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We're Scott and Shaté Hayes, and we're on a mission to help our community find freedom from the inside out. So we host conversations about God, therapy, and all the lessons we’ve learned about how to love, trust, forgive, and affirm ourselves first.
We used to talk about the hard parts of life. Now, we talk about the healed parts because that’s where true freedom resides. Join us, and you’ll see that when you save yourself first, you transform your life, and you lead the way for those around you to save themselves, too.
Get healing tips, tools, and more: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
We're Scott and Shaté Hayes, and we're on a mission to help our community find freedom from the inside out. So we host conversations about God, therapy, and all the lessons we’ve learned about how to love, trust, forgive, and affirm ourselves first.
We used to talk about the hard parts of life. Now, we talk about the healed parts because that’s where true freedom resides. Join us, and you’ll see that when you save yourself first, you transform your life, and you lead the way for those around you to save themselves, too.
Get healing tips, tools, and more: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Ep. 83: How to observe (not absorb) other people's feelings.
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In this episode, we dive into the art of observing other people's feelings without taking them on as our own.
Join us as we explore practical strategies for maintaining emotional boundaries in close relationships with family, friends, and partners. Discover the role emotional regulation plays in this process, and get inspired by our hopes for finding real-life ways to practice this approach.
Tune in for insightful conversations and tips on how to stay empathetic yet emotionally grounded.
THREE WAYS TO SUPPORT OUR MISSION:
Rate us on Apple or Spotify, or follow and subscribe to our channel on YouTube.
Attend an event in the Atlanta area or sponsor someone to attend.*
Purchase our merch— there’s a great selection on our website.*
*A portion of our proceeds goes towards our therapy fund for Black adults.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you or someone you know could find value in the Healing Myself community, please feel free to reach out! You can leave a comment or send us an email at connect@healingmyself.co
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Ep. 82: A practical guide to self-care with Dr. Cicely Brathwaite.
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Join us for this insightful conversation with special guest, Dr. Cicely Brathwaite–psychologist, consultant, and author of Self-Care Activities for Women: 101 Practical Ways to Slow Down and Reconnect With Yourself.
THREE WAYS TO SUPPORT OUR MISSION:
Rate us on Apple or Spotify, or follow and subscribe to our channel on YouTube.
Attend an event in the Atlanta area or sponsor someone to attend.*
Purchase our merch— there’s a great selection on our website.*
*A portion of our proceeds goes towards our therapy fund for Black adults.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you or someone you know could find value in the Healing Myself community, please feel free to reach out! You can leave a comment or send us an email at connect@healingmyself.co
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Ep. 81: Healing and tequila with friends featuring Brandon Scott.
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Join this special convo with Brandon Scott, CEO and Co-Founder of Tequila with Friends, a Dallas-based tequila brand. After a surprising Type 1 diabetes diagnosis during his first semester of college, Brandon discovered that tequila was the only type of liquor that his body metabolized well. Now 15 years later, he ties some of his fondest moments to tequila and the people around him who’ve supported his journey.
THREE WAYS TO SUPPORT OUR MISSION:
Rate us on Apple or Spotify, or follow and subscribe to our channel on YouTube.
Attend an event in the Atlanta area or sponsor someone to attend.*
Purchase our merch— there’s a great selection on our website.*
*A portion of our proceeds goes towards our therapy fund for Black adults.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you or someone you know could find value in the Healing Myself community, please feel free to reach out! You can leave a comment or send us an email at connect@healingmyself.co
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Ep. 80: God and therapy.
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Both God and therapy are essential to any healing journey. For this replay of our first live podcast event, we’re joined by Broderick McBride—intercessor, teacher, and mental health advocate who fully believes that mental health and spirituality go hand-in-hand. Take a listen to discover how they’ve helped him overcome trauma and depression, and practical tips to help you, too.
THREE WAYS TO SUPPORT OUR MISSION:
Rate us on Apple or you can follow and subscribe to us on YouTube
Attend an event in the Atlanta area or sponsor someone to attend*
Purchase our merch, there’s a lot of selection on our website*
*A portion of our proceeds are going towards our therapy fund for Black adults.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you or someone you know could find value in the Healing Myself community, please feel free to reach out! You can leave a comment or send us an email at connect@healingmyself.co
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Ep. 79: Man to Woman—What I want the women in my life to know.
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We’re always talking man to man, but today’s episode is for the ladies. Join us for a few thoughts for the Black women in our lives from a Black man’s perspective.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you or someone you know could find value in the Healing Myself community, please feel free to reach out! You can leave a comment or send us an email at connect@healingmyself.co
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Ep. 78: How to hustle and hope with Ashley Sutton.
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Join us for a special convo with Ashley Sutton, founder and CEO of Hustle and Hope Cards. From facing rejection to grinding, making room for faith, and much more, we unpack what it means to have both hustle and hope.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you or someone you know could find value in the Healing Myself community, please feel free to reach out! You can leave a comment or send us an email at connect@healingmyself.co
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Ep. 77: Change your default setting.
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We’ve been thinking a lot about chaos vs peace. In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the idea of changing our default setting, specifically when that default is chaos.
RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:
The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
Overcoming Underearning by Barbara Stanny
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you or someone you know could find value in the Healing Myself community, please feel free to reach out! You can leave a comment or send us an email at connect@healingmyself.co
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Ep 76: Save yourself first.
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We’re back with a new look and new name, but the healing vibes are still the same! Join our first convo as Healing Myself to discover why it's so important to heal your relationship with yourself first.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Subscribe to our Weekly Word. We’ll send you healing insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you heal yourself first: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from our community, please share this episode! You can also leave us a comment with your reflections. We can't wait to hear from you!
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Episode 75: Made for more.
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We’ve spent the last three years and change having some of the most cathartic, transparent and transformative conversations about stuck places, the hazes, and healing all parts of us. And now it's time for more. We believe what’s next is gonna blow our minds! Join us as we talk through that and two special announcements.
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 74: Healing our community with Celeste the Therapist.
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Here’s one more episode from one of the podcasts we’ve had the pleasure of joining over the past few months. In this episode, we joined forces with Celeste the Therapist and really dug deep on healing the Black community. Traumas, triggers, and even slavery came up on this one. Hard truths and healing revelations, y’all.
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 73: Real life, love, and everything in between with Keke Chanel.
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And another one! Here’s another one of the dope Black podcasts we’ve had the pleasure of joining over the past few months. In this episode, we kick it with KeKe Chanel as we talk about mindset, healing, boundaries, and everything in between. This was such an authentic and transparent conversation about so many of the things that matter most in life. You’re really gonna want to listen to this one all the way through.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 72: The origins of our stuck places with Dom L'Amour.
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Here’s another one of the dope Black podcasts we’ve had the pleasure of joining over the past few months. In this episode, we’re sharing our conversation with Dom L’Amour where we talked about how the messages we received as kids that may have kept us stuck, communication, and a number of the other unspoken hazes of life.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 71: Money talk with Natasha and Damian Carrillo.
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If you caught episode 70, then you know we weren’t sure if we’d be able to make the last five episodes of the year happen because we’ve been through a lot lately, and we wanted a break. Well, we decided to find a way to work smarter instead of giving up.
We’ve been blessed to be guests on a number of other podcasts this year, and we’re sharing a few of those episodes and reflections. Up first, is our convo with Natasha and Damian Carrillo of Black and Brown Make Green Podcast. We had an honest money convo, and we can’t wait to share it with you!
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 70: When you feel like giving up...
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Listen y'all, we have wanted to quit podcasting so many times. As recently as this weekend, we seriously entertained letting it go because life has been out here life-ing. But thankfully, we’ve gotten a reframing that’s helped us, and we hope it’ll help y’all too.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 69: You can set boundaries at work, too.
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We talk a lot about communication and boundaries for our personal lives, and a lot of those same principles can be applied to our professional relationships, too. Self-advocacy is universal, but it's also so personal, y'all. Join us as we unpack that.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Schedule a coaching session with Shaté: https://bit.ly/Pivot-and-Prosper
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 68: Nothing is linear because life isn't.
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Life is always out here doing what it wants to do, and there’s nothing we can really do about it. So what could it look like to accept that, to learn how to go with the flow, and grow through it, too? Join us as we process through it.
RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:
Black Love (documentary)
Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
Listen to I Was Here by Beyonce
Listen to Real Love by Mary J. Blige
Love Again by Daniel Caesar and Brandy
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 67: Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
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Life has been life-ing, y’all. And when we’re in seasons like this, it’s easier for our emotions to get the best of us. So in this episode, we’re talking through the value of holding onto your emotions even when everything else feels like it’s falling through the cracks.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 66: OPP...Other People's Problems
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Today, we’re coming for all the inherent problem solvers out there. When your loved ones share their problems with you, it’s almost second nature for some of us to jump right into solution-ing. But what does it look like to just listen, to just be a safe space for your loved one to work through their problem on their own? Well, we’re about to eff around and find out.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 65: Seeing Black love matters.
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Listen, if we hear ONE more person come for #BlackLoveDoc, it’s gon’ be a problem. With the recent news of Ms. Tina Knowles-Lawson’s divorce, commenters have been pretty hard on the show, calling it cursed because five of the couples featured have gone their separate ways. Well, we have plenty to say about that, and we got time today.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word. We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life: https://thelovehaze.co/weeklyword
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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Episode 64: Who gets the benefit of your self-doubt?
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We’ve all been taught that it’s a good thing to give someone the benefit of the doubt? It essentially means to assume good intent, right? But when it comes to self-doubt, that changes the game. Let’s unpack who benefits when we dim our light and play small.
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Learn how to have hard convos with confidence with the tips in our new guide: https://thelovehaze.co/useyourwords
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook
Follow @iamshate on Instagram; Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
If you know someone or you yourself can benefit from The Love Haze community, don’t hesitate to let us know! Leave a comment or send us an email at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
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