relationship.

There is always a question of whether the woman spends money on her spouse or not, whether she pays for dates or not. This episode basically touches on those questions and reasons why it may or may not be beneficial to the relationship or marriage. It gives insight on the effect that images of marriage that have painted out for us via television have on some women's real life views of spending money in the marriage, helping her spouse advance in life. Tell me what you think..

Too many times, a man cheats on his spouse and she takes it up with the other girl. Too many times a man makes his side girl way too comfortable, and she starts drama with his spouse! We as women really shouldn't be fighting! The problem is with the man that I cheating on you! I think a lot of women don't realize that absolutely nothing gets accomplished by fighting the girl because the girl isn't the one that is supposed to be committed to you! You fight her, hurt her feelings....or maybe her face, and then he just cheats on you again with a different girl! Nothing got accomplished!! At some point, women should be tired of fighting with each other over a man that's doing both of them wrong!

How much sex should a couple have?!? Everybody ask that question, and every answer is seemingly different! You have those that say sex whenever your spouse chooses to have sex. Some say a couple times a week. Other say a couple time a month. Then there's that percentage that says only a few times a year! All answers are different, and are usually looked down upon depending on who is listening! This is just my view on how things work in my relationship by my choice!

In the world we live in today, when we get caught doing wrong, we just continue on the lie. Why lie though when you're clearly already caught?!?

Ep. 8: Relationships 101...2

Ep 7: Deadbeat Mammies

Because we do everything via social media these days, we've also began fighting on social media. We do it out of anger because we don't understand that just because we don't see the consequences right then and there that they do exist! We don't realize that some people just want to see our downfall, and what better way to do it than on a platform like social media? Eventually, the social media fights have got to stop! It's sometimes entertaining but very remedial!

A lot of us indirectly beg people to like us. We make sure the light hits our faces right on the camera and find the right quotes from the edgiest songs just to get us a lot of lies on Instagram. We say things we normally wouldn't say to have people thinking that we're so cool. Our public attitudes read "non chalet" because that's what is "in" right now. We aren't really ever ourselves anymore; we're what everyone likes for us to be!

The title says it all!!

Every relationship has its problems. Some things can't always be fixed. When people leave a relationship that left them damaged, they usually think that life is over. There is always something better that comes after a heartbreak. You have to learn how to live life once your heart is broken!

Sometimes we just don't know when to leave a relationship. Plain and simple!

In this era of social media, we "baby momma a" tend to rant on our pages because of how we're treated by the father of our children. We make it hard for them to be fathers because we're still bitter about the way things ended not realizing we may be pushing them further away from our children. This episode is about how easy it is to make the "bitter baby momma" phrase an actual deal, and how things could be handled a different way!

There is an ongoing debate about whether women and men can be friends without sex and that women can't have sex without becoming attached. Some women, or even men, find themselves in a position where they've had sex with a friend and caught feelings. Some people can have sex with a friend and nothing changes. This episode is about both situations and a different look on it. It simply gives insight to who to and who not to make a sexual partner when it comes to friends. It gives you a sense of logic in a twisted way that allows you to understand that sometimes it's ok to catch feelings and sometimes it's just better to leave things be.

Introducing China