The VIRGIN, THE BEAUTY & The B!TCH

She is Jesse Susannah Karnatz, aka the Money Witch, a financial educator and coach who brings wisdom, realness, and a touch of magic to the conversation about women and wealth, and the deeply rooted systems that try to keep them mutually excluded. From shame to savvy, Jessie reminds women of the historical and systemic forces that have shaped their collective money wounds and what it takes for women to stand at the very edge of their financial sovereignty. Whether you’re just starting your journey toward financial independence or live in a reality of overwhelm when it comes to money, this episode will challenge your perspective, validate your experiences, and offer practical wisdom for healing, empowerment, and transformation in ways you might not anticipate. All of it, including a little money magic from the Money Witch herself, is yours for free.

Dawn Thompson has been where so many women who want success and work for it find themselves: building a storybook-perfect life on the outside, only to realize something essential is missing within. For her, it took more than one near-death health scare or an embezzlement scandal in her business to alter her life path; it took a question from her three-year-old daughter, who wanted to know why her seemingly happy and successful mother never laughed. Today, Dawn Thompson is the mastermind behind I Deserve It Now, known as the “soul CEO activator,” a master at helping women and high achievers uncover hidden patterns of betrayal and blind spots that keep them stuck, working in circles, and seeking something that money, success, or being busy can’t replace. If you believe you deserve success and peace of mind, and that you deserve them now, this conversation is a roadmap, crafted by a woman who’s been there, done that, and found peace and joy enough to laugh out loud.

Lindsay Jacobi is a transformational mentor, speaker, and founder of Glow Up Collective, helping women who have lost themselves reconnect with their confidence, beauty, boundaries, pleasure, and power. Her work blends deep inner healing with real-life transformation, helping women become more sovereign, regulated, peaceful, and fully expressed in their lives and relationships. With her signature 90-day Glow Up experience, Lindsay supports women in areas such as personal style, beauty, relationship reconnection, vision mapping, and anti-burnout lifestyle shifts, with a focus on real follow-through, not just inspiration. Her approach is rooted in the belief that the glow-up is not just about appearance. It’s about finally feeling like yourself again and creating a life that reflects the woman you know you are meant to be.  As an entry in our VBB Year Of The BITCH conversations, we talk openly about Bitch, a word most women, for understandable reasons, reject outright. For us, Bitches aren’t only venomous women but bold women who defy social stereotypes to reclaim narratives and embrace the full spectrum of their innate identity. It’s a conversation about self-empowerment and living authentically, regardless of how others want to shame or control you with a word. If you’re up for open dialogue with a woman who leads by example, jump in.

Ashley Jordan is a role model for Good Girl defectors. She shares her deeply personal journey from living as a high-achieving, approval-seeking “good girl” to reclaiming her authentic, badass, bitch-inspired self. Ashley calls it “unbecoming,” a rejection of trying to become what others expect or demand. She explores what it means to shed layers of societal conditioning and return to one’s true essence. Ashley, a licensed attorney, nationally recognized journalist, sought-after speaker, and author of Unhappy Achiever: Rejecting the Good Girl Image and Reclaiming the Joy of Inner Fulfillment, draws on personal experience to lay out the hidden costs women often pay for “good girl” behavior, including the addictive rewards of external validation. She speaks candidly about the systemic pressures and cultural conditioning women face and is brutally honest about what it takes to prioritize your deepest desires, your holy of holies, and to take on all obstacles, even those that feel unbearable, that eventually lead to a life defined not by achievement but by liberation and self-trust.  This is a very candid conversation with a woman who is rooted in helping other women break free from the constraints of an often misunderstood “Good Girl” identity. 

Elizabeth Flock is an Emmy award-winning journalist with bylines in the New Yorker, the New York Times, Foreign Policy, the Guardian, the Atlantic, and many other publications. She’s also an author who leads us through the dark, murky waters of women and vengeance. Her book, "The Furies: Women, Vengeance, and Justice,” unravels what happens when women are betrayed by systems set up to protect them. When, on average, 50,000 women and girls are killed by intimate partners or family members annually, often because police, courts, and politicians failed to act on complaints and protect them, sometimes justice for women becomes an act of desperate vengeance. It's said, Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned,” but when that fury isn’t just anger, and becomes deadly force, can it be justified, or forgiven?  Elizabeth bravely explores the roots of systemic, societal, and familial betrayals that can erupt into deadly force.

What does it mean to be chumped? It means the person you trusted most has a double life and has cheated on you. In this episode, we explore the meaning of betrayal, how it often shatters lives, and can strike so deeply that it feels like a living death. But it doesn’t need to be your epitaph. Our guest and guide is Tracy Schorn, a woman who’s been chumped but rose up to become an award-winning blogger, cartoonist, and bestselling author of “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady’s Survival Guide.” As "Chump Lady,” Tracy specializes in helping people, especially women, process the trauma of infidelity and reclaim their lives. In this episode, you’ll hear Tracy’s signature blend of tough love, raw candor, and biting humor. Tracy's mission is to challenge toxic narratives around cheating, empower those who have been chumped, and spark real conversations around identity, trust, and healing.  If you or someone you care about has faced a devastating betrayal, has been chumped, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, inspired, and ready to reclaim your life.

Edy Nathan is a licensed therapist, certified sex therapist, hypnotherapist, and certified EMDR practitioner, as well as the author of "It's Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery Through Trauma and Loss." We also admire her for giving us an iconic quote, one that has become a guiding star for our mission of women’s empowerment, and words we believe every woman should hear and adopt as their mantra. Her quote: “I think that we, as women, have to learn how to be a Bitch, and become really good at it.” For women, that line can be either misunderstood as an oxymoron. or used as a source of eternal motivation. Whichever side of the fence you’re on, we invited Edy to take a deep dive into our B.I.T.C.H, which means becoming your boldest self through exploring Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing, and turning what was once a painful word into a powerful pathway to self-empowerment. This is an honest, open, fierce, and uplifting discussion for you if your desire is to share your voice, honor your identity, and become the best version of yourself — unapologetically.

Alisa Gracheva is a licensed mental health counselor and holistic coach with a unique ability to blend ancient practices such as Reiki, meditation, and sacred sound healing with modern, cutting-edge trauma therapies. Informed by her own life trauma and a deep, compassionate perspective on what it truly means to heal, grow, and empower yourself — body, mind, and soul — this conversation is fueled by timeless knowledge and practical know-how. Can painful experiences, like intimate partner betrayal, be used as a starting point for personal transformation and self-discovery? Alisa shares how betrayal can be a catalyst for growth, especially for women navigating a world full of double standards. Whether you’re pushing through heartbreak, striving to set your boundaries, or reinventing who you are, you’ll find wisdom and real talk about what it takes to build a life and an identity that are truly you and truly trustworthy. Be ready for soul-nourishing insight, practical tips, and a few laughs along the way with Alisa Gracheva .

Tori Jenae is a trauma-informed coach, energy psychology expert, and spiritual powerhouse who admits flat out, “I've been through hell and back, and I have the map to get you out.” Through her story, we dive into the transformative process of reclaiming identity beyond societal labels, letting go of limiting roles that no longer serve us, and confronting the silent demons of self-betrayal. We explore the importance of embodied healing, reconnecting with intuition and the body's wisdom, and making space for women's authentic power, including the reclamation of the connection between sexuality and creativity. Prepare for a conversation that challenges the scripts written for you as a woman, reveals the hidden strengths within your struggles, and turns words that wound and stereotypes that sting into sources of radical self-love and empowerment. On this journey, we continue our series of unpacking not only the obvious pain but also the overlooked power behind the word “B.I.T.C.H,” transforming it from a source of suffering into a pathway to women’s self-empowerment and personal growth. Join us as we explore five powerful stages of awareness: Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing, the very alchemy that turns life's hardships into your foundation for joy.

Judith Houck is a professor of the history of science at the University of Wisconsin, Madison, and a prominent voice in the study of women’s health movements. As the author of Speculum: Examining the Women's Health Movement, Judith offers extensive insight into how feminist activists, often labeled “bitches” by reputation, from the 1960s through the 1980s, not only challenged patriarchal medical institutions but also created alternative health practices and facilities that spawned a revolution around women’s bodily autonomy, reproductive freedom, and women-centered healthcare. Professor Houck explains how the women's health movement challenged medical paternalism, fought for access to information, and insisted on women’s bodily autonomy. This episode is for any woman who values access to and the choice of having female doctors and healthcare providers for her primary care. Prepare for a conversation that provides a historical perspective on women’s health and care, and highlights choices women today unknowingly take for granted.

Rissa Miller is a folklorist, speaker, herbalist, public historian, diviner, and, as we learn in this episode, a passionate poet who brings wisdom, warmth, and a rebellious spirit that a Bitch will love. This raw, honest talk evolves from self-betrayal — the shrinking of ourselves to make others comfortable, the struggle between kindness toward others and loyalty to yourself, or wondering how to find sovereignty when your priorities are focused on others’ needs — to healing in your journey by tapping into an identity you possess but shamed or cursed, if you show it. We dive deep into the powerful, and often polarizing, word “BITCH,” exploring how it can be reclaimed as a source of women’s empowerment. Rissa takes the lead in helping us unpack our five principles behind B.I.T.C.H: Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing. Rissa is a master storyteller who shares examples of how women can reclaim their innate strength, sensuality, and unapologetic presence. This conversation will remind and inspire you to fill your own cup, trust your gut, and live your most authentic self, sequins and all.

For this transformative conversation, we invited Executive Coach, Author, and lover of a juicy life, Sasha Cagen. Who’s not afraid to confront controversy, like the words "bitch" or “pussy,” that are often used to embarrass or punish women. Two words, when examined, hold the keys to women’s empowerment. Whether it’s breaking free from people-pleasing, harnessing authentic anger, or deploying a subtle pulse of erotic energy, this conversation offers a fresh mix of wisdom, vulnerability, and advice you won’t hear elsewhere. Whether you’re searching for the courage to set personal boundaries, seeking deeper confidence, or curious about what Sasha boldly calls “pussy walking,” her insights will challenge your assumptions, but also inspire you to own your story, body, mind, and spirit. Are you ready to feel, heal, and tap into your most authentic self? Welcome in.

Walker Kimberly Brandt is a Hollywood actress, model, bestselling author, and passionate advocate who shares her powerful journey through Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing, words that form the B.I.T.C.H acronym and are at the heart of VBB podcast’s 2026 mission. With vulnerability and authenticity, Walker explores deep generational wounds, the importance of facing inherited trauma, and the revolutionary act of choosing your own identity as a woman. It's a conversation that ranges from betrayal to the liberation of embodying new roles in life and exploring identities beyond gender roles and others' expectations. Walker invites women to celebrate their evolution by leaning into the unknown and embracing every facet of their “Bitch” identity. Whether you’ve struggled to step fully into your power or you're curious about how self-discovery can shatter stereotypes, this episode is a celebration of courage, resilience, and unapologetic transformation.  This candid, heart-opening discussion will leave you inspired to explore the richness of your own story and explore your inner “Bitch” without shame.

Barb Stone is a leadership development coach, trainer, bestselling author, and TEDx speaker who dives deep into the journey of self-discovery, tackling the themes of Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing, the five pillars that spell out B.I.T.C.H., and form the backbone of our Year of the BITCH series. Barb discusses the raw realities of perfectionism, the courage it takes to shed old identities, and the healing power of standing up for yourself, even when that means embracing the word “Bitch” as a badge of empowerment, rather than a slur. Barb shares compelling stories from her own life, including living with alopecia, and experiences from the women she coaches, exploring the challenges and triumphs of personal transformation.  Whether you’re facing a pivotal moment, craving change, or seeking clarity on your journey, this conversation is packed with wisdom, relatability, and inspiration to ignite your next chapter.

Dianne Harris, certified life coach, author, and entrepreneur, adds to our conversation, exploring the powerful five-step path of B.I.T.C.H.: Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing. Dianne opens up a window into her personal journey through betrayal and transformation, the lasting wounds and growth that followed. The conversation gets real around heartbreak, owning your story, letting go of people-pleasing, and how “bitch” can be reclaimed as a badge of strength and self-love.

Kristen Louise Duncombe is a Paris-based therapist, coach, and author who joins VBB for a candid and deeply personal conversation exploring the complex journey of women’s self-empowerment through the lens of identity, boundaries, and the impact of societal expectations. Kristin shares her story of growing up as the child of a U.S. diplomat, constantly reinventing herself with each move, and navigating the lifelong effects of betrayal and trauma. She discusses how her struggle with boundaries led to self-objectification and how, with time and experience, she learned to claim her space and voice, even if it meant being labeled a “bitch.” The conversation dives into themes of objectification, the lingering pressure of female sexuality, the myth of sexual liberation, and the invisible power women discover with age. Honest, raw, and inspiring, this episode will resonate with anyone questioning the rules imposed on women and searching for the courage to reclaim their narrative. Whether you’re looking for insight, validation, or simply a sense of community, you’ll find something meaningful in this conversation.

Janice Selbie is a master practitioner of clinical counselling, a bestselling author, a host of the Divorcing Religion and Sex and Power podcasts, and a religious trauma recovery coach.   In this soul-stirring conversation, Janice courageously shares how she was once a devout cult participant and her journey through the complex intersections of sex and religion to personal liberation. From surviving religious indoctrination to reclaiming her voice and self-agency, Janice’s story speaks to anyone yearning for authenticity. Join us as we unravel the layers of Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing: the 5 principles at the core of the VBB’s "Year of the B.I.T.C.H." If you're ready for honest, stereotype-shattering conversations, you're in the right place!  

VBB welcomes back a friend, Christina Marlett, who describes herself as a recovering perfectionist, “spiritual ninja,” and self-care revolutionary. Christina is a top-flight self-care coach and the founder of Courageous Self Care, which supports high achievers in taking inspired action while practicing effective, strategic self-care. She’s an author, speaker, entrepreneur, and mother of two exceptional human beings. In this conversation, Christina helps us dive deep into B.I.T.C.H. as we explore the real-life applications of Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing, breaking down their meaning and how each theme connects to personal growth. Christina shares her journey from chasing perfection to embracing authentic self-trust, shining a light on the struggles many women face as they try to meet society’s ever-shifting expectations. From overcoming internal critics to developing true confidence and learning to let go, this episode is packed with transformative insights and relatable moments. If you’re ready to explore the true power of feminine identity and self-care, and to reclaim your voice, grab a comfy seat because this episode is for you.

We dive into an inspiring and thoughtful conversation with Reverend Dr. Xenia Barnes, a social behavioural scientist and organizational healing expert.   We get right into our acronym, B.I.T.C.H., which stands for Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing. This episode explores how women have been challenged by stereotypes, societal expectations, and the burdens of roles imposed by others. Dr. Xenia Barnes brings a deep, global perspective to these themes, discussing the layers of betrayal women face and the importance of redefining identity beyond relational or professional titles.   The episode highlights the transformative journey of self-trust, the necessity of embracing change, and the healing that comes from reclaiming your life and purpose, even in the face of serious personal adversity. In this exchange, you will hear actionable advice about self-inventory, breaking free from people-pleasing habits, finding strength in solitude, and the importance of daily growth. At its core, the discussion reclaims and redefines the word “Bitch,” supporting women to embrace it as a badge of confidence, boundaries, and personal empowerment.   This episode is truly about challenging the status quo, encouraging women’s self-discovery, and building resilience.

If you’re ready to challenge a few stereotypes and discover yourself in the process, you’re tuned into the right frequency with Christopher and Heather kicking off "2026 as The Year of the ' B.I.T.C.H." What you’ll hear is how a word used to punish women has been turned into an acronym that guides women into their power. In this conversation, we reveal what “B.I.T.C.H.” stands for as we move through each of the five steps: Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing. These principles are born from hundreds of real conversations with women about struggle, courage, and self-discovery.  Is there a woman who hasn’t been made a victim of the word “bitch?”  Some try to claim it as a badge of defiance, but this conversation invites you to consider learning how this word can actually be empowering. If you’re curious how a word so demeaning to women can be turned into every woman’s personal liberator, join Christopher and Heather in conversation as we journey through five powerful principles. We also invite you to share your story around this word and be part of a growing movement. This is your invitation to walk through the doors of B.I.T.C.H. and help redefine what it means to be powerful, authentic, and unapologetically you.