The Self Styled Podcast

In today's episode, I’m sharing the exact steps you can take to turn a boring outfit into one that gives you an energy boost and real confidence for your day ahead. This episode is designed to be a mini training so you might want to listen when you’ve got some time to play with outfits in your closet to uncover what types of visual interest is your favorite for making a look more exciting. Listen in as I discuss: Why asking the right questions when you look in the mirror can help guide you more deeply towards your most aligned personal style or further away from your style instincts Why I don’t believe some women are born with a “style gene” and others aren’t The 5 easy questions to ask yourself when you look in the mirror to learn to create  better outfits Some totally free styling tips that can make your outfit look more polished Get on the waitlist for my January 2022 Style Your Brand Workshop discussed in this episode here: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/60ada902e84f8f6cb13048b9

In today's episode, I’m talking about a subject coming up with almost everyone I discuss personal style with these days, Covid Weight gain and feeling held back from investing in our personal style. This episode will help you reframe your hesitation to buy new clothes if you tell yourself you should wait until you lose the weight. Listen in as I discuss: The single most important  question you need to ask yourself about how you interacted with your style pre-pandemic? How not dressing your body as it is today might be getting in the way of your visibility and the consequence this can have for many areas of your life A few ways you can think about your body and your style to depersonalize weight gain and begin to move forward dressing the body you have with love and respect    Learn more about my new styling intensive service here: https://nicoleotchy.com/work-with-me  

In today's episode, I’m talking with color analysis expert Jeannie Stith.  Jeannie is  the founder, CEO and head color analyst at Color Guru. Color Guru is an online color analysis service helping women find the right colors for them so they can shop more efficiently and create coordinated wardrobes through color. What led Jeannie  to the field of color analysis and how she updated her process to make color analysis more modern  Where she sees women getting stuck when it comes to color in their wardrobe  How color analysis can help streamline you get dressed and shop How Jeannie’s process of online color analysis works The biggest color considerations women should make when they’re on camera  Learn more about Jeannie and her company Color Guru here: https://yourcolorguru.com/ Use this code to get 10% off any color analysis package at checkout: nicole10   

In today’s episode, I’m digging into one of the things I see holding a lot of women back from fully sinking into their true personal style: their fear of letting go of clothes that aren’t serving them anymore. There are lots of reasons why we hold onto clothes that we never wear but today I’m looking at the ones that are most popular among clients and the women in my own life. Listen in to hear more about: Why your fear that you’ll purge  something you “might need someday” is just your perfectionism in disguise  Why holding onto clothes that might fit you in the future is a huge disservice to your future self Practical tips for editing down your wardrobe if you tend to hold onto pieces of clothing for sentimental reasons The sneaky way that having a lot of clothes in your closets that you don’t wear is connected to your relationship with shopping Connect with me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/ If you enjoyed this episode, it would mean so much if you left a review on iTunes or your podcast app so more women just like you can find the show.

In today’s episode, I’m talking about one of the most popular questions clients and members of my workshop ask me about: Capsule Wardrobes. I’m sharing everything you need to know about what a capsule wardrobe is and how to decide if it’s right for you (because contrary to urban legend, it's not for everyone). Listen in to learn: What a capsule wardrobe is and how many pieces it takes to build a capsule wardrobe How often you need to shop to maintain a capsule wardrobe and not get bored of your clothes What lifestyle factors you need to take into consideration to know if a capsule wardrobe is right for you The steps you should take  before you create a capsule wardrobe if you want to avoid feeling lost and shopping excessively  to create your capsule Connect with me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/ If you enjoyed this episode, it would mean so much if you left a review on iTunes or your podcast app so more women just like you can find the show.  

In today’s episode, I’m chatting with brand photographer Jessie Wyman. Jessie is the photographer behind my 2020 website rebrand and I’ve been wanting to have her on to talk about her process and philosophy when it comes to brand photography. Jessie also recently took my online workshop, Style Your Brand and it had a huge impact on her own personal style and how she looks at wardrobe styling for brand photo shoots. Listen in to learn: What it takes to prepare for a successful branding photo shoot (including how long you should take to prepare) Tips for being less nervous in front of the camera The importance of wardrobe for a branding shoot What brought Jessie to the  Style Your Brand Workshop and how it transformed her personal style (including how it changed her relationship with shopping!) Connect with Jessie:  www.instagram.com/jessiewymanphotos/ www.jessiewymanphotography.com If you’re a photographer interested in her branding photo course, check it out here: https://www.thebrandphotographermethod.com/   Want the results Jessie got in the Style Your Brand Workshop? Join me for the June workshop and save $200 by joining the waitlist: https://nicoleotchy.com/workshop  

In today’s episode, I’m sharing some of my best tips for overcoming for the #1 complaint I hear from almost every client I have when it comes to getting the style they want: hating shopping! Retail and how we shop has changed dramatically in the past decade, leaving lots of women feeling like they don’t know how to shop without getting overwhelmed or what brands they can rely on. Listen in to hear  some of my favorite shopping tips including: \r\n How to edit your closet to make shopping strategic (instead of reactionary)\r\n Why I recommend doing a big shop seasonally (Fall/Winter and Spring/ Summer) \r\n My three  best tips for  for reducing overwhelm when online shopping\r\n Why having specific limits around how and when you shopping (both online and in-person) will save you from making purchases you regret in the future\r\n Connect with me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/\r\n If you enjoyed this episode, it would mean so much if you left a review on iTunes or your podcast app so more women just like you can find the show.\r\n  \r\n

In today’s episode, I’m chatting with my dear friends and fellow personal stylist Laurel Kinney. Laurel is an Austin based personal stylist who is  currently living in Taos as she rides out the pandemic and works with her clients virtually. I wanted to sit down with Laurel to chat about the personal styling industry, how she approaches her career, how she approaches visibility, and share with you why it’s so important to make friends with people in your industry to stay sane. Laurel and I are also very different and the depth that has brought to our relationship and her business advice has been a huge lesson to me about the power of connection with people who see the world differently. Also, Laurel is a really wonderful human being and I think you should know her. Listen in to hear us discuss:\r\n The skinny jeans debate (don’t worry we settle it in this episode)\r\n How we approach our careers as stylists that has differentiated us\r\n The very different ways we navigate being visible and what we’ve learned about showing up as business owners\r\n The huge toll the pandemic has taken on the fashion and personal styling industry and the changes we think are in store going forward \r\n The themes we see with clients as they start to think about getting dressed after the pandemic\r\n Connect with Laurel on Instagram here:https://www.instagram.com/laurel_kinney/\r\n Laurel’s Website: https://laurelkinney.com/\r\n Connect with me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/\r\n If you enjoyed this episode, it would mean so much if you left a review on iTunes or your podcast app so more women can find the show.\r\n  \r\n

In today’s episode, I’m sharing five actionable and specific tips for showing up when life feels hard because I don’t think there are enough places where women have the freedom to acknowledge that sometimes their personal and professional lives collide, making visibility especially challenging. The reality is that we do still have to show up and be visible but acting like nothing has to change in order for us to do that well is impossible and ridiculous. If you feel overwhelmed, sad, or like your bandwidth for showing up and being seen is very low, this episode is for you. Tune in to hear:\r\n How pre-recording video content will save you so much time and sanity while also keeping you on track and visible\r\n Why reusing your content isn’t just smart for your energy management, it’s smart for your personal brand\r\n Why it\'s ok to show up less (online + in person) and how to make showing up the most impactful when you have to\r\n 3 tips for getting dressed when visibility and life feel tough\r\n How making a list of energy draining tasks in your life and business can lead you to find solutions that help you through a hard time (and potentially  bring you new ways to experience happiness and fulfillment)\r\n You can listen to Episode 13: 5 Tips for Becoming More Visible here\r\n Connect with me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/\r\n If you enjoyed this episode, it would mean so much if you left a review on iTunes or your podcast app so more women can find the show.\r\n

In today’s episode, I’m sharing some of the misconceptions that get in the way of us having the type of wardrobe (and confidence) we desire. Tune in as I unpack the six most prevalent style misconceptions I see and how to reframe them so you can make progress and use your style as a tool in your self-expression. Common style misconceptions I cover  include: “I have to overhaul my entire wardrobe to get results with my style.” “The world is getting more casual so what I wear doesn’t matter.” “I work from home/ rarely see clients in-person so style isn’t something I need to think about.” “Focusing on my style only makes sense when I have a big budget.” “I can and should expect my clothes to give me self-esteem.” “I’ll start paying attention to my personal style when I feel better about my body.” Learn more about the Style your Brand Workshop kicking of on 3/22/2021: https://nicoleotchy.com/online-course CONNECT WITH ME: Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @nicoleotchy  

In today’s episode, I’m covering everything you need to know to plan photos for your book.  Writing a book is a big deal so don’t save planning your author photos until  the last minute.  Your author photos will be used in the marketing and promotion of your book for years to come and, if done well, can help make you and your brand unforgettable. In this episode, you’ll learn: The two types of photos you’ll need to promote and market your book When you should hire a photographer and why booking before other experts are hired can result in wasted money and time What to look for when picking a photographer for your author photos  What to ask your photographer for to ensure you get the most flattering photos   Tips for picking clothes that  flatter your body in your author photos Join the Waitlist for the March Style Your Brand Workshop here: https://bit.ly/3qoVuw4 Learn more about the Style your Brand Workshop: https://nicoleotchy.com/online-course   CONNECT WITH NICOLE: Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @nicoleotchy  

In today’s episode of the podcast, I’m sharing why a thorough and effective closet edit is important if you are planning on stepping into your visibility in the new year.  Closet edits are the kind of thing that we often have great intentions for but never complete. Having a well-edited closet is a critical part of your visibility strategy because opportunities don’t wait for you to have the perfect outfit in your closet. When you’re deep in the work of growing your brand and business,  it’s natural to leave your outfit last. Having options that make you feel amazing ready to go makes saying yes to opportunities so much easier and editing your closet is the first step to getting there. Tune to to hear: The exact step-by-step process I’ve used for over 10 years when editing clients closets Why my specific order when editing is critical to making sure you don’t have gaps in your wardrobe that make it frustrating to create full looks Why your not done with your closet edit when you finish sorting your clothes and why this final step is the key to being well dressed The tips + tricks you can implement to automate caring for your wardrobe (or at least make it a lot easier) Connect with Nicole: Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @nicoleotchy Website: nicoleotchy.com

In today’s episode of the podcast, I want to introduce you to a concept called the Thrive List. The concept of a Thrive List was created by my former business coach, Tara Newman, to “focus on the items and experiences in your life that help you thrive and make you grow”. Learn how to create your 2021 Style Thrive List so you can use your wardrobe to make you feel your best no matter what 2021 throws at you. Grab some paper and a pen and tune in to hear the eight questions you can answer to help you create your own style thrive list to set yourself up for style success in 2021. Link to Tara’s article in Money: https://money.com/how-to-create-thrive-list/ Episode 11 with Tara: https://nicoleotchy.com/2020/05/14/episode-11-using-your-wardrobe-to-solidify-your-personal-brand-with-tara-newman/ Connect with me: Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @nicoleotchy  

In today’s episode, I’m chatting with Dr. Agnes Wainman. Agnes is a clinical psychologist and founder of London Psychological Services. She helps people who suffer from Expectation Discrepancy Syndrome, a common condition where there is a distressing gap between expectations and reality.  Her approach is to Screw Expectations and create a life on your own terms. Listen in as we discuss:  The problem with the definition of self-care society has thrust upon us How Agnes’s views on self-care have shifted since her blog post on the topic went viral  The expectations placed on women to ensure they can’t win  If working on ourselves was enough we wouldn’t need self-help anymore. Agnes shares what she thinks we need instead The ways that perfectionism and the persona of being a “hot mess” are keeping women from true connection and happiness How and why Agnes is showing women to screw expectations  Agnes’s blog on The Problem with Self-Care: https://www.screwexpectations.com/news/the-problems-with-self-care Join Agnes’s mailing list to get updates on her book here: www.screwexpectations.com

In today’s episode, I’m sharing four lessons from my recent business rebrand. Business rebrands and wardrobe makeovers have a lot in common but the connection might not seem clear at first. Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves, our business, and our brand is to leap before we think we’re ready and make an investment.  How do you accurately assess if it’s the right time to make a big change in your branding if it’s a  bit of a financial stretch?  I’m sharing the four things to keep in mind before you make an investment and how to know when leaping before you're ready-- whether it’s a website rebrand or whole new wardrobe-- is worth it. Tune in as I share more about: What to ask to evaluate whether you’ve outgrown your existing personal style/ branding or you’re trying to fix a different problem How to find and invite the right experts  into your rebranding process Why it’s critical to incorporate new systems into your new branding or wardrobe so you maintain your investment What your new branding, wardrobe or website must have to ensure that your investment has longevity  Want to work with the amazing team who helped make my rebrand a reality? Connect with them below:   Oh Sierra (Design Agency): https://ohsierra.ca/ Erika Holmes (Copywriter): https://www.erikaholmes.com/  

In today’s episode, I’m chatting with publicist, Cher Hale. Cher is the principle and CEO of Ginkgo Public Relations, a PR firm dedicated to helping underrepresented and marginalized voices take back their narrative. Cher helps book authors, expert entrepreneurs, and socially conscious  brands book podcast interviews, television sorts and magazine placements to further their reach and impact. With nine years of PR and marketing experience under her belt, Cher shares practical tips on stepping into your visibility and getting clear on what  PR can do for your business. Listen in as we discuss:  How Cher maintains her signature positivity and authenticity both in her networking relationships and when cold pitching media outlets The very intimate reason Cher decided to pivot the mission of her PR firm The small but effective steps Cher took to embraced her own visibility  What kind of expectations you should (and shouldn’t have) have for PR in your business The #1 thing you need to have in place before you invest in PR  Why Cher highly recommends entrepreneurs take charge of their own PR when they’re just getting started  How to reframe rejection to increased your resilience    CONNECT WITH CHER: Website: https://ginkgopr.com/ Join Cher's email list to get more PR tips:https://ginkgopr.com/subscribe Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginkgopublicrelations/   CONNECT WITH NICOLE: Website: https://www.nicoleotchy.com Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/  

In today's episode, I’m covering how to  prepare for a branding photo shoot. Branding photo shoots are a critical piece of your marketing strategy if you’re an entrepreneur or a personal brand. They are an investment in your business so they should be planned for with care but all too often I hear women say they left the preparation for their shoots to the last minute and ended up with photos they were less than in love with. Tune in to hear my five tips for preparing for your photo shoot: Tip 1: Give yourself more time than you think you need to plan Tip 2: Find your outfit color scheme and what you need to think about when picking colors Tip 3: Identify the contexts that these photos will be used in to plan the formality of your looks Tip 4: Have a content plan so your photos make sense with your messaging Tip 5: Learn why it’s important to plan at least one look that helps you live into the future of your brand   

In today’s episode, I’m talking with business coach, Hanneke Antonelli about some very juicy topics. Hanneke is an award-winning and certified coach with over 15 years of international business experience. She has personally built two award-winning businesses in the last ten years. With so much  business experience under her belt, I wanted to have Hanneke on the show to talk about how women view money and investing in themselves as she has played an important role in transforming how I think about money in my own life and business. Listen in as we discuss:  The biggest money blocks she sees in women when it comes to investing in themselves What gets in the way of many women asking for help when it comes to money and business (and personal style) How to stop fearing feeling vulnerable when it comes to consulting experts to expand your financial literacy and business growth The most important thing you need to do as a business owner if you want to hire a team What it means to fail forward and how important it is to normalize “failing” when you’re running a business The mindset shift Hanneke thinks we should all make around the concept of “charging what your worth” Grab a few chapter of Hanneke’s upcoming book, The Uplevel Project here: downloadchapter11.com CONNECT WITH HANNEKE: Website: https://hannekeantonelli.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannekeantonelli   CONNECT WITH ME: Website: https://www.nicoleotchy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/ Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com  

In today’s episode, I’m covering  one of my favorite topics: how you can use your style as a form of nonverbal communication to make your personal brand more memorable.   While political style may seem boring, speech writing teams and political advisors actually spend a significant amount of time looking at style as part of their overall communication plan. In light of that, I’m sharing three examples of what women in politics wore this year with you to illustrate how your clothes impact your non-verbal communication. Listen in to hear how you can use use your personal style to create a more memorable personal brand by learning: How Ruth Badder Ginsberg’s collar made her memorable, and eventually iconic, by using an accessory as a visual reminder of how significant it was that she was a woman on the Supreme Court. Find out how you can use accessories like she did to help your audience connect more deeply with you and your message.   How Melania Trump’s outfit at the Republican National Convention this year was an example of how your personal style can overshadow your message if what you wear and what you say are not aligned (and how you can avoid doing this at your next talk or presentation)   How Kamala Harris' decision to wear head-to-toe purple at the Democratic National Convention served to reinforce her identity and remind viewers that not all women were grated the right to vote in the U.S. on the 100th anniversary of the women's suffrage movement. Gain some tips on how you can use color to reinforce your personal brand and deepen the impact of your message without saying a word. CONNECT WITH ME: Website: https://www.nicoleotchy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/ Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com

Today on the podcast I’m taking a deeper look into why the phrase  “When you look good, you feel good” isn't always true. You’ve probably had the experience of shopping for an outfit you thought looked amazing on you in the store but when you wore it out in the world, it didn't feel right. Or, maybe you bought an outfit you saw on someone else and loved but when you wore it, you didn’t feel like yourself. Why does this happen to us? I’m answering that very question today. Tune in to hear how I figured out what the key differentiating factor is between clients who have great outfits vs. those who have a recognizable signature style. The most fascinating part of it all? The critical ingredient for cultivating a signature style is absolutely free. Want to join me for my next round of the Style Your Brand Workshop mentioned in this episode? Doors close on October 23rd so grab your spots here: https://nicoleotchy.com/online-course CONNECT WITH ME: Website: https://www.nicoleotchy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleotchy/ Email: selfstyledpodcast@gmail.com