The Asian Dating Podcast

This conversation with matchmaker Maja Uckar is refreshingly real — no scripts, no rulebooks, just hard-won wisdom from someone who's genuinely in love with her work. Maja shares her philosophy on modern dating: move fast, keep it fun, and stop treating dates like job interviews. From knowing when to take things offline to supporting late-blooming men and divorced women rebuilding their confidence, this episode is packed with practical, permission-giving advice for anyone navigating the dating world today. Maja suggests you meet someone you meet online within within 2–3 days. Prolonged texting kills chemistry. Whether you're a man or a woman, if you want to meet someone, say so. The person who shows clear interest and suggests meeting almost always jumps to the front of the line. You have to be ready before you can be chosen. Whether it's a one-month reset for a burnt-out dater or a full six-month rebuild for a newly divorced woman, confidence comes first. You can't attract the right person when you're operating from a place of defeat.0:00 Introduction to Maja Uckar: East and West Coast Matchmaker3:30 When to take online dating offline?9:30 Hooking up on first date okay?12:40 There are no rules to dating, but to have fun16:30 What is something you love to talk about?19:20 How do you help your clients to stay positive?21:00 You need a reset, try it23:30 Didn’t find a client a partner, but they got so much out of the journey27:19 Inexperienced daters who bloom later in life need more dates & practice34:06 Mock dates for every client before a real date36:00 Women in 60s should do this40:50 Something as easy as clothes shopping can give you a new enthusiasm43:17 What are you doing on a date to make him or her comfortable?Maja Uckar is a professional matchmaker and certified dating and relationship coach with a background in premium, high-profile matchmaking. She specializes in personalization, discretion, and understanding the unique needs of discerning clients — blending intuition with strategy to create real love stories. Her approach transforms the search for love into something that feels fun, meaningful, and deeply personal.https://intronized.com/*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

Vivek's story isn't what you'd expect. On paper, he had it all...but underneath all that? He was quietly struggling, feeling lost, fearful, and disconnected from who he really was. Through years of therapy, coaching, and serious inner work, he discovered a version of himself that was warm, magnetic, and fully present — and now he helps others do the same. He eventually connected with Olivia Fox Cabane, author of The Charisma Myth, and went from editing her book to contributing to it.What You'll Take Away From This Episode:Charisma isn't a personality trait — it's a skill. Vivek breaks it down into three pillars: Presence ("I'm here with you"), Power ("I'm competent"), and Warmth ("I'm here for you"). Most of us are strong in one or two — and the inner work is figuring out which one is missing.The two-second pause will change your dates. Instead of responding the moment someone stops talking, wait two seconds. You'll be shocked how often they keep going — sharing something deeper, something real.Connection that usually takes five dates can happen in one.Stop trying to be impressive. Make them feel impressive. Vivek shares a story from The Charisma Myth about a woman who chose the man who made her feel like the most interesting person in the room — not the man who tried hardest to impress her. That's the shift.Ask better questions. Swap "How's work?" for "What's something you could talk about for hours that you don't get to talk about much?" The emotions your questions trigger get attached to you — so make them good ones.0:00 Introduction to Vivek Pandit4:00 Living in fear and then internal work with being charismatic5:30 Quarter midlife crisis because structure life has stopped6:46 Presence Power and Warmth = Charisma10:12 Meaning making machine: who are you?13:13 Best hack for singles: “Let Them Finish”14:20 You should wait 2 seconds before responding 18:10 Make the other person feel impressive in dating20:10 Men are always performing, can’t be themselves23:50 People are moving way to fast; slow down27:00 Ask these dating questions to associate positive thoughts with you34:20 Vivek’s topic he can talk about forever34:36 Wear something at a networking function as conversation starter37:08 How to be approachable: be warm…smile. It’s free.38:36 Here’s a secret: do the head tilt 40:00 Put the spotlight on herVivek Pandit is a Forbes 30 Under 30 entrepreneur, TEDx speaker, charisma coach, and founder of Quarter Life Crisis, a community helping ambitious young adults build confidence, clarity, and meaningful connection. He is also a contributor to the global bestselling book The Charisma Myth and creator of the viral “Let Them Finish” communication framework focused on presence, emotional intelligence, and magnetic conversation.Connect with Vivek:https://www.instagram.com/vivekpandit108/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/vivekpandit108/ https://www.instagram.com/quarterlifecrisis_club/ AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page:   / twoasianmatchmakers  Instagram:   / matchmakermay  Tiktok:   / asianmatchmaker88  LinkedIn:   / mayhui  ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency.

What if dating wasn’t about luck—but a skill you can actually learn? In this episode, I sit down with internationally recognized dating expert Hunt Ethridge to break down the real mechanics behind attraction, charisma, and connection. From helping a 40-year-old virgin transform his dating life to teaching everyday people how to spark instant chemistry, Hunt shares practical, surprisingly simple tools that anyone can use. We dive into how to ask emotionally engaging questions, build rapport through storytelling, and why removing “dating intent” is often the secret to becoming more magnetic. Whether it’s flirting, banter, or knowing how to approach someone naturally, this conversation reveals how small shifts can completely change your results. If you’ve ever felt awkward, overlooked, or unsure what to say—this episode will show you how to become someone people are naturally drawn to.0:00 Introduction to Hunt Ethridge, Dating and Relationship Coach2:35 Help a 40-year-old virgin4:23 How to ask emotional questions to make them feel good about you?10:30 Weed out the negative people13:09 Charisma15:19 Everyone needs to have one of these ready to go: triumphant, happy, and embarrassing story22:50 How should women capture men’s attention?26:50 All these skills are practice-able28:02 Remove dating intent when you are being social; just start a conversation32:04 Do your “one-offs”34:35 Flirting: learn to compliment and remove intent36:30 Banter and rapport; emotional leadership39:06 Ways to observe someone and start a conversation42:42 What kind of clients do Hunt help?Hunt Ethridge is an award-winning international dating and relationship expert with 20 years experience helping people become the best, most dateable versions of themselves. He has been lucky enough to have been featured in way over 100 different media outlets, with his favorites being AlleyWatch, Dubai Eye, CNN, The New York Times, Playboy and GQ.Currently he is on a Quest to speak with one person in every country on the planet about what dating and relationships are like in their area. IG - https://www.instagram.com/questforadvice/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@huntster44LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/huntethridge/*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this episode, I sit down with private matchmaker Lorii Abela to unpack why even highly successful individuals can feel stuck in their love lives—and what it really takes to choose the right partner. We explore the deeper layers of compatibility beyond chemistry, including family dynamics, cultural expectations, career demands, and long-term alignment. Lorii shares candid insights on common pitfalls like choosing the wrong partner, navigating in-law relationships, and understanding the real cost of misalignment over time. We also dive into practical topics like prenups, negotiation within marriage, and how long it truly takes to see who someone is. This conversation is a thoughtful look at intentional partner selection for those who want a lasting, aligned relationship—not just attraction in the moment.0:00 Introduction to Lorii Abela4:03 Why successful person struggle with their love life7:03 Family background, Filipina singles, live with in laws9:00 In laws want to stay with you for months11:42 Picking the wrong person13:30 Pre-nups16;27 What’s helped you in your marriage?18:46 Negotiation in a marriage21:33 Regret not having kids?23:23 Compatibility and chemistry27:10 Be prepared with who you marry and their career consumes them29:00 How long does it take to know what this person is really like?31:10 Traditional wife34:59 Lorii’s one master dating tip for singlesLorii Abela is a private matchmaker serving accomplished leaders ready for long-termpartnership built on alignment and discernment. With a background in relationshipdynamics and behavioral frameworks, she brings a structured and intentional approachto modern partner selection.What is the long-term cost of choosing someone who isn’t aligned with you?What does compatibility look like once the chemistry settles?Why can someone be very successful in life but feel stuck in love?How do culture and family expectations influence compatibility in Asian relationships?When is someone truly ready for a lasting partnership?Website: https://loriiabela.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loriiabelaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MatchmakerLoriiInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriiabela/X: https://x.com/MatchmakerLoriiYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@matchmakerloriiTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loriiabela*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post.

In this episode, I sit down with matchmaker Hayley Hurst, founder of Cohen Gray Connections, to talk about what’s really happening in modern dating and how both men and women can approach dating more effectively today. We dive into what truly matters when it comes to attraction, from job, lifestyle, and values to the often-overlooked importance of presence and communication. Hayley also shares insider strategies for online dating, including the best days to be active, what to avoid on your profile, and how authenticity can be your biggest advantage. Whether you’re navigating dating on your own or working with a matchmaker, this conversation is full of practical insights to help you date with more clarity, confidence, and intention.0:00 Introduction to Hayley Hurst3:50 What are women 50+ are looking for?4:30 Canadian clients come with less of a list6:50 Job title, height and religion still matter7:30 Online dating secrets11:30 Wednesday and Sunday are best online dating days14:10 Being present and have good communication skills is #1 importance21:20 Challenging clients are great if you connect with them and want to succeed22:20 Helping clients using online dating in our matchmaking memberships25:30 We can train them how to do online dating27:50 Don’t talk about what you don’t want on your dating profile28:24 Her husband loved Hayley’s oops and ended up being her authentic selfHayley Hurst is the founder of Cohen Gray Connections, a boutique matchmaking company she launched 1.5 years ago after several years working in the industry with another firm. With a background in high-end retail and client development, she brings a refined, personalized approach to modern matchmaking.A certified professional matchmaker and online dating expert, Hayley blends high-touch service with practical strategy to help singles navigate dating with clarity and confidence. Known for her sharp instincts and warm, honest guidance, she has helped clients build meaningful relationships, including a recent marriage. She believes that every successful match begins with a deep understanding of what someone truly needs.Learn more at www.cohengrayconnections.com, or follow her on Instagram @cohengrayconnections. She is also active on Facebook and LinkedIn under Hayley Hurst.*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York.

In this episode, I sit down with Wayfinder Life Coach Tricia Rose Stone to explore how women can shift their mindset around dating and relationships by changing the inner “lens” through which they see love. We talk about the pressure many women feel when dating, why connection is more of a creative and evolving process than a checklist, and how practicing simple, everyday interactions can build real confidence. Tricia shares practical tools—from easy conversation starters to reframing dating as something lighter and more empowering—while encouraging women to move out of a victim mindset and into one of self-trust and possibility. If dating has ever felt overwhelming or discouraging, this conversation will help you approach it with more clarity, ease, and intention.0:00 Introduction to Tricia Stone3:20 Do women want to do inner work10:00 Women are pressure with dating13:08 Can you really rattle off who you’re seeking?15:22 Dating is creative and learning process17:00 Inexperienced daters need to practice on dates19:15 Tricia’s own open and being present story24:24 “Do I know you?” easy ice breaker26:06 Have some “one” liners ready to go on your phone29:00 Treat every interaction as a friendly interaction, don’t think of it as dating energy32:35 Homework for listeners: practice the skill of being friendly35:00 Switch from thinking you’re a victim to being empoweredTricia Rose Stone is a Wayfinder Life Coach and former optometrist who helps women shift the inner “lens” through which they see love, so dating and relationships feel clearer, calmer, and more aligned. Through her work and her podcast Her New Lens, she guides women through heartbreak, dating fatigue, and major life transitions toward deeper self-trust and connection.https://triciarosestone.com/https://www.youtube.com/@TriciaRoseStonehttps://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/her-new-lens/id1785182807?l=en-GB*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this episode, I sit down with emotional intelligence dating coach Chris Gillis to unpack why so many successful, high-performing men thrive in their careers—but struggle in their dating lives. Chris shares how he helps men bridge that gap by translating connection, attraction, and communication in a way that actually works with women. We talk about moving beyond “nice guy” answers, how to bring more edge and authenticity into conversations, and why emotional intelligence is the real game-changer in dating. From how to approach women and navigate first dates to understanding what women really respond to, this conversation is full of practical insights for men who are ready to feel more confident, connected, and successful in love.0:00 Introduction to Chris Gillis2:37 To be nerdy but able to express and connect with women3:30 He helps men makes sense of dating, translate to the men8:34 Instead of “nice guy” answers, how to paint an edgier picture14:24 How to answer a woman on a date with the WHY, not a boring reply18:20 Why successful men crush their jobs but not dating life?21:10 Women should give men more grace23:10 Emotional Intelligence and men threading info in conversation25:53 How long should a first date be?30:17 One of Chris’ dating modules: Men asking a real woman for live help, flirting, etc.32:07 How should a man approach a woman?36:55 Do you suggest men to do online dating?42:20 Men are scared and that’s a good thingChris Gillis is an emotional intelligence dating coach for high-performing, kind-hearted men who struggle to find and attract high-quality partners. He’s the founder of Consultant Chris Coaching and the Emotional Intelligence Dating Academy, where he’s helped hundreds of men shift from lonely and overlooked to confident and connected in love.Instagram: http://instagram.com/consultantchris (http://instagram.com/consultantchris)LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/consultantchris/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/consultantchris/)YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ConsultantChris/ (https://www.youtube.com/@ConsultantChris/)Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556009036057TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ConsultantChris (https://www.tiktok.com/@ConsultantChris)Skool: http://www.skool.com/consultantchris (http://www.skool.com/consultantchris)Website: http://www.consultantchris.com (http://www.consultantchris.com)*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York.

In this episode, I sit down with self-sabotage expert and entrepreneur Mike Radoor to explore a powerful question: “Am I the man that I admire?” We dive into what truly defines a high-value man—from self-respect, discipline, and physical health to emotional awareness and relationship dynamics. Mike shares his journey from building multi-million-dollar companies while struggling internally, to transforming his life through accountability, fatherhood, and Stoic principles. We talk about why many high-achieving men still feel stuck, how to stop chasing and start attracting, and what it really takes to become a man worthy of the life—and partner—you want.0:00 Intro to Mike Radoor2:30 Realizing you are not a good man4:06 Mike’s mission: help high achieving men, rock bottom moment5:56 How do men know they need help?11:00 Men have a tougher time being single?13:20 Men can’t have platonic female friends17:00 Merging with your partner well20:00 Self-respect comes from your physical shape27:01 Get in good shape for your kid’s sake! Life ROI32:00 This is definition of a great man 34:34 Who are you not looking for? 36:31 Don’t chase, instead, attract them 36:57 Dating tip for men37:52 Figure out who you are not, ladies39:25 Mike’s new book “Man Up: Stop Breaking Your Own Promises”Mike Radoor is the Self-Sabotage Expert and author of Above Average and the upcoming MAN UP! He’s built and scaled multiple 8-figure companies including Miinto.com ($300M valuation) while mastering the character principles that separate top performers from those who self-destruct.After years of building empires while battling addiction and broken promises, Mike underwent a complete character transformation when his daughter was born. He applied ancient Stoic principles and modern psychology to rebuild himself from the inside out.https://www.mikeradoor.comhttps://www.mikesuniversity.commike@mikeradoor.com *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this episode, I sit down with astrologer and coach Elizabeth Weihmiller to explore how Eastern astrology can offer powerful, practical insights into dating, relationships, and self-awareness. We break down the differences between Eastern and Western astrology, how astrology is used in matchmaking, and why even skeptics can benefit from understanding their birth chart. Elizabeth shares how she uses just your birth date, time, and location to uncover patterns in personality, compatibility, and life direction—and how she delivers guidance in a grounded, actionable way. If you’ve ever been curious about astrology beyond horoscopes, this conversation shows how it can be a tool for clarity, connection, and making better relationship decisions.0:00 Introduction to Elizabeth Weihmiller3:30 Eastern vs. Western astrology4:34 Indian matchmaking uses Eastern astrology7:30 What kinds of questions do you ask an astrologist?9:56 Your opinion of horoscopes11:40 How are you different than a psychic reading?12:35 Skeptics are welcomed13:30 Date of birth, time of birth, and location is all she needs16:07 Dating help with astrology23:00 How do you deliver unpleasant news26:14 Do my elderly parent’s reading30:15 How do you learn to be an eastern astrologist?32:45 A reading runs about $29736:00 Bring on the skepticsElizabeth blends her experience as a coach and trainer in Corporate America with the power of the planets and astrology to provide customized, practical insights and coaching. People are the most important part of Earth and when they understand themselves better it helps everyone and helps understand compatibility between individuals. She feels the real magic happens when you combine the energy of the planets with the practical application day-to-day. website - https://www.elizabethweihmiller.com Insta - https://www.instagram.com/mindsouljourney Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/elizabethweihmiller/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@mindsouljourney*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this empowering episode, Transformation Coach Connie Curtis helps women unlearn old patterns, rebuild self-trust, and release the people-pleasing habits that keep them stuck. She shares powerful insights on self-love, intuition, and how to stop chasing butterflies or trying to change someone else. Through raw honesty and soulful humor, Connie reminds women that true freedom begins when you take off the mask, trust your gut, and choose yourself first. 0:00 Introduction to Connie Curtis 2:50 Women are waking up, unlearn past, unravel patterns 7:40 Can we change a man 11:00 Building self-love, self-respect equals not be a people pleaser 15:50 Be silent or walk away from something if needed 18:50 Inner work helps you take your mask off 22:50 Can you be okay being alone 28:00 Seeking butterflies on a date is a mistake 31:40 Trust your gut and intuition 38:20 Universe guides you, you can choose Connie Curtis is a Transformation Coach, empowerment speaker, and former people-pleaser turned full-time truth-teller. She helps women unlearn codependency, release old patterns, and reclaim their voice so they can date — and live — from radical self-trust and authentic desire. Known for her blend of sass, soul, and straight-talk, Connie guides women to stop performing in relationships and finally choose themselves. Website (Download the Freebie!): https://conniecurtisrebelcoaching.myflodesk.com/Instagram: https://instagram.com/ccrebelcoachingTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@awaken.the.spicy.rebel More Links and Places to Connect: https://linktr.ee/ccrebelcoachingEmail: conniecurtisrebelcoaching@gmail.com *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this insightful and entertaining episode, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares so many obvious mindset shifts that help successful women. He opens up about his Love U course and why so many accomplished women have a “broken picker,” normalizing bad relationships. Evan explains that healthy love requires effort, not hard work, and that real happiness is built on comfort, fun, attraction, and emotional safety—not constant chemistry.The 1% dating pool myth and why looking for the “male version” of yourself rarely works. Flirting, building connection, and the value of patience—reminding us there’s no downside to waiting for the right person. 0:00 Introduction to Evan Marc Katz3:03 Love U course to help successful women with their picker7:00 Don’t normalize bad relationships9:28 Relationships take effort, not hard work10:10 Double standard, height, 1% dating pool17:10 What age range are you open to?21:37 Chemistry is a 6; go out with them again; comfort, fun, attraction22:33 4 things predict happiness25:00 Looking for the opposite sex version of you is not the answer28:40 Evan’s new checklist makes sense32:30 Flirt and make someone feel good38:10 Women and men want to feel desired39:50 Men need help but don’t ask for it44:39 No downside to waiting to get married49:10 Talking at a dinner party led him to his wife53:36 We don’t need speed in datingEvan Marc Katz became the world’s first dating coach in 2003, specializing in helping smart, successful women create lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U Podcast has over 3 million downloads and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, the New York Times, and the Wall St. Journal.Busy women don’t need more information; they need more love. More attention. More confidence. More support. If you’re exhausted by taking care of your man, your kids, your clients, and your parents, Evan Marc Katz shows you how to choose a partner who takes care of YOU. Over 13,000 women have graduated from Love U, Evan’s coaching program and community for women.@realevanmarckatz.com on IG and TT, evanmarckatzfan on FB, and I can be found on my own Love U Podcast. The special gift for my listeners www.evanmarckatz.com/may *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this uplifting conversation, Lisa Ratner shares how she found love at age 45—proving it’s never too late for connection or companionship. After years of personal growth and self-discovery, Lisa learned to date with intention, embrace practice (and a few frogs), and teaches women to release the fear that “there aren’t enough good men out there.” She opens up about the inner work that made all the difference, the mindset shift that changed her dating life, and the “tall-enough” man who finally matched her energy. Whether you’re reentering the dating world after marriage or simply looking for inspiration, this episode is a masterclass in confidence, clarity, and compatibility.0:00 Introduction to Lisa Ratner, meet husband at age 454:50 Learned to know who I’m looking for and how I feel6:17 “I don’t want to be alone because there are not enough good guys out there”9:20 Where to start after being married for so long15:00 Dating requires practice, kiss a lot of frogs18:18 Do some inner work and take action. Get out there21:00 If you don’t like the people getting in touch with you online, this is what you need to do26:02 So many great men no online29:21 Her husband’s height? He’s “tall enough to reach most shelves”30:00 What makes you and your husband so compatible?Lisa RatnerCertified Matchmaker and Founder of Lisa Ratner Matchmaking & CoachingAfter 23 years in HR consulting, Lisa made a bold career pivot into the world of modern matchmaking. She received her certification from the Global Love Institute, the longest-running matchmaking school in the world, and now brings both personal insight and professional expertise to the dating space. With decades of experience in relationship-building in the workplace and her own decades-long journey to find lasting love, Lisa offers a personalized, hands-on approach that helps singles feel seen, supported, and hopeful in their search for love. She can’t wait to hear your story.Website: lisaratnermatchmaking.com/ LI: linkedin.com/in/lisa-ratner-matchmaking/IG: @lisaratnermatchmakingEmail: info@lisaratnermatchmaking.comAMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page:   / twoasianmatchmakers  Instagram:   / matchmakermay  Tiktok:   / asianmatchmaker88  LinkedIn:   / mayhui  ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this powerful episode, Claudia Lorant—speaker, educator, and creator of The Quantum Omni Mindset™—opens up about love, loss, and liberation. From carrying the “Scarlet D” of four divorces to spending the last fifteen years single, Claudia shares how heartbreak, therapy, and deep introspection became catalysts for healing. Together, we explore why some rush into marriage, the link between romantic validation and self-worth, and how each relationship mirrored her personal evolution. Claudia reveals how she transformed past trauma into wisdom, empathy, and a framework for transcendence—inviting us all to ask better questions, honor our highest self-respect, and turn pain into purpose.0:00 Intro to Claudia Laront, 4:00 Scarlet D for Divorce, the 4 marriages7:50 Do people who rush into marriages have issues?9:00 Hopeless romantic and submissiveness; marriage= I’m enough10:50 Single for last 15 years12:42 So much therapy and now helping others heal15:00 Traumas of the past and energy of transcendence17:20 Took all the best teachings into Claudia’s own framework24:05 Your 4 husbands aligned with you where you were ‘at’25:57 Wisdom, empathy, and sympathize27:30 Questions to ask your partners29:40 Highest self-respectClaudia Lorant is a powerful Latina speaker, educator, TV personality, and entrepreneur whose journey from early hardship to global impact has inspired over 16 million people. Born in Colombia and raised in the U.S., she blends cultural pride with a message of resilience and transformation.Through her media work on Univision, WeTV, TBS, and HBO Max, and her signature framework The Quantum Omni Mindset™, Claudia guides others to turn pain into purpose and lead with strength, healing, and authenticity. www.ClaudiaLorant.com*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this episode, May sits down with dating coach and author Nick Notas, who went from socially anxious and awkward with women to helping introverted men build confidence, flirt naturally, and connect authentically. They break down what flirting really looks like, what women respond to, why emotional self-awareness is attractive, and the subtle mistakes that cause men to lose women. Packed with practical insights and one simple dating hack most menoverlook, this conversation cuts through dating noise and gets real about modern attraction.    0:00 Introduction to Nick Notas, started off nerdy andhelping nerdy guys today 3:49 Social anxious, jealous, needy 4:28 How do men flirt or show interest 6:39 How do you teach introverted men to flirt? 9:09 Flirting is easier than being a lawyer, doctor, engineer! 11:23 Do men want strong women? 15:20 Women like him to have a therapist or a relationshipcoach? 18:00 What do men like to hear about what women are doing 19:57 Signal to women you’re proactive 21:00 How can men express his feelings?  24:30 What are men’sinsecurities? 25:35 Why do men lose women?  29:50 Dating hack:call her, not text her to death! 31:20 How do successful men let her know he’s successfulwithout sounding braggy   Nick is a dating andrelationship coach. For 18 years, he's helped thousands ofsmart men in 37 countries build genuine confidence andattract meaningful connections.   http://www.nicknotas.com https://www.youtube.com/@nicknotas https://www.instagram.com/nicknotas   *AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May forhelp: (310) 867-0851 Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/   ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIANDATING PODCAST What does Matchmaker May Do? You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in theircareers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle tofind meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screenthe women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, theymeet the right woman and fall in love. May Bugenhagen is a professional matchmaker, dating coach, and founder of TwoAsian Matchmakers, a boutique agency helping successful menfind meaningful relationships with Asian partners since 2009. Known for her warm, curious nature and love of love, May blends intuitionwith strategy to guide high-achieving singles toward genuine connection. Amember of the Matchmakers Alliance and GlobalLove Institute, she’s a respected voice in the industry and amentor to rising matchmakers. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan,Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist,and the Huffington Post.  

Want to know what the one question that reveals her true essence? This week, May sits down with filmmaker, storyteller, and unapologetically faith-driven creative Marcus “God’s Lil Soldier” Jones — a man who proves that spiritual depth and romantic connection can (and should) coexist.Marcus opens up about why he’s still single, what makes modern dating feel disconnected, and how faith, perspective, and self-awareness shape who we choose — and how we love. He reveals the questions men should be asking to truly understand a woman’s essence, how to spot when love is real versus ego-driven, and whether it’s ever smart to circle back to an ex.They also unpack why attraction starts with purpose, how your spiritual alignment affects chemistry, and the underrated power of being fully present. Marcus’s final dating tip? Stop chasing trends — connect with truth.This episode is part spiritual, part practical, and 100% eye-opening — especially for anyone looking to date with clarity, confidence, and faith.0:00 introduction to Marcus “God’s Lil Soldier” Jones3:00 He’s single and but no one is holding his interest4:07 How he’s shaped to be a good dater: listening, perspective, learn from parents5:56 How do you define love?6:44 What are the meaningful questions to know her essence?8:14 What does her faith look like? 9:22 Life is about perspective10:37 Some religions have been compromised11:30 Your own version of faith; Faith by Me13:10 Your calling is to inspire at the very least13:24 His lesson learned Present moment: how important is it?18:00 Get back together with an ex?21:15 What a man finds attractive25:00 What’s most important in life?28:20 One dating tip by MarcusMarcus “God’s Lil Soldier” Jones is a creative producer and documentary host who transforms real-life testimonies into powerful, faith-driven storytelling. As the founder of Faith By Me Productions and the voice behind the Kickin’ It With Me Podcast, he captures the raw moments of preparation, commitment, sacrifice, perseverance, and discipline that shape a person’s destiny. His mission is to inspire purpose, healing, and work ethic through cinematic narratives rooted in truth.Website: https://kickinitwithmepodcast.com/Instagram:   / gods_lil_soldier_  Facebook:   / marcus.jones.961993  Youtube:    / @kickinitwithmepodcast  AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page:   / twoasianmatchmakers  Instagram:   / matchmakermay  Tiktok:   / asianmatchmaker88  LinkedIn:   / mayhui  ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

In this episode, May and her guest dive into how unresolved trauma can quietly shape who we’re attracted to — and why “wound attracts wound.” They explore what it really means to love yourself before loving someone else, how gratitude rewires your patterns, and the power of healthy femininity, self-reflection, and boundaries in attracting emotionally available partners.0:00 Introduction2:05 Childhood trauma3:23 Wound attracts wound4:40 Love yourself to love someone else5:42 How do you know you need to work on it?6:39 Why do we attract wrong men?8:00 Can gratitude help you learn?9:17 Self-reflection and change your beliefs11:49 Healthy femininity12:51 Hip pain = trauma16:00 Grateful for what you have16:47 Having healthy boundaries18:00 Self-care, sexual promiscuity 20:40 Open your heartKerry is a transformational healer and intuitive guide who helps people turn emotional pain into personal power. After navigating childhood trauma, divorce, and deep spiritual awakening, she learned that healing isn’t about avoiding pain but transforming it into purpose. Through her own journey—from darkness to enlightenment—she discovered that relationships mirror what we most need to heal. Today, Kerry teaches others to find wisdom within their wounds and light within their shadows.Get in touch with Kerry at https://kerryblaser.com/AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page:   / twoasianmatchmakers  Instagram:   / matchmakermay  Tiktok:   / asianmatchmaker88  LinkedIn:   / mayhui  ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.

This episode features Jennie Agin, founder of Storyfull Matchmaking, sharing hands-on advice to help men improve their dating confidence and communication skills—especially through mock dates and real-world practice. Key points include: Why many men struggle with self-worth and leading with money (8:34–11:00) How to show genuine interest and give natural compliments (4:20–6:00) The importance of sharing hobbies and quirks to create connection (13:30–16:30) Using events and community activities to meet people authentically (21:00–23:07) How mock dates help Asian men (and others) build comfort, awareness, and feedback before real dates (26:30–29:15) Practice makes connection—mock dates are a safe space to refine skills, overcome anxiety, and learn what really builds chemistry. Jennie Agin, founder of Storyfull Matchmaking, helps smart, soulful professionals find meaningful, authentic connections beyond surface-level dating. Combining her background in science education with deep intuition, she guides thoughtful and emotionally intelligent singles—especially those who feel shy, sensitive, or overwhelmed by modern dating “rules.” Through Storyfull, she helps clients bring clarity, confidence, and intention to their love lives, crafting relationships that are both fulfilling and growth-oriented. https://www.storyfullmatchmaking.com/ To schedule a consultation: https://tidycal.com/jennie3/30-minute-meeting   *AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May forhelp: (310) 867-0851 Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/   ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIANDATING PODCAST What does Matchmaker May Do? You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in theircareers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle tofind meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screenthe women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, theymeet the right woman and fall in love. May Bugenhagen is a professional matchmaker, dating coach, and founder of TwoAsian Matchmakers, a boutique agency helping successful menfind meaningful relationships with Asian partners since 2009. Known for her warm, curious nature and love of love, May blends intuitionwith strategy to guide high-achieving singles toward genuine connection. Amember of the Matchmakers Alliance and GlobalLove Institute, she’s a respected voice in the industry and amentor to rising matchmakers. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan,Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist,and the Huffington Post.  

This episode features Xiaoli Mei, founder of Elite Asian Matchmaker, sharing insider insights on what truly attracts Asian women and how men can build lasting cross-cultural relationships. Key highlights include: Why ambition matters more than formal education (3:30) What Asian women look for in online dating profiles (4:30) How matchmakers “translate” for clients who struggle to present themselves (9:27–10:56) The importance of learning her culture—and even bringing a small gift to meet her parents (17:00–19:00) Red flags like gold diggers and the myth of “butterflies” (23:40–28:15) Dating best practices—how often to meet, when to meet friends, and when to discuss exclusivity (34:07–38:02) Why trusting your matchmaker and being flexible with your “type” leads to better matches (43:00–49:40) Understanding Asian dating dynamics, trusting the process, and learning how cultural respect, curiosity, and openness can create meaningful relationships. Xiaoli Mei is an elite Asian and celebrity matchmaker with deep expertise in relationship psychology and cross-cultural connection. Certified in both matchmaking and relationship coaching, she’s helped countless singles find meaningful love. Inspired by her own journey to uncover the “Happiness Code”—balancing success and fulfillment—Xiaoli now empowers others to create thriving, lasting relationships.   *AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May forhelp: (310) 867-0851 Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/   ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIANDATING PODCAST What does Matchmaker May Do? You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in theircareers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle tofind meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screenthe women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, theymeet the right woman and fall in love. May Bugenhagen is a professional matchmaker, dating coach, and founder of TwoAsian Matchmakers, a boutique agency helping successful menfind meaningful relationships with Asian partners since 2009. Known for her warm, curious nature and love of love, May blends intuitionwith strategy to guide high-achieving singles toward genuine connection. Amember of the Matchmakers Alliance and GlobalLove Institute, she’s a respected voice in the industry and amentor to rising matchmakers. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan,Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist,and the Huffington Post.  

The Red Panda & The Lioness — Matchmaker May and Amanda Hood dive into modern dating with warmth and wit. From balancing masculine/feminine energy to decoding dating apps, chivalry, and chemistry, they reveal what high-caliber singles are really doing right (and wrong). Tune in for real talk on attraction, alignment, and effort—the secret ingredients of lasting love.   Meet Amanda Hood, the Founder of The CrushConfidential. With more than two decades of marriage, three children, and an MBA shaping her perspective, she brings both real-life relationship insight and professional expertise to her work. She’s not just a matchmaker – she is yourlove coach. The Crush Confidential is more than a matchmaking agency.Rooted in the Midwest and proudly based in Ohio, we serve clients throughout major metros including Dayton, Cincinnati, Columbus, Indianapolis, and Cleveland. We advocate for new relationships by working with a three-date model, a thoughtful approach designed to strengthen early communication, reduce misunderstandings, and help genuine compatibility emerge. The signs of a committed relationship are built on talking openly, showing respect, and workingtoward shared goals. Our goal is simple: redefine matchmaking by focusing on continuous support, making The Crush Confidential the nation’s only full-service relationship curation agency. Schedule a consultation with Amanda: https://thecrushconfidential.com/meet-with-amanda/ More information about Amanda: https://thecrushconfidential.com/   *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May forhelp: (310) 867-0851 Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/   ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST What does Matchmaker May Do? You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in theircareers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, theymeet the right woman and fall in love. May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and justloves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker andDating Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry.  

Michal Naisteter is an elite matchmaker and super-connector who believes real love can’t be reduced to algorithms. With a deep understanding of human connection, she helps people move beyond surface-level swiping to find relationships that feel authentic, soulful, and aligned. Michal’s gift lies in seeing people clearly—how they dream, aspire, and connect—and introducing them not just to partners, but to deeper community, self-discovery, and meaningful futures. She makes the matches, and her clients create the magic. https://michalmatches.com/Connect with Michal: https://michalmatches.com/connect-with-michal/ Men's group: https://michalmatchmaking.com/mg-course-home-index 0:00 Introduction to Michal Naisteter with Men’s Group and being a digital nomad matchmaker 2:07 Rift between men and women online, frustrations in dating 3:26 Men’s group with sexologist; are women attractive to men who work on themselves?4:20 Women looking for reliability6:13 Men cry7:45 Sliding in your conversation that you’re seeing a therapist but don’t dwell on that topic on the whole date8:20 Don’t use your date as a therapist9:45 Seeking butterflies vs. roots11:40 People find love faster if they have a community12:26 Practical life tip: you excel in love and life when you’re in a community 16:22 What’s Michal’s virtual men group about, containers are created, create hope22:30 How do matchmakers define success27:00 Delayed sexual debut28:00 The key to dating is to just go29:50 Live your life so you’re not time deficient31:55 When we’re surrounded by connections, love finds us faster35:00 Average person spends 90 minutes swiping, instead go out in real life to talk to someone36:00 Let your date know what you’re working on39:24 Men need safe spaces, join Michal’s men’s group*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayAsian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasiansYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakersTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.