The Unwritten Rules

But really...if we claim to know so much about dating, why aren't we in relationships? At one point we wondered the same thing but being single and focusing on yourself is so empowering and IMPORTANT. 20-somethings have so much shit to worry about, dating isn't always on the top of our priority list. Tune in to find out all the reasons why we love being single and fabulous. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc

On this weeks episode we had our friend, Cam, filling in as a co-host for Callie. Alex asks Cam some of the questions all the ladies have been wondering. What really goes on instead the head of a straight guy? Why do they do the things they do? Alex and Cam also talked about the impact social media has had on modern dating and the damage it's doing to relationships. Tune in to find out the biggest differences between the way men think and the way women think when it comes to dating. Follow Cam: @cmng23 @niceguys_finishlast | Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc

On this episode Callie and Alex talk about the best way to start conversations behind the screen and in person. The girls chat about how to grab someones attention on a dating app when they're getting so many other replies, the best ways to be clever and NOT creepy, and how to approach someone in public without automatically turning them off to the conversation. Tune in to learn how to start the first conversation you'll ever have with your future husband or wife. 

It doesn't happen often but Callie and Alex get real serious on this episode about good vibes and self care. We talk about how important it is to let yourself heal after a break up and the best ways treat yourself during that healing process. We chat about how to move on, who to surround yourself with, and how to make sure your future relationships stay positive and healthy as well. Tune into this episode to get all the good vibes. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc

Callie and Alex dive into the top googled questions about sex and dating. We may not be professionals but we have some interesting answers to share with you all. Tune in to find out why you shouldn't stress if you're the only single friend in your group, that d*ck size doesn't really matter, and how porn is not even close to the being like real thing. As always, we get real. Don't miss this. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc 

You've heard your friends say it, you've heard your family say it but for some reason it just isn't sinking in. Now we're saying it...they're not into you. On this episode Callie and Alex tell it like it is because sometimes the truth has gotta hurt. Listen up to hear all the signs that are screaming THEY'RE NOT INTO YOU. Maybe it'll make more sense once you hear it from us. Tune in now! Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc

On this episode we're exposing all the scumbags out there. You know who we're talking about, cheaters. Callie and Alex tell all their tips and tricks on how to catch a cheater in the act and what red flags to look out for. Stay tuned until the end of this episode to find out what you should do after you realize you're in a relationship with a cheater. We have some strong opinions on this one, you don't want to miss them. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc  

Last week we gave the boys all the dirty deets on how to turn their girl on. Now listen up, ladies, this one's for you. On this episode we did our research and asked three very different guys what their turn ons and turn offs are. Tune in to hear us talk about how to surprise your man under the dinner table, why we suggest buying some grapes for practice, and things you shouldn't be doing while doing the dirty. Gals, we were just as surprised as you're about to be. Tune in! Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc 

Lick, kiss, or blow. Just do it with confidence. On this episode Callie and Alex talk about what turns girl on and what turns them off. They talk about how important physical touch is, how a little whispering can go a long way, some cute moves that will make her melt, and the RIGHT ways to make your girl feel good in bed. Stay tuned next week to hear what turns guys on in part two of this episode! Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc

On this weeks episode we talk with Samantha Jones, host of the podcast Sext and the City. We ask Sam what she thinks about modern dating culture and how dating has changed since Sex and the City aired about twenty years ago. We chat about how social media stalking can ruin a perfectly good date before it even starts, why we feel the need to search through someones digital presence to find their "catch", and the best ways to avoid overthinking in when getting to know someone. Stay tuned until the end to hear us talk about how you really know when someone is into you or not, even if you did f*ck on the first date. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc | Follow Sam: @sextnthecity | Sext and the City episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/s2-e3-cute-but-craaaazy/id1451563929?i=1000439198443

Callie and Alex bring it back to basics for this weeks episode. Yeah, we’re talking about sex, baby. Is the sex haze a real thing. Since we agreed that lust is blind how can you get out of the sex haze? Alex tells a story about a guy who got a little too crazy after hooking up and Callie talks sex positions. Don’t miss out on this one. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc 

Sometimes we're drawn to people who are NOTHING like us and we find ourselves in complicated relationships. So, can opposites work in a relationship? Callie and Alex talk about being extroverts and what it's like dating an introvert, the struggle that can come with one logical partner and one care free partner, and how the relationship can crash and burn when one person is confident and one person is insecure. We also talk about how dating has changed for us since everything we share is open to the public. Stay tuned to find out if you can make opposites work. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc | Email us: unwrittenrulesnyc@gmail.com

On this highly requested episode Callie and Alex lay down the brutal truth about the unwritten rules of dating apps. We tell all the things you should never say on your profile, what photos to avoid, and how to get someones attention when they're swiping through hundreds of people a day. Stay tuned until the end to hear how Callie's "napkin guy" is doing and how Alex got engaged this past weekend. Don't miss out on all of these DON'TS. 

On this highly requested episode Callie and Alex lay down the brutal truth about the unwritten rules of dating apps. We tell all the things you should never say on your profile, what photos to avoid, and how to get someones attention when they're swiping through hundreds of people a day. Stay tuned until the end to hear how Callie's "napkin guy" is doing and how Alex got engaged this past weekend. Don't miss out on all of these DON'TS. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc

Summer travel season is rapidly approaching and we're catching flights instead of feelings. On this episode we chat with Alex's Australian travel buddy, Lulu, about some of our best travel hookups. Tune in to hear why Alex and Lulu are part time mafia members, what permanent souvenir Callie brought home from Dublin, and why you should be as spontaneous as possible even if it means flying to California for a frat party. Don't miss this overseas episode! Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc 

When casually dating catching feelings is like catching the common cold, it's inevitable. On this episode we chat about the best ways to keep your casual fling...causal. Alex tells her worst late night booty call experience and Callie gives her advice on avoiding the feels. Also, is it weird to meet your f*ck buddies friends? Let us know after you tune into this episode! Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc

Summer is on it’s way and we’re in the mood for a fling this year just like Paige Desorbo on Bravo TV’s, Summer House. We chat with Paige about what it’s been like to receive fast fame, how that’s affected her dating life and what it’s like being a girl who’s ready for something serious in New York City. We also talk about the Summer House drama and what we can expect on the last few episodes of the season. Trust us, you’re going to want to tune in. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc | Follow Paige: @paige_desorbo

On this week’s episode we talk with our guest, Annae, about some of the craziest decisions we’ve made as girlfriends. We aren’t proud of these moments but everyone gets a little crazy sometimes, right? Tune in to hear us talk about excessive texting and calling, being two timed and being the two timer, and we finally answer a questions from an anonymous listener. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc | follow Annae: @annaewetherhold

A creative, photographer, and Callie’s childhood BFF, Tyler Schoeber, joins us to give a little lesson in gay...a “glesson”. Tune in to hear us talk about dealing with a fuckboy (or girl), getting ghosted, being benched, and getting breadcrumbed. We also ask Tyler some of the biggest differences between gay and straight dating. You don't want to miss this one. Follow us: @unwrittenrulesnyc | Follow Tyler: @tylerschoeber

Everyone hates them yet everyone uses them...dating apps. Are the apps a good way to meet people or is it just a game we’re all are addicted to playing? On this episode we talk about all the reasons why we tolerate them and all the reasons why we hate them (mostly hate them). You won’t find us deleting them anytime soon though. Tune in to find out why!