The Journey of Now

Embodying Authenticity: The Peace of Being Who You Are with Karis & Nicholas After awareness and disruption comes embodiment -  the lived experience of truth. In this final episode of the Authenticity Series, Karis and Nicholas explore what it feels like when the masks fall away and you finally start breathing as yourself. They unpack the nervous system’s role in authentic living, the unlearning of false selves, and the practices that make truth feel like home again. Expect grounded wisdom, poetic truth, and practical guidance for turning self-work into soul-anchored living. Because peace isn’t something you chase — it’s what rises when you stop pretending. Three Key Takeaways Authenticity lives in the body, not the mind - When your nervous system feels safe, truth flows effortlessly. Unlearning is liberation - Letting go of your survival identities makes space for your real self to breathe. Peace is the reward - The more congruent you become, the more life aligns around your truth — in love, business, and legacy. Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying Your Frequency Shift Podcast, leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts—it helps more people discover this work. ⚡ Discover where your energy is leaking → Take the Quiz Private Coaching • Corporate Coaching • Retreats Explore what’s possible for you at frequencycoaching.com Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin

Everyone loves the idea of being authentic—until it asks something of you. In this episode, Nick and Karis dive into the real cost of authenticity: rejection, discomfort, and the vulnerability that comes with being truly seen. They unpack how nervous system regulation shapes our ability to live and speak truth, why discernment is the quiet twin of authenticity, and how to navigate relationships when your growth triggers others. Through lived examples, practical nervous system wisdom, and heartfelt reflection, they explore how to hold your truth without performance—and how peace becomes the ultimate payoff for courage. Key Takeaways Authenticity always costs something—approval, comfort, or predictability—but the price of pretending is higher. True authenticity starts in the body. Regulation precedes discernment, and nervous system safety allows real expression. You can’t be authentic without vulnerability. Stop performing for belonging and start expressing from calm truth, not chaos. Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying Your Frequency Shift Podcast, leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts—it helps more people discover this work. ⚡ Discover where your energy is leaking → Take the Quiz Private Coaching • Corporate Coaching • Retreats Explore what’s possible for you at frequencycoaching.com Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin

In this opening episode of our three-part Authenticity Series, Nick and Karis dive into the hidden scripts we inherit from our families, culture, and ancestors. From epigenetics and generational trauma to people-pleasing, guilt, shame, and the inner critic — they uncover how much of what we carry was never truly ours to begin with. This conversation blends personal stories, hard truths, and empowering insights from thinkers like Mark Wolynn, Gabor Maté, Florence Scovel Shinn, and Michael Neill. You’ll walk away with the awareness that while patterns may not have started with you, the power to end them — and to reclaim your authenticity — is in your hands. Three Key Takeaways - Inherited Scripts Shape Our Story Trauma and beliefs can be passed down for generations, but they don’t define your destiny. Ask yourself: Whose voice do I hear in my self-criticism — and is it really mine? - Survival Strategies Aren’t Authenticity People-pleasing, guilt, and negative self-talk may have protected you once, but they keep you from fully living now. Ask yourself: What label was placed on me that I’m finally ready to release? - Authenticity Is Unlearning, Not Improving Coming back to your true self means peeling away false identities and rewriting the script of your life. Ask yourself: What would authenticity look like if I wasn’t afraid of being the villain in someone else’s story? Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying Your Frequency Shift Podcast, leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts—it helps more people discover this work. ⚡ Discover where your energy is leaking → Take the Quiz Private Coaching • Corporate Coaching • Retreats Explore what’s possible for you at frequencycoaching.com Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin

In this powerful comeback episode of the Frequency Shift Podcast, Karis and Nick sit down to explore a hard but necessary truth — that many men today are stuck in a state of suspended adolescence. They may look like adults on the outside — building businesses, raising families, ticking boxes — but beneath the surface, they’re still chasing comfort, avoiding responsibility, and outsourcing emotional leadership. The result? Burnout, broken trust, disconnection, and a deep sense of purposelessness. This episode isn’t about shame. It’s about the rite of passage from boyhood to manhood — and what it means to initiate yourself in a culture that has forgotten how. Whether you’re a man ready to rise or a partner who sees the man you love playing small — this conversation will give you language, clarity, and direction. 3 POWERFUL TAKEAWAYS: Boyhood Behaviours Keep You Small — Even in a Big Life. Addictions to porn, gaming, emotional outsourcing, and avoidance don’t just delay maturity — they rob men of power, clarity, and impact. True masculinity is forged in resistance, not comfort. Initiation is a Choice — Not a Calendar Date. Becoming a man isn’t something that happens at 18 or when you get a mortgage. It’s an intentional decision to take radical ownership, build internal structure, and lead from the inside out. The Cost of Staying a Boy Is Far Greater Than the Discomfort of Growth. When men avoid responsibility, it shows up in every domain: fractured relationships, a loss of trust, inner chaos, and women forced into masculine roles. The shift starts with you — and it starts now. Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. 1:1 Private & Corporate Coaching: Apply Here Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

Welcome back to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, the space where we delve into the depths of the human experience, uncovering the layers of what makes us who we are. I'm Karis, and joining me is my incredible husband and co-host, Nick. Today, we have a truly special guest—someone who has profoundly impacted Nick's life and inspires many through his journey of embracing vulnerability and redefining masculinity. In Episode 25 of the Your Frequency Shift Podcast, we sit down with Michael Cooper to discuss the transformative power of vulnerability in the modern world. Michael shares personal insights from his journey, touching on: The misconception of vulnerability as weakness. How embracing vulnerability can redefine masculinity. The role of emotional alchemy in personal growth. Impact of vulnerability on relationships and parenting. Practical steps for men to begin accessing their vulnerability. Key Discussion Points The Power of Vulnerability Michael delves into his personal journey of embracing vulnerability from a young age. Contrary to societal norms that often label vulnerability as weakness, he views it as a strength and a virtue. Early Realizations: Michael recalls, "I've always loved to the degree that I'm willing to wear my heart on my sleeve." Vulnerability as Expansion: He explains that vulnerability allows us to live in an expanded state, fostering growth and deeper connections. Redefining Masculinity We explore how traditional views of masculinity have limited men's ability to express emotions and be vulnerable. Societal Conditioning: Michael discusses how phrases like "boys don't cry" have shaped male behavior. The Modern Shift: There's a growing need to redefine masculinity to include emotional awareness and vulnerability. King Energy: True masculinity, or "king energy," embodies vulnerability and empathy. Emotional Alchemy Michael introduces the concept of emotional alchemy—transforming and handling emotions to lead to personal growth. Processing Emotions: "Emotion is energy in motion," Michael says. He emphasizes the importance of allowing emotions to flow rather than suppressing them. Practical Steps: He shares techniques for handling emotions, such as taking a moment to breathe and acknowledging feelings during heated moments. Impact on Relationships and Parenting The discussion highlights how embracing vulnerability improves relationships and parenting dynamics. Connect with Michael Click Here Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. Free 5-Part Workshop - Master your Mindset + Emotions: Join Here 1:1 Private Coaching: Start Here Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

In this compelling episode of the "Your Frequency Shift Podcast," we have the honor of hosting Mat Steinwede, Australia's leading real estate agent, devoted father of seven, and a true embodiment of transformation and resilience. Mat takes us on an unfiltered journey from his days of homelessness and addiction to becoming a visionary leader in the real estate industry. Discover how a pivotal promise to himself ignited Mat's path to success. He delves into the core values that have shaped his life—honesty, discipline, and a relentless focus on what truly matters. Mat shares profound insights on energy management, emotional mastery, and the importance of designing your "10 out of 10" day to maximize your potential. Tune in to learn how embracing authenticity and living a value-driven life can empower you to rewrite your own story and reach your optimum capabilities. Three Key Takeaways: Emotions Are Managed in the Moment: Mat emphasizes the importance of taking control of your emotions as they arise, leading to better relationships and personal well-being. Focus on Being Great, Not Looking Great: Invest in personal growth and authenticity over superficial appearances to live a fulfilling life without unnecessary pressures. Design Your "10 out of 10" Day: Intentionally structure your day around core values and priorities to maximize potential and achieve your goals. Connect with Mat For our listeners who want to learn more about Mat and his work, you can connect with him through the following links: Website: www.matsteinwede.com Instagram: @matsteinwede Facebook: Mat Steinwede Official YouTube: Mat Steinwede Channel Podcast: 31 Minutes We hope this conversation has given you valuable insights into shifting your own frequency toward a more fulfilling life. Ready to transform your life? Visit our website to explore our personal and corporate coaching programs and access valuable resources to start your journey today. Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. Free 5-Part Workshop - Master your Mindset + Emotions: Join Here 1:1 Private Coaching: Start Here Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

In this profound episode of the Frequency Shift Podcast, hosts Karis and Nick are joined by transformation coach Xavier Dagba for a deep dive into breaking generational cycles, embracing emotional awareness, and exploring racial reconciliation within ourselves. Xavier shares personal insights into healing, the role of self-compassion in transformation, and how our experiences shape our perceptions of others. This podcast took place back in 2019 yet still holds relevance in today's world. Together, they shed light on the importance of emotional hygiene, spiritual courage, and creating inner unity to foster true change. This episode invites listeners on a journey toward self-discovery and holistic healing, combining the hosts' lived expertise in Human Design and life strategy with Xavier’s transformational perspective. Discover actionable tools to integrate healing practices into your life and relationships, and consider how inner work can shift your outer reality toward abundance, unity, and resilience. 3 Key Takeaways: Embrace Emotional Hygiene - Xavier discusses the significance of emotional awareness and how "cleaning up" our emotions can lead to clearer, more empowering interactions. Recognize Inner Unity - Discover practical ways to reconcile diverse aspects of yourself, acknowledging all parts to foster a balanced and compassionate outlook. Harness the Power of Reflection - Practical exercises and Xavier's guidance encourage listeners to lean into self-reflection, bridging the gap between awareness and personal growth. Connect with Xavier: Emotional alchemist | Shadow worker | Wordsmith Lead, love & Serve from your heart, not your wounds. https://www.xavierdagba.com/ Instagram Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. Free 5-Part Workshop - Master your Mindset + Emotions: Join Here 1:1 Private Coaching: Start Here Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

In this episode of Your Frequency Shift Podcast, hosts Karis and Nick dive deep into the energetics of money with special guest Michelle Aristocrat. Michelle is a powerhouse—a multi-platform business owner who has achieved remarkable success across the board. But more than that, she’s a catalyst for cosmic alignment, using astrology, ancient wisdom, and energetic codes to help people rewrite their money stories and reclaim their power. She’s an empowering force that pushes you to break free from limiting beliefs and align with your highest potential. Money is often considered a taboo topic—something we avoid talking about, yet it plays such a central role in our lives. Many of us carry deep-rooted, unconscious beliefs about money that hold us back. In today’s episode, we’re going deep into the energetics of money—unpacking the stories, beliefs, and societal constructs that shape our relationship with wealth. If you want to connect with Michelle here are her links: Instagram - @Divinespurpose Website - https://www.michellearistocrat.com What money or self-worth beliefs came up for you? Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. Free 5-Part Workshop - Master your Mindset + Emotions: Join Here 1:1 Private Coaching: Start Here Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

Welcome to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, hosted by Human Design & Gene Keys Specialist - Karis and Life Strategist - Nick. We're here to help you unlock deep satisfaction, fulfillment, and that unmistakable feeling of being alive—whether it's in your business, body, or relationships. In today’s episode, we guide you through 5 powerful steps to realign your energy and maximize your impact in the final quarter of the year: Reflect and Realign Take stock of your progress so far, celebrating wins and learning from setbacks. Realigning your focus helps create clarity and emotional space for a strong finish. Embrace the Power of Now Release guilt or regret over unachieved goals. The power to shift your trajectory lies in the present moment—what can you do right now to feel aligned with your desires? Visualize Success with Energetic Action See yourself at the end of Q4, having achieved your top goals. What does that version of you look and feel like? Start embodying that energy today. Eliminate Distractions and Focus on Impact Distractions drain your energy. Focus on the activities that will have the greatest impact on your goals. Set boundaries and prioritize what truly matters. Gratitude and Emotional Momentum Gratitude helps you maintain a high vibration and attract positive outcomes. Celebrate your progress each day, building momentum toward your Q4 goals. Here’s the question: What are the top 3 goals you’re committing to for the final stretch of the year? Reflect on them, write them down, and align your daily actions to crush these final months. What if, by simply shifting your frequency, you could live the life you've always dreamed of? Share your insights 😊 If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. Free 5-Part Workshop - Master your Mindset + Emotions: Join Here 1:1 Private Coaching: Start Here Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

Welcome back to Your Frequency Shift podcast! In today’s episode, we sit down with parenting and trauma coach, Annaliese Erin, who shares profound insights on fostering emotional resilience, handling tantrums with empathy, and building stronger connections with your children. Whether you're a seasoned parent or new to the parenting journey, Annaliese’s unique approach offers practical tools for overcoming emotional hurdles and creating a loving, supportive environment for your family. Dive into the conversation as we explore brain development, emotional regulation, and how to navigate those challenging parenting moments with grace. Annaliese’s wisdom has transformed lives—including ours—and we’re excited to share her magic with you! Join us as we explore: How to navigate your child’s emotional outbursts with empathy and validation The importance of emotional resilience for both parents and children Practical strategies for maintaining your calm when parenting gets tough For more transformational insights, join our Your Frequency Shift community and explore our coaching programs designed to help you unlock deeper connections and personal growth. 3 Key Takeaways for Listeners: Emotional Regulation Practices: Set reminders throughout the day to check in with your feelings and reset your emotional state so that you can approach difficult parenting moments calmly and clearly. Empathy and Boundaries: Learn to validate your child’s emotions while maintaining clear boundaries. For example, express understanding of their frustration while guiding them to appropriate behaviour. Brain Development Awareness: Recognize that children’s brains develop at different rates, and their inability to regulate emotions or focus is often a matter of growth, not disobedience. This knowledge helps you manage your expectations and responses more effectively. Want more tips to create deep connections with your children and develop emotional resilience? Join our Frequency Shift community and explore our Private Coaching Program to elevate your mindset shift your life, biz and create more impact. Connect with Annaliese Erin: Website: Annaliese Erin Parenting Coach Instagram: @annalieseerinparentcoach If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. Free 5-Part Workshop - Master your Mindset + Emotions: Join Here 1:1 Private Coaching: Start Here Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

Hi everyone, welcome back to the Your Frequency Podcast! After taking some time off to rest and realign our intentions, we're excited to reconnect with you all. This episode marks our return, and we couldn't think of a better way to restart than with an incredible conversation featuring Hayley Carr, a transformative NLP practitioner and mindset coach. In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of living authentically and aligning our actions with our true selves. Hayley Carr shares her inspiring story of overcoming burnout, rediscovering her passions, and embracing a heart-centered approach to life and work. We discuss the pressures of societal expectations, the importance of following our inner guidance, and practical strategies for manifesting abundance and shifting our mindset. Questions for Listeners to Ponder On: Are you living from the outside in or the inside out?Reflect on whether your actions and decisions are driven by external expectations or your inner truth. How can you realign with your authentic self? What would you do if money were no object?Imagine you have all the financial security you need. What passions would you pursue, and how would you spend your days? This question can help uncover your true desires and potential life path. How can you embrace surrender and trust in your journey?Consider the areas of your life where you are holding on too tightly to control or expectations. What would happen if you surrendered and trusted the process more fully? We hope this episode with Haley Carr provides you with valuable insights and inspiration to live a more authentic and fulfilling life. Haley's journey is a powerful reminder that everything we seek is already within us, and by trusting ourselves and following our hearts, we can create the life we truly desire. Connecting with Hayley Carr: If Haley's insights resonate with you, you can find her at HayleyCarr.tv, where she offers a wealth of resources, including her podcast, YouTube videos, and coaching programs. If you’re enjoying listening to Your Frequency Shift Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. Connect with us on Instagram: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Sending you love!

What does it mean to connect in the 21st century? In this episode, Nick and I  explore the intricate dance between intimacy and the modern world.  Discover the barriers that technology, societal expectations, and our own fears erect against true closeness, and learn practical strategies to dismantle them. Whether you're seeking to deepen a relationship, find new love, or understand the complexities of modern intimacy, this episode offers a compass for navigating the intimate connections that make life truly meaningful.  Join us on a journey to unlock the secrets of love and intimacy in today's digital age, where every listener finds a path to closer, more genuine relationships. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

Hey there, friends! Pull up a chair and grab your favorite cup of something warm. Today, we're diving into something that's been tugging at my heartstrings – the beautifully complex world of parenting, and how our own upbringing shapes the way we raise our little ones. Remember those days when, as kids, we'd look up to our parents for every little thing? From choosing the right crayon to making big life decisions, they were our go-to guide. Fast forward to today, and here we are, still carrying that little voice in our heads that often whispers, "Would Mom or Dad approve?" But then, amidst the whirlwind of daily life, a thought gently knocks on our door: What if we could carve our own path? What if we could nurture our children to be so sure of themselves, so grounded in their own being, that they can weather any storm with confidence and grace? It's a beautiful sunny morning as I write this, and I can't help but smile thinking about the little lessons life offers us. Like that time when my kiddo decided to wear mismatched socks to school, boldly declaring it 'Sock Mix-up Day!' In that simple, innocent moment, I saw the pure courage to be different, to make a choice that wasn't bound by 'what's usually done.' This journey of parenting – it's not just about guiding our little ones. It's equally about rediscovering ourselves, about peeling off layers of 'shoulds' and 'musts' that we've collected over the years. It's about sitting down with our past, having a heartfelt chat with it, and then, gently letting go of the strings that don't resonate with our present. But oh, the bittersweet symphony of letting our kids (and ourselves) stumble, fall, and then rise! It's not easy to watch, I know. Every fiber of our being wants to rush in, to fix things, to make it all better. But sometimes, it's in those unguarded moments of struggle that the most beautiful growth happens. It's about respect, too – a two-way street where we honor our elders, cherishing the wisdom they've passed down, while also honoring our own inner voice. It's about finding that delicate balance, where tradition meets individuality, where guidance doesn't overshadow personal growth. So, here we are, you and I, on this journey together. It's messy, it's challenging, but oh, isn't it wonderfully human? Whether you're sipping your third cup of coffee or finally sitting down after a day that felt like a week, know that you're not alone in this dance of parenting and personal discovery. I'd love to hear your stories, too. What's your dance like? How are you blending the old tunes with your own rhythm? Share your thoughts, your struggles, your victories. Because every shared story is a beacon of light on this shared path of ours. Here's to us – the brave, the imperfect, the ever-growing. Let's keep this conversation, this warmth, this shared journey, alive. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

Recently, Nick and I had a chat on our podcast that opened my eyes in a way I didn’t expect. We stumbled upon a simple yet profound idea: fear is often less of an emotion and more of a habit. This conversation sparked a train of thought that I feel is worth sharing with you all. Life, as we often forget, isn’t a script we’re meant to follow blindly. It's not about living out a legacy or a set of pre-written expectations handed down from generations past. I used to walk along a path that seemed laid out for me, thinking it was all there was. But as Nick and I talked, I started to question – was I actually living my own life, or just playing a part in a story written before I was even born? It hit me that many of us are unknowingly fighting to keep ourselves within these invisible walls we've built. We cling to what’s familiar and safe, often mistaking it for what’s right or necessary. But isn’t it strange how we guard these limits as if they are treasures, not realizing they might be cages? Picture your life without these self-imposed limits. Imagine waking up each day to a world full of new possibilities, not clouded by old fears. That's the life that’s calling out to us – a life where we acknowledge our fears but choose not to be ruled by them. During our podcast, Nick and I pondered over what life looks like when we let fear guide our steps. It’s like sticking to the shallow end of the pool, never daring to see how the deep end might feel. Sure, it’s safer there, but all the excitement and discovery are waiting out there in the deeper waters. So, here’s what this post is really about: it’s an invitation to dive into those deeper waters. It’s time to question the old narratives that have been silently steering your life. Are they really your own, or are they just echoes of someone else's experiences? Embracing a life beyond fear doesn’t mean fear disappears; it means learning to move forward with it as a silent companion rather than a leader. It’s about realizing you’re the one holding the pen that writes your life story, and you have the power to start a new chapter. As we wrap up this post, remember: your life is a unique story waiting to be told, a blend of dreams, challenges, and successes that are entirely yours. Embrace it, push against the old boundaries, step out of the comfort zone, and into your own potential. In the journey of life, the most exciting stories are the ones you write yourself. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

A year has passed since we first embarked on our journey with plant medicine. This period of time has allowed us to reflect and integrate the intense experiences we encountered during our ceremonies. Initially, in our podcast, we shared our thoughts and feelings right after these experiences, but looking back, it seems we were still riding the wave of the experience itself. Now, with some distance, we've come to a clearer understanding. There's a question that has emerged in the quiet aftermath: if we find ourselves relying on plant medicine or any external belief system, to make decisions or find our power, doesn't that suggest a lack of self-trust or a disconnect from our own inner strength? I’ve come to believe that the true goal of this journey is to become more connected with ourselves, to trust in our inner voice and wisdom. It's not about judging the rightness or wrongness of using external aids like plant medicine. Rather, it's about asking ourselves whether this reliance is truly reflective of who we are and what we want our life experiences to be. Reflecting on this now, I see our initial podcast discussions as a necessary part of our process, a way of externalizing our immediate reactions. But the insights we've gained since then speak to a deeper, more personal transformation. This journey with plant medicine has taught us the importance of looking inward. While the ceremonies opened our eyes to new perspectives, they also highlighted the significance of finding answers within ourselves. It's a realization that the most important guidance often comes from our own inner being. So, as we move forward, we do so with a renewed sense of self-awareness and introspection. Our experiences with plant medicine have been pivotal, but they have also shown us that the most meaningful journey is the one that leads to a deeper understanding of ourselves. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. If you are curious about exploring yourself and your infinite potential, reach out. www.yourfrequencyshift.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

In a world that often celebrates perfection, it's easy to fall into the trap of striving for flawlessness in everything we do. But there's a fundamental truth we often overlook: "I am not what I've done." Perfectionism can be both a driving force and a relentless tormentor. On one hand, it propels us to strive for excellence, but on the other hand, it fosters an inner critic that berates us mercilessly for even the smallest missteps. This relentless pursuit of perfection leads us into a never-ending cycle of disappointment. We set expectations that are impossibly high and feel like failures when we inevitably fall short. We start to doubt our abilities and lose sight of our intrinsic worth. The weight of our past mistakes can be one of the most challenging aspects of perfectionism. We often carry the belief that our past actions define who we are today. But the truth is, we are not the sum of our past. Our past mistakes do not dictate our future. The antidote to the perfectionist's struggle lies in embracing grace and self-compassion. It means acknowledging that making mistakes is an integral part of being human. Self-compassion allows us to learn and grow from our mistakes without judgment. When we release the notion that we are defined by our past and the opinions of others, we experience a profound sense of liberation. We don't have to be confined by the expectations of our past or the judgments of others. "I am not what I've done" is a powerful mantra for those seeking relief from the grip of perfectionism. It's an invitation to embrace grace and self-compassion, break free from the cycle of disappointment, and find liberation in the journey of self-improvement. So, in this episode, let's explore how embracing imperfection can lead to a more fulfilling life. Remember, you are not defined by your past or your mistakes; you are who you choose to become. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. And if you need some more support and guidance on your own journey contact us on: www.thejourneyofnow.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

In the journey of self-discovery, we sometimes find ourselves at a crossroads, faced with the decision to step away from toxic family drama and interactions that clash with our values. It's akin to realizing that you have the power to say, "I do not have to participate in this." We've all been in situations where family gatherings turn into battlegrounds, where arguments become fixtures, and where our emotional reserves are drained. For a long time, we felt obligated to participate in this never-ending drama, thinking it was our duty. However, the truth is that we do have a choice – the choice to prioritize our own peace of mind. Reparenting oneself is like embarking on a personal quest to heal past wounds and nurture our inner child. It's about recognizing the hurts we've carried and deciding to care for ourselves as if we were our own parents. In this journey, we discover that we hold the pen to our life's script, allowing us to reclaim the leading role. One of the most liberating moments in our lives occurs when we break free from societal and familial expectations. Toxic family drama often thrives on conformity, on the notion that we must adhere to assigned roles. However, as we reparent ourselves, we realize that we are the authors of our own stories. We can decline the invitation to toxic scripts and instead embrace roles that resonate with our values and aspirations. Reparenting includes the art of setting boundaries – the invisible fences that protect our inner sanctum. These boundaries serve as shields against the toxicity that once engulfed us. They empower us to engage only in interactions that contribute to our growth and well-being. In a world where drama is often mistaken for normalcy, remember that you have the autonomy to choose your own path. You can decline participation in toxic family drama and interactions that do not align with your values. Reparenting is a journey of self-discovery, self-love, and empowerment. It's a process that reminds us that the most important role we'll ever play is that of our authentic selves. So, embrace the freedom to say, "I do not have to participate in this," and witness how your life transforms into a story of authenticity and inner peace. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. And if you need some more support and guidance on your own journey contact us on: www.thejourneyofnow.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

"I Will Not Abandon You": The Deep Dive Into Reparenting Your Inner Child Every time you scroll through your feed, you’re likely to find someone waxing poetic about the beauty of self-love. Yet, beneath these layers of affirmations and meditative quotes, lies a more profound, often untouched theme. In our next podcast episode, we're journeying into a realm that many choose to ignore - the world of the wounded inner child. We've all heard it before, the significance of knowing oneself. But there's an echo within us, a suppressed voice of a child hidden in the corners of our being, seeking recognition, love, and healing. But what does it truly mean to turn toward this child and say, "I see you"? Society often hands us masks - ones of a 'good person', ones that suppress our true voices, our real emotions, all in the name of fitting in. But every mask has a cost. And more often than not, the price is our authentic self. In our upcoming episode, we’ll delve into the art of reparenting, not as a mere buzzword but as a heartfelt journey of patience, recognition, and healing. Are you genuinely embracing your inner essence or are you caught in the act, merely playing a role the world has assigned? Drawn from personal experiences, heartfelt moments, and profound realizations, this episode is more than just a conversation. It's a testament to the struggles, the highs and lows of facing our true selves, of recognizing our flaws and embracing our human nature. It's about finding compassion amidst the chaos, both for ourselves and for others treading the same path. So, if you’re seeking more than just surface-level discussions, if you're ready to face the discomfort, pain, and the joy of true healing, then join us for this transformative episode. As we delve deep, remember our central promise to our inner selves: "I will not abandon you. Not now, not ever." If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. And if you need some more support and guidance on your own journey contact us on: www.thejourneyofnow.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

Have you ever felt like life is racing by, like an unsung melody? Have you questioned whether there's more to existence than the relentless routine of work and rest? If you're nodding in agreement, my friend, you've found your tribe right here. This podcast isn't just about work-life balance; it's about crafting a life that's your own unique masterpiece. It's about breaking free from the constraints of the ordinary, rewriting the script that society hands us, and embracing the extraordinary potential that resides within you. We're here to explore the threads that bind us to the myth of "nine-to-five," and together, we'll weave a tapestry that celebrates creativity, self-discovery, and the power of choosing our own paths. Join me as we venture into the realms of purpose that extend beyond job titles, as we discover the crescendos of self-care in a world that often pulls us apart. Let's harmonize our passions with our everyday lives, and, my friend, let's embrace the healing power of creative pursuits that mend the imbalance. Please check out the blog post that goes more in-depth and gives you a summary of tools and takeaways from this podcast. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. And if you need some more support and guidance on your own journey contact us on: www.thejourneyofnow.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!

💔 Relationships are the heart and soul of life, shaping who we are and how we experience the world. But oh, the complexities that come with them! 🌍 In our new podcast, we take you on an emotional journey of learning to trust yourself within the realm of connections. ❤️ Let's explore the profound wisdom of positive projection, the art of patience, and the beauty of being a safe space. 🌈 Together, we'll break free from performative love and uncover the transformative power of healing our core wounds.  🌿 Here we dive into embracing somatic awareness, listening to your spirit, and letting genuine connections bloom organically.  When you begin to trust yourself truly allows for the joy of authentic relationships to fill your heart! ✨  Relationships are the threads that weave the tapestry of our lives, shaping who we are and how we experience the world. But navigating the realm of connections can be a complex journey, filled with both joy and heartache. In this new podcast, we embark on an emotional and transformative exploration of learning to trust ourselves within the context of relationships. Connection is a profound journey that touches us on both intellectual and emotional levels. It's about honouring our spirits and listening to the language of our bodies, allowing us to create connections that are truly fulfilling. Remember, trust yourself, embrace discernment, and let the beauty of authentic relationships unfold organically. May we all find the courage to forge connections that bring us closer to our true selves and to each other. If you’re enjoying listening to The Journey of Now Podcast, please leave a rating on Apple or Google Podcasts. And if you need some more support and guidance on your own journey contact us on: www.thejourneyofnow.com Instagram Handles: Nick: @vonpitt Karis: @karis_topkin Sending you love!