The Very Mary Life: Unfiltered

In this episode of Picking Daisies, Mary sits down with Elise—therapist, life coach, and founder of Be Bloomed—to talk about the parts of life we usually keep tucked away. From chronic health struggles and layered grief to the fine line between intuition and anxiety, this conversation is a deep dive into healing, honesty, and showing up as your full self. Elise opens up about how her own challenges led her to support others through therapy and coaching. Mary shares her experience navigating family dynamics, motherhood, and what it means to keep growing even when life feels heavy. Together, they explore how emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and authenticity aren’t just helpful—they’re healing. If you're someone who’s ever felt too much, too broken, or just tired of pretending everything’s fine—this episode is for you. 💛 Want to work with Elise? She’s offering Picking Daisies listeners 15% off a single support session with code DAISY at bebloomed.co. 🪻 Follow Elise on Instagram: @elise__dean Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this honest and surprisingly funny episode, I’m joined by Brianna Riser, mom, dental professional, and now VP of Experience at Toothpillow—a brand on a mission to change the game when it comes to pediatric dental health and sleep. We chat about everything from early orthodontic intervention (yes, it matters way more than we think) to how sleep issues and mouth breathing could be impacting your kid’s mood, focus, and development. Brianna breaks it all down without the jargon, shares her personal “why” behind the work she’s doing, and offers real support for parents navigating the confusing and expensive world of dental care. We also talk about: Why sleep apnea is more common in kids than we realize How cultural habits, diet, and access all play into oral health The mental load of motherhood and why dental care becomes one more thing on the list Toothpillow’s mission to educate, empower, and support families And the very real possibility that my husband and I will have to sell feet pics to afford our kids’ future braces Whether you’re a seasoned mom or still Googling “when do baby teeth fall out,” this episode is packed with info, empathy, and reminders that you’re not alone in trying to figure it all out. Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Emily and Mary open up about the complexities of motherhood—from postpartum challenges to sibling dynamics, the pressures of social media, and the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery. They share how playdates have become a new stage in parenting, why embracing the chaos is necessary, and how they’re learning to carve out personal identities beyond motherhood. Together, they reflect on: The emotional rollercoaster of postpartum and the support tools that help Navigating sibling relationships and balancing attention The double-edged sword of social media in shaping mom identities The messy magic of playdates and parenting in real life Why personal fulfillment and self-care matter just as much as snack prep and screen-time limits Key Takeaways: Motherhood is an ongoing journey of adjustment and growth Social media can connect moms—but also contribute to pressure and comparison Chaos is normal in parenting; embracing it brings freedom Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s survival Promoting a healthy body image starts at home Each child—and each mom—has their own unique path Support, flexibility, and compassion (for yourself!) go a long way Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this episode of Picking Daisies, Mary sits down with financial therapist Lindsey Konchar to unpack the emotional side of money. Together, they dive into how our early money stories shape our adult habits, the shame that often surrounds finances, and why open conversations—especially within families—are essential. Lindsey blends behavioral therapy with practical financial tools to help families, especially stay-at-home parents, rethink their relationship with money. They discuss everything from financial infidelity and money dynamics in relationships to teaching kids how to spend with intention (and yes, even how TikTok Shop fits into it all). This is more than a budgeting chat—it’s a fresh, honest take on financial self-care, how to spend in a way that feels good, and how to raise financially aware kids without fear or scarcity. Takeaways: Over 90% of Americans experience financial stress—you're not alone. Your money story is learned young (by age 10!) but can be changed. Intentional spending should create joy and reduce chaos—not shame. Stay-at-home parents contribute in ways that deserve recognition and partnership. Avoiding money conversations only adds to the stress—especially in relationships. Kids can sense financial tension, even if it’s unspoken—so include them. Family meetings and honest conversations build trust and confidence. Use resources like podcasts to support your journey toward financial peace. Whether you’re in a relationship, parenting little ones, or just trying to break the cycle of paycheck-to-paycheck living, this episode offers thoughtful, doable steps for anyone ready to shift their money mindset. Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

Hi friends! We are back. So sorry for the little pause to help me catch up after one of the worst sick seasons my house has seen. In this episode of Picking Daisies, Mary sits down with Kristin Revere — doula, podcast host, founder of Gold Coast Doulas, and author of Supported: Your Guide to Birth and Baby — to have a raw and powerful conversation about what it truly means to feel supported in motherhood. They unpack the critical role doulas play in the birthing and postpartum experience — not just as birth experts, but as compassionate advocates who help women feel seen, heard, and held in one of life’s most transformational moments. From personal stories to generational perspectives, hypnobirthing to loss support, this conversation touches every corner of what support really looks like when you’re growing through what you go through. They also explore the cultural stigma around asking for help, how education can empower moms, and why support in motherhood should never be treated like a luxury. Whether you're preparing for birth, healing from it, or just wondering how to show up better for yourself or the people you love — this episode is packed with insight, validation, and a gentle reminder that you don’t have to do it all alone. TAKEAWAYS: Doulas offer critical emotional, physical, and informational support throughout childbirth. Hypnobirthing empowers women through positive language and visualization techniques. Loss doulas provide vital care and comfort during some of the hardest moments of parenthood. Generational beliefs can shape the way we view support in birth and postpartum. Doulas help partners feel more prepared and involved in the birthing process. New moms often feel isolated — doulas can be a lifeline in those early days. Cultural norms often stigmatize asking for help, making support feel like a privilege instead of a right. Education about birth options leads to more confident, empowered parents. A birth preference sheet helps care teams support the birthing person more intentionally. Kristin’s book Supported offers a judgment-free, inclusive approach to navigating pregnancy, birth, and early parenting. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Kristin Revere's book: Supported: Your Guide to Birth and Baby Gold Coast Doulas: goldcoastdoulas.com Ask the Doulas Podcast Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Mary sits down with sleep consultant and mom, Alexa Martinez, to unpack the deeply intertwined realities of sleep, parenting, and mental health. From Alexa’s own battles with postpartum anxiety and insomnia to her personal experience with cancer recovery, this episode is a powerful reminder of the importance of prioritizing both mental and physical well-being in motherhood. Mary and Alexa explore the polarizing world of sleep training, shedding light on the guilt and confusion many parents feel when it comes to their children’s sleep. They dive into why personalized approaches are key, how sleep (or the lack of it) affects hormone regulation and mental health, and why moms need to stop sacrificing themselves in the name of motherhood. Together, they share raw, funny, and inspiring moments about navigating post-surgery life, building strong support systems, and learning to ask for help. This episode is a love letter to moms who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure—and a reminder that no parenting question is too silly to ask. Key Takeaways: Alexa shares her personal journey through cancer and recovery. Postpartum anxiety and sleep struggles are deeply connected. Sleep is essential for regulating hormones and maintaining mental health. The conversation around sleep training is often polarizing, but a one-size-fits-all approach doesn't work. Moms frequently sacrifice their own health and sleep for their children—and it's time to change that. Health issues and recovery can significantly shape the parenting experience. Strong support systems and open communication with partners are crucial. Humor can be healing—even after surgery or during sleepless nights. It’s okay to admit when you're done having kids. You are allowed to feel overwhelmed, to ask for help, and to trust your instincts. Resources Mentioned: Learn more about Alexa, her work, her mission and everything else  Connect with Mary: Instagram: @theverymarylife Podcast Instagram: @pickingdaisiespodcast Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this episode of Picking Daisies, Mary Hendricks sits down with CEO of Motette, Samantha Gold to discuss the beautiful, messy, and ever-evolving journey of motherhood, entrepreneurship, and personal growth. Samantha shares her experience of launching a new sleepwear brand while raising two young children, and the lessons she’s learned about balance, vulnerability, and building a supportive community. Together, Mary and Samantha dive into the challenges of relationships and parenting, exploring topics like healthy conflict, therapy, modeling positive habits for children, and the impact of addiction in various forms. They also unpack the power of social media in connecting moms, the importance of seeking fulfillment outside of motherhood, and why it’s okay to embrace the messiness of life instead of striving for perfection. This conversation is an honest, relatable reminder that we’re all figuring it out together, and that putting yourself out there can lead to deeper connections, personal growth, and even business success. Takeaways: ✨ Motherhood can feel isolating, but finding a supportive community makes all the difference. ✨ Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. ✨ Social media can foster real, meaningful connections. ✨ Pursuing your passions outside of motherhood is not selfish—it's essential. ✨ Healthy conflict in relationships teaches kids valuable life skills. ✨ Perfectionism can hold you back in business and life. ✨ Therapy provides accountability and deeper self-awareness. ✨ Parenting often unearths unresolved personal issues. ✨ Addiction isn't just about substances—it can show up in habits like shopping or food. ✨ Investing in yourself leads to growth, confidence, and stronger relationships. ✨ Motherhood is challenging, but no one has to navigate it alone. 💬 Join the conversation! Tag us on Instagram @thepickingdaisiespod and let us know what resonated most with you! 📌 Subscribe & Review: If you love the show, be sure to subscribe and leave a review—it helps us continue sharing real, unfiltered conversations about motherhood and beyond! 🎧 Listen now on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Your Favorite Podcast App Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

⚠️ Disclaimer: This episode contains discussions about cannabis use, consumption methods, and its relationship with mental health and motherhood. This content is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult a healthcare professional before making any health or lifestyle changes. In this fascinating and educational conversation, Mary Hendricks and Riley Kirk, a cannabis educator and scientist, dive deep into the realities, myths, and stigmas surrounding cannabis use, particularly in the context of motherhood, mental health, and wellness. They explore the differences between edibles, vaporization, and smoking, the importance of terpenes in cannabis effects, and how dosing plays a crucial role in having a positive experience. Mary and Riley also discuss the stigma surrounding cannabis use, the challenges of discussing it with medical professionals, and why education is the key to responsible and informed consumption. The episode also covers legal considerations, product safety, and common misconceptions about Delta-8, THCA, and other cannabis products that have gained popularity. If you're curious about how cannabis fits into motherhood, mental health management, or everyday wellness, this episode provides a judgment-free, research-backed conversation to help break down the barriers of stigma. 🔹 Key Takeaways: Stigma around cannabis use makes it difficult for moms to have open conversations. Education is key to safe and responsible cannabis use. Dosing matters! The right method and amount can make all the difference. Vaporization vs. smoking vs. edibles—understanding the differences. Managing overconsumption—what to do if you’ve had too much. Finding trustworthy medical professionals who understand cannabis. Terpenes impact the effects of cannabis more than just THC levels. Legal complexities and product safety—what consumers need to know. Cannabis can be a tool for mental health and postpartum experiences. Open conversations empower mothers and help normalize responsible use. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Share your thoughts, experiences, or questions by tagging us on Instagram (@thepickingdaisiespod). 📌 Additional Resources: 📚 Educational Resources on Cannabis: Leafly (leafly.com) – Cannabis strain information and guides Canvast Supply (https://canvastsupplyco.com) *Riley Recommended* NAP (www.appliedpharmacognosy.org/) – Research-based cannabis education Riley Kirk (@cannabichem on Instagram & TikTok) – Cannabis education & science 📞 If You Need Legal or Medical Guidance: NORML (National Organization for the Reform of Marijuana Laws): norml.org Medical Marijuana Laws by State: mpp.org Find a Cannabis-Friendly Doctor: Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions about mental health struggles, including suicide. If this is a sensitive topic for you, please listen with care. If you or someone you know is struggling, resources are listed at the end of this episode. You are not alone. In this raw and honest conversation, Mary Hendricks and Maddie dive deep into the realities of mental health, motherhood, trauma, loss, and the stigma surrounding medication. They share their personal journeys with bipolar disorder, anxiety, postpartum challenges, and identity shifts in motherhood. Together, they unpack generational differences in understanding mental health, the physical and emotional weight of anxiety, and why talking about emotions with our children matters. They also explore the intersection of faith and mental health, the impact of personal loss, and the importance of seeking help and finding a supportive community. This episode is a reminder that mental health is not linear, healing takes time, and no one should feel ashamed for needing help. If you've ever struggled with your mental well-being or felt alone in your journey, this conversation will help you feel seen. 🔹 Key Takeaways: Mental health is complex and often misunderstood. Medication is not a failure—it's a tool that helps many navigate their struggles. Talking to kids about emotions helps break the stigma and generational cycles. Loss and grief shape us, teaching hard-earned empathy and perspective. There is no one-size-fits-all way to experience postpartum emotions. Mothers are more than their roles—your identity outside of parenting matters. Community support is essential—no one should go through this alone. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend or tag us on Instagram (@thepickingdaisiespod). 📌 If You or Someone You Know Is Struggling, Please Reach Out for Help: 📞 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.): 988 or 1-800-273-TALK (8255) 📱 Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741741 🌍 International Mental Health Resources: Find resources by country 📞 Postpartum Support International: 1-800-944-4773 or text HELP to 800-944-4773 📞 NAMI Helpline (National Alliance on Mental Illness): 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) You are not alone. There is help. There is hope. 💛 Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this very raw episode (think a good FaceTime between two great friends), Jess (@lowcarbdashian) and Mary dive deep into the multifaceted journey of motherhood. They candidly share their experiences—from the whirlwind of managing one child to welcoming a second, to the emotional challenges of leaving a career to pursue full-time content creation. The conversation is a blend of raw vulnerability, honest reflections, and empowering insights, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating the joys and struggles of parenting. Key Topics Discussed: Transitioning Motherhood:The unique challenges and joys of moving from parenting one child to two. Navigating the chaos and finding moments of balance amid the daily hustle. Emotional Journey & Self-Discovery:The impact of societal expectations and personal dreams on the motherhood journey. Dealing with grief over lost dreams and the transformative process of self-discovery. Career Changes & Content Creation:The emotional journey of leaving a traditional career to become a full-time content creator. Balancing the creative demands of content creation with the responsibilities of parenting. Authenticity & Vulnerability:The importance of being true to oneself in the face of societal pressures and social media portrayals. How authentic sharing can pave the way for deeper connections and community support. Community & Connection:Emphasizing the role of community in overcoming challenges and celebrating motherhood. The power of support networks in repairing relationships and fostering solidarity among mothers. Body Image & Personal Wellbeing:Discussing the challenges of body image and the journey toward weight loss and self-acceptance. How personal identity evolves in the realm of motherhood and social expectations. Takeaways for Listeners: Embrace the messy, beautiful reality of motherhood—it's filled with both chaos and profound joy. Authenticity is key: sharing your struggles and triumphs creates a supportive and understanding community. Balancing personal identity with the demands of parenting is a continuous journey that benefits from self-compassion and community connection. The evolution from a career-oriented life to full-time motherhood can be challenging but also deeply rewarding when supported by genuine relationships and shared experiences. Connect With Our Guests: Jess (@lowcarbdashian): Follow her journey and insights on social media for more inspiration on balancing healthy lifestyles with real-life parenting. Mary Hendricks: Stay tuned for more discussions on navigating the emotional and practical complexities of modern motherhood. Final Note: This episode is a powerful reminder that while motherhood can be unpredictable and challenging, it is also an opportunity for growth, healing, and connection. Whether you’re a seasoned parent or just starting out, there’s a piece of this conversation for everyone. Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

Ever feel like motherhood has completely rewired your brain? Spoiler: It actually has. In this episode, I sit down with Hannah Keeley, mom of seven, behavioral therapist, and creator of the Mom Brain Makeover Program, to unpack the science of 'mom brain'—why it happens, how it affects us, and what we can do to shift out of survival mode. We’re diving deep into: 🧠 How motherhood literally changes the structure of your brain (you’re not imagining it!). 😰 Why free-floating anxiety is so common among moms—and how to interrupt it. ✨ The power of imagination in combating anxiety and shifting your mindset. 🚀 Counterintuitive strategies that help moms ditch guilt, embrace self-worth, and grow into their power. 💡 How small thought shifts can boost serotonin, dopamine, and overall mental clarity. Motherhood isn’t about just getting by—it’s about thriving. Hannah’s journey from overwhelm to empowerment proves that moms aren’t failing; they just need the right tools. And trust me, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, understood, and ready to reclaim your brain. Sign Up for the Mom Brain Makeover Program If you’re ready to retrain your brain, reset your mindset, and take back your joy, Hannah just launched her Mom Brain Makeover Program—a step-by-step guide to help moms break free from the overwhelm. 🌟 Sign up and learn more HERE: Connect with Hannah Keeley 📲 Instagram: @HannahKeeley 🌍 Website: HannahKeeley.com Keep the Conversation Going! 💬 Join the Picking Daisies Community on Instagram: @theverymarylife @thepickingdaisiespod 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your feedback helps more moms find the show! Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

Okay, so this is definitely not my usual content, but after making a few AI-generated songs for @theverymarylife and seeing the massive response, I figured—why not share the full version here? Since I have no clue how to put it out any other way and I do have a podcast, this seemed like the easiest route. That said, these are just for fun! AI is wild, but let’s not forget to support real musicians and artists—because when you hear how good this stuff can be, you realize why it might feel like a threat. So enjoy the fun, but don’t forget to keep backing the people who make real magic happen! 🎤✨ Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this episode of Picking Daisies, Mary Hendricks sits down with Elizabeth Madzin for an eye-opening conversation about Lipedema, a chronic fat disorder affecting many women. Elizabeth shares her deeply personal journey, discussing the challenges of diagnosis, the struggle for medical advocacy, and the emotional toll of living with a misunderstood condition. Together, they explore: 🌼 What Lipedema is and how it affects the body 🌼 The frustrations of being misdiagnosed and dismissed by medical professionals 🌼 Why personal training can be a healing journey beyond just aesthetics 🌼 The emotional and mental toll of chronic illness 🌼 The role of GLP-1 medications and their impact on weight management 🌼 Why advocacy and education about women’s health are so important 🌼 The reality of fitness when diet and exercise don’t yield expected results 🌼 The power of community, supportive relationships, and setting boundaries This episode is raw, honest, and packed with insights about body image, health, and the journey toward self-acceptance. Whether you or someone you know struggles with Lipedema or another chronic illness, this conversation will leave you feeling more informed, understood, and empowered. Episode Takeaways: ✔ Lipedema is a misunderstood fat disorder that complicates weight management. ✔ Diet and exercise alone are often ineffective for those with Lipedema. ✔ Medical advocacy is crucial—doctors don’t always have the full picture. ✔ Stress and anxiety can worsen chronic health conditions. ✔ Supportive relationships can be life-changing in a health journey. ✔ Women’s health issues are often overlooked in medical research. ✔ Societal expectations play a huge role in body image struggles. ✔ Finding joy in everyday life is important, no matter your body size or shape. ✔ Community support and shared stories help break down stigmas. ✔ There is hope, help, and healing for those navigating chronic health conditions. Noted Resources: Dr. Boris Volshteyn Lipedema Foundation Lipedema Mamas Podcast Listen Now: 🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms! 💬 Join the Conversation: Have you or someone you know experienced challenges in getting a proper diagnosis? Let’s talk about it! Share your story with us on Instagram @thepickingdaisiespod  📩 Stay Connected: Get exclusive updates, behind-the-scenes content, and additional resources by subscribing to our weekly newsletter. Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

Motherhood is messy, beautiful, exhausting, and rewarding—all at the same time. In this episode of Picking Daisies, Mary Hendricks sits down with Madison Barbosa for an unfiltered conversation about the complexities of parenting in today’s world. From navigating the emotional weight of parenting decisions to the impact of social media, they discuss what it really means to raise children in a time of shifting expectations. Together, they explore: 🌼 The chaos of early motherhood and why it can feel so overwhelming 🌼 Health concerns in families and why they should never be ignored 🌼 The pressure of social media and how it shapes parenting perceptions 🌼 The guilt and confusion of unexpected pregnancies 🌼 The realities of stay-at-home motherhood vs. societal expectations 🌼 The ongoing debate around gentle parenting and discipline 🌼 Balancing holiday traditions with modern parenting values 🌼 The role of substances like marijuana and alcohol in parenting 🌼 The importance of honesty, humor, and breaking generational cycles This conversation is as real as it gets—raw, relatable, and full of wisdom. If you've ever felt the weight of parenting or questioned whether you’re doing it “right,” this episode is for you. Episode Takeaways: ✔ Motherhood is a mix of chaos, love, and exhaustion. ✔ Social media often amplifies parenting struggles and expectations. ✔ Long-distance relationships and unexpected life changes shape families. ✔ Raising multiple children comes with unique joys and challenges. ✔ Gentle parenting isn’t easy, but it’s worth the effort. ✔ It’s okay to acknowledge the hard days and lean on humor. ✔ Screen time, traditions, and discipline are evolving conversations. ✔ Confidence in parenting doesn’t mean you won’t face doubt. ✔ Every parent's journey is unique and should be respected. Listen Now: 🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and wherever you get your podcasts! 💬 Join the Conversation: What part of motherhood has surprised you the most? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram @thepickingdaisiespod 📩 Stay Connected: Don’t miss out on future episodes—subscribe to our weekly newsletter for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and more! Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Mary Hendricks sits down with fashion expert Katie Kabel to explore the transformative journey of rediscovering personal identity through style, especially for mothers. Together, they discuss how color analysis and intentional dressing can empower women to reclaim their confidence and celebrate their individuality. From navigating identity shifts in motherhood to embracing body changes and finding joy in daily life, this conversation is packed with actionable insights and meaningful reflections. Katie shares her transition from DJ to fashion expert, uncovering how style can be a tool for self-care and self-expression. They explore the concept of 'dopamine dressing,' discuss the role of color in boosting energy and mood, and encourage women to prioritize their own happiness by dressing with intention. The episode emphasizes the importance of 'bouncing forward' rather than striving to return to a pre-motherhood version of self. Whether you’re a mom navigating life’s many roles or someone seeking inspiration to embrace your own unique style, this episode will leave you motivated to step into your wardrobe with fresh eyes and renewed confidence. Key Takeaways: Katie Kabel shares her journey from DJ to fashion expert, highlighting the power of personal transformation. Color analysis can profoundly impact personal confidence and help women understand their best colors. Dressing intentionally can enhance self-image, motivation, and mood. 'Dopamine dressing' is a concept that promotes joy through clothing choices. Motherhood often overshadows personal identity, but it’s vital to prioritize self-care and individuality. Embracing all aspects of womanhood—beyond motherhood—is essential for personal fulfillment. Finding joy outside of others and accepting body changes post-pregnancy are crucial steps toward self-acceptance. 'Bouncing forward' is a healthier mindset than aiming to 'bounce back.' Women are encouraged to explore their personal style without fear, allowing it to evolve with their personal growth. Empowerment comes from curating a wardrobe that reflects your unique style and identity. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Follow Katie Kabel on Instagram Work with Katie  Picking Daisies Podcast IG Community Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Share your style transformations, color discoveries, or how you’re embracing the mindset of 'bouncing forward' on social media. Tag us @thepickingdaisiespod with the hashtag #BouncingForward. Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review to help us reach more women on their journey of self-discovery and growth. Share this episode with a friend who could use a little inspiration to find joy in her wardrobe and life. Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

Well, I wasn't expecting this... but after sharing a little snippet of this song on my stories, I got hundreds of messages asking for the full version. So, here it is! This episode is just for you—whether you're here out of curiosity, love the vibe, or just want to have it on repeat. I wrote the lyrics, and with a little AI magic, the full song came to life. I hope you enjoy it as much as I enjoyed creating it. Let me know what you think, and hey, who knows? Maybe there's more music in the future! Listen, share, and tag me if you love it! 💛 Want more? Connect with me on Instagram @theverymarylife or @thepickingdaisiespod and let me know your thoughts! Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this heartfelt episode, host Mary Hendricks sits down with Jordan Arogeti, co-founder of Support Now, to explore the intersection of motherhood, mental health, and the transformative power of community. Jordan shares her personal journey as a mom and the inspiration behind creating Support Now, a platform designed to simplify and normalize asking for help during life’s biggest moments. Together, they discuss how societal expectations and shame create barriers to seeking support and how technology can bridge those gaps. Whether it’s creating a registry for meals, childcare, or emotional support, Support Now is redefining the way families navigate challenges. Mary and Jordan also reflect on how the pandemic emphasized the importance of community and why moms don’t need to do it all alone. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why asking for help can feel so hard—and how to overcome it. How Support Now works to reduce the overwhelm families face during major life changes. The role of community in improving mental health and emotional well-being. How technology is reshaping support networks and making help more accessible. Practical ways to create registries for family support. Why it’s essential to break the myth of the “do-it-all mom.” Lessons from the pandemic on the importance of giving and receiving help. Key Takeaways: Support Now simplifies support for families by offering customizable solutions. Motherhood is challenging and often isolating, but community can change everything. Overcoming societal shame about asking for help is key to fostering connection. Technology offers innovative ways to facilitate care and support. Registries aren’t just for weddings and baby showers—they can be lifesavers in hard times. Resources and Links: Visit Support Now Stay connected with Mary Hendricks over on @theverymarylife or @thepickingdaisiespod  Share Your Thoughts: Have you ever struggled with asking for help? Join the conversation on social media and share your thoughts with Mary! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode. Connect with Us: Follow Picking Daisies Podcast for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and more inspiring conversations. Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Mary Hendricks is joined by Kaitlyn Nilles to unpack the multifaceted roles of motherhood and the challenges of balancing work, family, and personal growth. Together, they explore the transition from corporate jobs to content creation, shedding light on the financial, emotional, and societal pressures moms face every day. The discussion emphasizes the value of all forms of motherhood—whether working outside the home, staying at home, or navigating entrepreneurship. Kaitlyn shares her journey as a single parent, highlighting the importance of quality time over quantity with kids and the need for self-care and mental health breaks. They also dive into co-parenting, the evolving dynamics of relationships post-divorce, and the empowerment that comes from knowing your worth. This episode is a candid reminder that no matter what label society places on you, all moms are working moms, and every role deserves recognition and support. Key Takeaways: The Value of All Mothers: Labels like "working mom" and "stay-at-home mom" are limiting and don’t reflect the hard work all mothers do. Quality Over Quantity: Time spent with kids doesn’t have to be constant to be meaningful. Mental Health Breaks: It’s okay to pause and invest in yourself—your growth benefits everyone. Navigating Change: Post-divorce relationships and co-parenting can evolve positively with communication and self-worth. Motherhood and Money: Childcare costs highlight the true value of unpaid parenting work. Entrepreneurship Reality: Content creation is a mix of passion, unpaid labor, and eventual reward. Support Systems: Community and connection are essential for moms navigating modern parenting. Social Expectations: Society’s definitions of motherhood need a serious overhaul—let’s celebrate every path moms take. LINKS MENTIONED: Listen to the me as a guest on Kailtyn's Podcast, I Didn't Sign Up For This https://open.spotify.com/episode/02qJz4GpxrudAKZwWawF5m To follow Kaitlyn: https://www.instagram.com/honestly.kaitlyn/ https://linktr.ee/honestlykaitlyn?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabHwD_S94Ogw4bTo3b7VRirCfzmQXRAH1zTyW0VTy8NI7HzNe6oXB4l8nU_aem_h4XWLVCV3wqyn-AZBmmOvQ REMEMBER: If this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to subscribe to Picking Daisies and share it with a friend who needs some encouragement. Let’s grow through what we go through, together. 🌼 Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

After a year-long hiatus, Mary Hendricks is back with a brand-new season of Picking Daisies! In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Mary shares the journey that led to her break from podcasting and what inspired her return. She opens up about her struggles with mental health, including PMDD and ADHD, and the lessons she’s learned about healing, community, and the power of honesty. Mary also takes listeners behind the scenes of her podcasting experience, discussing the importance of structure and how embracing both the messy and beautiful parts of life has shaped her approach to this new season. Get ready for a season of authentic conversations, relatable stories, and heartfelt encouragement as Picking Daisiesreturns with a renewed focus on growth, support, and honesty. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why Mary took a year-long break from podcasting and what brought her back. The importance of structure in creating engaging content. How PMDD and ADHD have shaped Mary’s personal and professional journey. Why healing is a continuous journey rather than a destination. The value of community and support in navigating life’s challenges. How honesty in conversations can be both liberating and met with resistance. Why it’s essential to embrace the messy, imperfect moments of life. Key Takeaways: Podcasting is like the wild west—anyone can start, but structure is key to success. Mental health struggles like PMDD and ADHD are common and should be openly discussed. Healing is ongoing; it’s not about perfection but progress. Community support is vital for personal growth and resilience. Sharing the good, the bad, and the messy parts of life helps foster connection. Honesty in conversations may be met with resistance, but it’s worth it. Medication can be an effective tool in mental health management. Connect with Mary Hendricks & Picking Daisies: Instagram: [@TheVeryMaryLife] Newsletter: [Link to subscribe] Join the Conversation: We want to hear from you! What part of Mary’s journey resonated most with you? Share your thoughts on social media and tag us using [#PickingDaisiesPodcast]. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need encouragement. Together, we can embrace the mess and grow through what we go through. Eye-Opening Moments Podcast Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are... Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com

In this episode, Mary shares her personal journey of discovering and being diagnosed with ADHD. She discusses the symptoms and challenges she faced, as well as the impact it had on her daily life. Mary also explores the connection between ADHD and PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) and how they can exacerbate each other. She shares her experience of starting medication for ADHD and the positive effects it has had on her overall well-being. Mary concludes by encouraging listeners to seek help and support if they suspect they may have ADHD. Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com