This is Marriage

All of our pets have anxiety and it is causing Podcast to self-harm and lick himself excessevily. He has these massive sores on his neck from iicking too much. We also met with a dog trainer and found out that most of Rosie's issues stem from her excessive anxiety. The trainer suggested medication, so we will keep you informed. In other news, Ash and I saw Captain Marvel this morning...at 9:05am. Yes, you read that right. 9:05am. In the morning! We are seeing the new Avengers movie in two weeks and I told Ash she HAD to see Captain Marvel before watching Endgame. Don't worry, we don't actually talk about the movie, there are no spoilers. Isn't it funny how wives refuse to listen to or take any advice from husbands? I've tried to tell Ash she should watch the Marvel movies and she's like no, they're dumb. And then we go see it and she's like oh, this was really good and we should watch the other ones too. And I'm like no shit. This was a good episode. Check it out.

Podcat is slowly turning into a member of the walking dead, Big Dumb Rosie has a host of anxiety-related behavioral issues, and Ash is, well, Ash. In tonight's podcast, we are basically just getting you caught up on dog training, Ash's inability to take Porter's advice and her progress getting ready for the Spartan Race.

We talk about some of the ways Ashley has been able to get out of her comfort zone this year, the importance of support, and how to deal with an unsupportive partner. Ash also make a big announcement about the next big phase in her progression (it's not a baby) so make sure to check it out.

We talk about some of the ways Ashley has been able to get out of her comfort zone this year, the importance of support, and how to deal with an unsupportive partner. Ash also make a big announcement about the next big phase in her progression (it's not a baby) so make sure to check it out.

In this quickie episode, Ash and Porter review finances and how they are doing in their goal to pay off their credit card debt. If you haven't had a chance to listen to the debt episode, check out "Bring Out Your Debt" and you'll know what they are talking about. From there they pretty much just ramble incoherently for another 20 minutes. But it's still worth checking out. If you have ideas for topics or suggestions (cause the well is dry if ya know what I mean), don't hesitate to email at thisismarriagepodcast@gmail.com

In this quickie episode, Ash and Porter review finances and how they are doing in their goal to pay off their credit card debt. If you haven't had a chance to listen to the debt episode, check out "Bring Out Your Debt" and you'll know what they are talking about. From there they pretty much just ramble incoherently for another 20 minutes.

Ash and Porter talk about how Ash deals with being married to a man with ADD as well as raising a step-daughter with ADD. They talk about some of the issues she deals with as well as solutions and ways they've learned to communicate and avoid fights.

Ash and Porter talk about how Ash deals with being married to a man with ADD as well as raising a step-daughter with ADD. They talk about some of the issues she deals with as well as solutions and ways they've learned to communicate and avoid fights. Ash talks about how she never really believed ADD or ADHD was a real thing or at least didn't impact people the way they said it did. She always thought it was more of an excuse or cop out than a real problem. But after 5 years being together, she has realized how many of the things she took personally or was frustrated with aren't intentional, but caused by her husband's ADD. Some of the issues Ashley mentions are: > The Uh-Huh Scenario > Issues with money and impulsive spending > Time management > Not paying enough attention to the baby Here are some of the resources we mention in the episode: https://www.additudemag.com/adhd-marriage-advice-husband-symptoms/ https://www.additudemag.com/adhd-marriage-advice-husband-symptoms/ http://www.drhallowell.com/add-adhd/add-students/tips-for-helping-kids-with-adhd-succeed-in-school/

Ash and Porter talk about their wedding and what it cost and what they would do differently next time...not that there will be a next time.

Ash and Porter talk about their wedding and what it cost and what they would do differently next time...not that there will be a next time. Ash explains where she cut costs by making things herself (read about our cheap honeymoon) We also talk about where we wish we hadn't been cheap and had spent more money.

Porter talks about all the areas he's failing as a father. In tonight's episode, we get into dad guilt. A few weeks? Months? ago we talked about mom guilt and I didn' t think I had any guilt as a father, but then after listening to a favorite podcast, I realized I do. And we talk about it here. Also, check out Ash's blog at www.wildandashes.com

In tonight's episode, we get into dad guilt. A few weeks? Months? ago we talked about mom guilt and I didn' t think I had any guilt as a father, but then after listening to a favorite podcast, I realized I do. And we talk about it here.  Some of the things I feel guilty about are: Not giving my daughter enough of my time or support at her extracurricular activities. Not taking my son (even though he's only like 16 months old) on hikes or fishing or other masculine shit. Not making what I consider to be enough money to give them the lives I feel like they should have. We also talk about the difference in the relationship between me and my daughter and me and my son and the guilt that comes when I think I don't do enough manly stuff to pass onto my son.  Check out Ash's blog: www.wildandashes.com

In this episode Ash and I attempt to assuage some of the doubts that come with having a kid. Many people suffer from anxiety and the thought of having a kid does nothing but fuel the flames, especially for those who will carry the baby.

Not every woman feels the calling to be a mom, or "procreate" as our listener puts it in her email. In this episode Ash and I attempt to assuage some of the doubts that come with having a kid. Many people suffer from anxiety and the thought of having a kid does nothing but fuel the flames, especially for those who will carry the baby. There are irreparable changes to a woman's body to take into consideration. There are possible conflicts between partners once the baby comes and a whole spectrum of guilt and jealousy.  Every woman, pregnancy, and delivery is different. We give the best advice we can based on our situation, but yours may be different and our advice may be shitty given your circumstances. That happens. We do the best we can, but we can only speak from our context. Having a baby is a serious decision and as such shouldn't be taken lightly or made to assuage a partner. 

In true This is Marriage fashion, today we openly talk about something normal people are too scared or embarrassed to talk about. Debt. This was probably one of our toughest episodes to record as it was definitely our most transparent and vulnerable. We talk about how we got into credit card debt, what we are going to do to dig out, and share with you exactly how much we owe. It's a good un.

In true This is Marriage fashion, today we openly talk about something normal people are too scared or embarrassed to talk about. Debt. This was probably one of our toughest episodes to record as it was definitely our most transparent and vulnerable. We talk about how we got into credit card debt, what we are going to do to dig out, and share with you exactly how much we owe. It's a good un. 

In this first episode of 2019, Ash and I are back and better than ever. Just kidding, we haven't changed a thing. Today, we talk about the highs and lows of 2018, our goals for 2019, the dangers of breaking promises to yourself, and how to live intentionally.  We have both become huge fans of people like Ed Mylett and Rachel Hollis and are working to implement some of the things they teach about deliberately planning your day and being proactive instead of reactive.

In this first episode of 2019, Ash and I are back and better than ever. Just kidding, we haven't changed a thing. Today, we talk about the highs and lows of 2018, our goals for 2019, the dangers of breaking promises to yourself, and how to live intentionally.  We have both become huge fans of people like Ed Mylett and Rachel Hollis and are working to implement some of the things they teach about deliberately planning your day and being proactive instead of reactive.  How do you plan your new year and what changes are you going to make for 2019? What were some of the things you loved about your relationships from 2018 and what were some things you didn't love and would like to change going forward? How are you going to improve your marriage, your relationship with your partner, your relationship with your kids this year?

This game of "Would You Rather" was touted as "The Toughest Game Of Would You Rather: Christmas Edition" Spoiler alert: it wasn't. But it was a lot of fun. Ash and I had a blast playing and its safe to say we really had a hard time staying on topic.

This game of "Would You Rather" was touted as "The Toughest Game Of Would You Rather: Christmas Edition" Spoiler alert: it wasn't. But it was a lot of fun. Ash and I had a blast playing and its safe to say we had a really hard time staying on topic. Oh, and we also review the top 20 list of Christmas movies. I've added the link so you can go and play as well.  Please rate and review! We would love to hear what you like about our podcast.  https://www.buzzfeed.com/joannaborns/would-you-rather-christmas