Thirsty and Thirty

"Our romantic relationships affect who we are and the places that we go, where we don't go." -Krystl Fabella, founder of Filipina on The Rise, a podcast that spotlights successful Filipinas in different industries. Krystl Fabella is a woman on a mission to create a lasting impact. Join us as she candidly shares her personal journey, starting with her transformative experience of breaking free from a toxic relationship. Throughout our conversation, Krystl unveils the all-too-familiar cycle many women encounter. Moments 00:01:14 Dating as a recruitment process 00:07:36 The story of Filipina on The Rise 00:19:59 Best tip on personal relationships 00:21:26 Family dynamics 00:27:53 What was she like in her younger years 00:32:42 The cycle of toxic relationships Krystl Fabella's platform: https://www.instagram.com/filipinaontherise Newsletter: ⁠https://thirstythirty.substack.com/⁠ Website: ⁠http://thirstyandthirty.club/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty⁠ Become a member: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/thirstyandthirty

After Honey broke up with her long-term boyfriend of eight years, she was ready to give up on love. Here come's Toto, her now husband. This episode is all about their love story and how he made her believe in love again. In this episode, we talk about:  Finding love again Being set-up  Timing and laying out your cards Navigating long distance relationships  Marriage  What's the best and worst love advice you've gotten?  Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

On women taming men: “We're so astonished by a lion. And the author (John Eldredge, Wild At Heart) was connecting men to lions…the wild lion. A girl would be attracted to a lion. But once she gets the lion, she would tame it and the lion would lose its ferocity. It's what attracted her to him.” JPaul Hernandez is a podcaster and author focused on the self-development of men. In this episode, we talk to him about: Why we love ‘bad boy projects’ His love story Dealing with abuse, vices, and cheating Collectivism in Filipino families Birth order theory and its effect on relationships Micro-habits for healthier relationships. Follow him: https://www.instagram.com/jpaulhernandez/ https://linktr.ee/jpaulhernandez Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

"Dating is like applying for a job. Do you want to submit a boring resume?" - Angely Dub  Angely is a self-made entrepreneur. And she is on an adventure to enjoy her single life! She is also a fellow podcaster with her show, Life in Progress.  This episode is our year-ender special, where we give no BS advice to face your dating life. Our favorite tips: invest in yourself and have a good checklist.  We covered topics like:  How to deal with nosy people  Positive dating mindsets A good checklist for a partner  Share this episode with other single friends who want to enjoy dating this 2023. https://www.angelydub.com https://travelwithaccess.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph Article: If You Can’t Find a Spouse Who Supports Your Career, Stay Single  https://hbr.org/2017/10/if-you-cant-find-a-spouse-who-supports-your-career-stay-single

In this epiosode, we dive into manifesting love by loving ourselves. Self-love, soulmates, law of attraction, manifestation are all words we’ve heard before. But the big question is, how do we make these words work for us? Our guest tonight is Sanaiyah Gurnamal, founder and host of the podcast Project Loving Myself. Spotify Philippines #1 Trending and top 50 podcasts. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

"When we say something, I feel like we actually mean it, unless it's like a fight, then we can be a bit passive aggressive."   -Luis Degu on how men communicate  Join us as we recap season one, the season that we believe made us actually smarter in love.  In this episode, we cover:  • A caller's problem on how to communicate with her partner of almost 10 years  • Sending mixed signals  • Decoding what men and women say  • Practical tips on communication  • Communicating non-negotiables  • Ultimatums  Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

Welcome to the first every episode of Thirsty and Thirty. Join us as we recap season one, the season that we believe made us actually smarter in love.  In this episode, we cover: How to date virtually How to turn an online relationship to a real world relationship We also answer some fun questions from our live viewers! This is a deep dive on all things infidelity! Share this episode with a friend or partner who needs to hear this conversation. Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

Lissy Puno, a relationship expert, told us, "86% of couples that are subjected to infidelity can recover." There is hope. We know infidelity is such a timely and evergreen topic. So, we interview her about her best-selling book, Affairs Don't Just Happen.  In this episode, we cover:  The reasons men and women cheat  How to prevent infidelity How to stay attracted to one person for a long time  This is a deep dive on all things infidelity! Share this episode with a friend or partner who needs to hear this conversation.  Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

Let's talk about easing your love and dating anxieties. In part one of this conversation, we talk about when to say, "I love you" for the first time and advice you would give your perpetually heartbroken bestie. You need to this very special episode with Inka! Stay Thirsty Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

"If you are jealous, maybe, you do need to express some sort of boundaries to them." -Rex De Guzman Meet Rex De Guzman, a Filipino chef based in the UK. He is an entrepreneur of Turo Turo, a food business that promotes Filipino cuisine. As we dig deeper after part 1, we talk about: Jealousy  Cheating  How some men compartmentalize sex  Right time, right place, right person Readiness for a relationship  Tell us, what is the most common dating problem you are dealing with?  Guest Quotes: "If you're too rigid, it's not considerate of the other person's feelings."  "Some guys don't wanna get rejected. So they'll say things to get what they want, whether it is just to get you in bed or to, you know, build a relationship." Thirsty and Thirty Resources Our episode with Mo Twister  Stay Thirsty Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

"For me, have trust and then if the trust is broken, of course it's damaging." -Rex De Guzman  Meet Rex De Guzman, a Filipino chef based in the UK. He is an entrepreneur of Turo Turo, a food business that promotes Filipino cuisine.  As we get to know his dating history, we talk about:  Cooking as a language of love How to support someone with a busy schedule  Compatibility and practicality Cryptic communication  Guest Quotes: "[Cooking] It is a home skill that everyone wants in a a partner." "For me, have trust and then if the trust is broken, of course it's damaging." "Boundaries are good, but I think it comes in waves." Thirsty and Thirty Resources  Engagement Chicken  Thirsty Women Ask Me Anything - Sabayan With Victor  Stay Thirsty Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research. 

“If he doesn't know what he wants, he won't commit." -Vince Velasco   Meet Vince Velasco, a multifaceted man. He is a host, trainer, geek and sports enthusiast. We start with a little ice breaker but then we dig deeper.  We talk about:   Ultimatums  Relationship timelines  Characteristics to look for before committing  Certainty  Guest Quotes:  "When we're in our thirties, we feel like we're wasting our time after a certain point there. So, give the ultimatum. Yes, it works. But only after a certain number of experiences and certain number of time." "You don't necessarily know what your priorities are and you also don't know where you wanna be five or ten years from now, and that's gonna damage the person you're in a relationship with it, because what happens if your priorities change throughout time?"  What's your takeaway from this episode? Let us know by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com.  Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.  

“The chase is still fun. The thrill is still fun. Because if you do end up with that girl, you don't want to end up from zero to hundred, kaagad." -Vince Velasco  Meet Vince Velasco, a multifaceted man. He is a host, trainer, geek and sports enthusiast. We start by a little ice breaker but then we dig deeper. We talk about:  His dating history  Experience as a teacher Determining a relationship  Timelines  What attracts men to women: Clarity, Confidence and Communication  Listening to intuition Mixed signals  Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.  Thirsty & Thirty resources: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment by Steve Harvey (We reference this briefly!) 

"If you're immature, please don't get married yet." - Justin Quirino  Meet Justin Quirino, a high school heartthrob and Candy Cutie in our teen years. He is also a successful podcaster and host today. He is our first guest in Mind of Man. And we thought we would tease him about the good old high school days. But this smooth talker turned out to be a deep talker. Instead, Ciari and I are schooled that men can get vulnerable and that there’s more to learn.  In part 2, we talk about: Praying for a good partner What makes someone relationship worthy or marriage material The 50 questions to ask before getting married How not to romanticize marriage and put the good kind of work Advice he got from church on keeping a marriage alive The innate impulse of men to provide Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.  Thirsty & Thirty resources:  50 questions to ask before marriage  Wild at Heart Revised and Updated: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul by John Eldredge The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller  Matthew McConaughey's Best Actor Speech 

Meet Justin Quirino, a high school heartthrob and Candy Cutie in our teen years. He is also a successful podcaster and host today. He is our first guest in Mind of Man. And we thought we would tease him about the good old high school days. But this smooth talker turned out to be a deep talker. Instead, Ciari and I are schooled that men can get vulnerable and that there’s more to learn. We talked about: How our childhood impacts our dating life How we first interact with the opposite sex How to deal with attention If you should stroke your partner's ego How to deal with heartbreak Justin's Origin Story Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at: thirsty and thirty helix page Part 2 will come out this Saturday.

Our IG live was so good with Coach Vee that we decided to publish it as a bonus episode. Here are some common questions we get:  1:00 How do you deal with a perverted text after the first date?   4:32 How can you tell if they like you back?   6:20 Do you believe dating is a numbers game?   9:00 What if you want them to be more proactive on planning dates?   12:45 How do you sustain an LDR?   17:18 Should one go out with a foreigner in the Philippines that may leave soon?  19:46 How do you stop someone from interviewing you for a job position as a future boyfriend or husband?   SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US 💌  Membership: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph  Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx  Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY  Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA  SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

One of the Thirsty and Thirty cohosts is embarking on a dating journey. Listen in as Bea tells us the lowdown on her 52 date challenge.  SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/​​​ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty​​​ Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

Meet Jesse. This is her very first blind date! She meets both Franco and Franz because one guy ghosted us. Tune in for the kilig and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

Meet Franz and Sofia. Two singles ready to date again. This is their FIRST ever blind date. Tune in for the banter and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

Meet Franco and Marga. Two singles ready to date again. This is their FIRST ever blind date. Tune in for the kilig and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club