Too Tired to be Crazy

Timestamps: 0 - 7:22 - breakup advice - what he means when he says you deserve better, changing your perspective on breakups and the best revenge. 7:25 - 14:07 - how each air signs are handling quarantine lol 14:11 - 19:15 - Signs a LIBRA man likes you - what he’s looks for in a lady n what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with a LIBRA. 19:18 - 23:11 - Signs a GEMINI man likes you - what he looks for in a lady n what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with a GEMINI. 23:12 - 29:11 - Signs an AQUARIUS man likes you - what he looks for in a lady n what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with an AQUARIUS 29:12 - 30:19 - Leave a review with what zodiac stuff you want me to cover next!!  Don’t forget to subscribe and follow @TooTiredToBeCrazy on Instagram! Also, DM any questions you want answered on the next episode!! See you next Thursday! <3

Do you have the tissues ready? 'cause it's about to get EMOTIONAL. Today I present to you my three-part Manifestation audio diary. Each section is very close to my heart so listening carefully. Do you feel like you've lost track of your dreams? That your life has become so mundane that it doesn't bring you the joy you once had? If the answer is yes, this episode is made especially for you. During this episode, I talk about how important it is to never lose track of your dreams, how to manifest the life that you want for yourself, and blocking negative energies that other people might put upon you. Never let anything or anyone get in your way because you are beautiful and you are loved. Make sure to remove yourself from situations that instead of adding value, make you question why you're even involved. You are a light in this universe and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise BADDIES! Today's episode was brought to you by my sponsors at HBO MAX, check out their newest show F-boy Island.

Sometimes you just have to speak your mind and let it all out... for your passion for cheese and eating out... not necessarily in that order.  Violet is joined by Weezy, the cohost of the controversial and rebellious podcast, Whoreible Decisions. Together they dive into a HILARIOUS conversation from sex to cheese and everything in between.. This power duo will make you laugh, cry, and feel empowered to be in your 30's! They are 30, thriving, and comfortable in their own skin; from having confidence around any man, to their p*ssy lips lol, to being a BOSS A$$ RICH B*TCH! THIS EPISODE IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: HBO Max: hbom.ax/violetbenson & HBO FBoy Island Thank you for listening BADDIES!!! Don't forget to sbuscribe and give me 5 stars!! and I'll see you next THURSDAY!

In Los Angeles, the dedicated podcaster who investigates these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as Too Tired Too Be Crazy. These are their stories… JK - it’s just our fearless leader Violet. Today the queen is back and joined by former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator, Chris Voss. Violet learns pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about winning a negotiation. Turns out everything in life is negotiable, and we're here to teach you how to do it. This episode will give you A LOT of information you didn’t even know you needed. Not only are we beautiful baddies, but we’re smart as sh*t now too!  CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: HBO Max:  http://trk.hbomax.com/aff_c?offer_id=7&aff_id=1203&url_id=63 Lelo: Dare to try slow sex with LELO Sila by going to Lelo.to/TooTiredToBeCrazy Talkspace: https://www.talkspace.com promo code: VIOLET See you next Thursday baddies!

Started with a crab grab now we're here... The couple we were all rooting for came out on top, and so did Emily last night, thanks to Cam being such a giver. Violet is joined by Emily Miller and Cam Holmes of Netflix's Too Hot To Handle S2 to spill ALL the tea of their newfound love, what Lana didn’t see, living together, blue balls, crying during sex, what REALLY happened with Chase, and everything in between. If you thought you were obsessed with them before… just wait till you finish this episode. Can someone say hashtag COUPLE GOALS??!! Don’t forget to CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: Apostrophe: Save $15 off your first visit with a board-certified dermatologist at Apostrophe.com/violet when you use our code VIOLET HBO Max:  http://trk.hbomax.com/aff_c?offer_id=7&aff_id=1203&url_id=63 Lelo: Dare to try slow sex with LELO Sila by going to Lelo.to/TooTiredToBeCrazy Magic Spoon:  Go to magicspoon.com/VIOLET to grab a variety pack and try it today!

Cockroaches weren't the only thing drawn to Chase on this season of Too Hot To Handle.... Cue in, Carly Lawrence. Netflix star, Carly Lawrence, from Too Hot to Handle season 2, joins Violet on a tell all sit down on EVERYTHING that actually went down on camera and off camera. She spills the tea on being SINGLE(ISH), who she is currently dating (you heard it here FIRST), and whether or not the door is fully closed on Chase. The girls also discuss body insecurities, overcoming them, intimacy issues, what's next for Carly, and SO much more! THIS IS ONE EPISODE LANA WOULD APPROVE. CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: HumbleCBD: https://www.humblecbd.com Use code VIOLET to save 25% entire order site wide Obsessed with Disappeared Podcast Follow Carly on IG @carlylawrence_ and the podcast @Tootiredtobecrazy Don't forget to hit the subscribe button and leave a 5 star review!!! See you next Thursday BADDIES!

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In Los Angeles, the dedicated podcaster who investigates these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as Too Tired Too Be Crazy. These are their stories… Kidding - it’s just our fearless leader Violet. Today the queen is back and joined by former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator, Chris Voss. Violet learns pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about winning a negotiation. Turns out everything in life is negotiable, and we're here to teach you how to do it. This episode will give you A LOT of information you didn’t even know you needed. Not only are we beautiful baddies, but we’re smart as sh*t now too!  CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: HumbleCBD: https://www.humblecbd.com  Honey: Get Honey for FREE at https://www.joinhoney.com/VIOLET  Pura Vida: TIRED to 38817 to get 20 percent off Talkspace: https://www.talkspace.com promo code: VIOLET See you next Thursday baddies!

If you’re looking for a sign to move out of your small town and chase your dreams, this is IT.? Violet is BACK baddies! Joined by singer, actress, and YouTuber, Andrea Russett, this week the ladies get DEEP. Not THAT kind of deep, get your head out of the gutter! The girls get deep into sh*t we’ve ALL been through. From not-so-great “friends”, bad breakups, and crippling anxiety, the girls tell it ALL. Throughout the episode we see a beautiful friendship blossom, and even unpack parts of Andrea’s past. No matter what you’re going through, there is ALWAYS a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep going and happy Pride baddies! CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: Apartments.com: Find your new pad at Apartments.com  - the best place to find a place! Apostrophe: Save $15 off your first visit with a board-certified dermatologist at Apostrophe.com/violet when you use our code VIOLET Humble CBD: GET 25% off your first order with promo code VIOLET at HumbleCBD.com and choose any product that meets your needs! Obsessed: If you’re serious about true crime but also love to laugh, check out “Obsessed With: Disappeared.” It’s like hanging out with your new true crime best friends! Pill Club: Go to ThePillClub.com/violet and The Pill Club will offer a $10 donation to Bedsider.org for every Too Tired To Be Crazy listener who becomes a patient! PuraVida: Get 20 percent off your Pura Vida order when you text TIRED to 3-8-8-1-7

On this episode, Violet gives you 9 steps to get over that fuckboy that's ruining your life and answer some of your questions like, 5 things you don't know about her, being rejected, and how being 'Daddyissues' has actually affected her love life in a negative way. GURL, If we are not best friends by the end of this episode and you don't feel empowered and deserving of love then bishhh DM ME because, you amazing, you are loved, and you are going to be OKAY. CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: - Apartments.com: Find your new pad at Apartments.com - the best place to find a place! - Honey: Get Honey for FREE at JoinHoney.com/violet - Humble CBD: GET 25% off your first order with promo code VIOLET at HumbleCBD.com and choose any product that meets your needs! - PuraVida: Get 20 percent off your Pura Vida order when you text TIRED to 3-8-8-1-7 Don't forget to rate and subscribe!!! New episode every Thursday! Thank you for listening and see you next week!

And just like that…trouble in paradise! AGAIN. Are we shocked? Violet is joined by superstar Harry Jowsey and therapy is in SESSION! Violet gives us a NEVER before seen side of the heartthrob! In this week's episode Harry opens up and lets us into his entire life, FAR beyond Tik Tok. From rural Australia to internet stardom, Harry has had an INTENSE 24 years of life. Of course, Violet gets to the juicy stuff where we hear HIS side of the drama regarding America’s favorite couple. Will Harry and Francesca reconcile for the 800th time? Will Harry break the internet with a new girlfriend? Will Harry have the highest viewed TED talk of all time thanks to Violet unpacking his trauma? Find out on this week's episode, coming to a For You Page near you! CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: HumbleCBD: https://www.humblecbd.com Apostrophe: https://apostrophe.com/VIOLET Apartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com

Left my ex bish cuz’ HE toxic… This week Violet is joined by her beautiful bestie Francesca Farago! Together the two are tanned from their recent vacation to Mexico and ready to spill some MAJOR TEA. The girls take us on a minute by minute journey of their entire trip that is SO in-depth that you’re gonna feel like you were wasted (or on shrooms like Violet) on the beach with them. Francesca fills us in on ALL the deets about her infamous relationship with Harry Jowsey, her relationship status, and gives us the exclusive and most recent update that you have NOT heard anywhere else. Violet also tells us about her vacation-bae and how you truly can find love in the most hopeless places…like at a restaurant in Tulum while you’re already ten tequila shots deep. Even though he devolves into hopeless-bae and forgets she exists the very next day…but hey! It wouldn’t be a true vacation romance without some pain, right? CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Green Chef: www.greenchef.com/90tootired and use code 90 too tired to get $90 off including free shipping! Magic Spoon: http://www.magicspoon.com/VIOLET HumbleCBD: https://www.humblecbd.com Talkspace: https://www.talkspace.com promo code: VIOLET Apartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com The Pill Club: https://www.thepillclub.com/VIOLET

Rule Number 1: Never stalk your ex’s...unless it’s your friends ex and she needs your FBI skills. Violet is joined by Australian actress, mom, and overall baddie Claire Holt! Together the two get DEEP (pro tip: never take a Polaroid of your butthole). Claire let’s us into her world elaborating on some of her darkest moments and how she saw the light at the end of the tunnel. We also find out that Emrata has Violet blocked on Instagram for no apparent reason and that Claire isn’t afraid to hold her tongue. This episode is jam PACKED. WARNING: a tissue is recommended for your tears of both sadness AND laughter. CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: Apartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the new line of products — remember, your first wax is free! Lelo: https://lelo.to/VIOLET Cameo: http://cameo.com HumbleCBD: https://humblecbd.com Apostrophe: https://apostrophe.com/VIOLET Headspace: Go to Headspace.com/tootired for a FREE ONE-MONTH TRIAL with access to Headspace’s full library of meditations for every situation! See you next Thursday baddies!

If you’re wondering if you’ll ever retire from the streets, have no fear! Alex is here! This week Violet is joined by not only a fan favorite, but one of her dearest friends, Alex Papiccio. Together these two are a HOT MESS. No seriously, things are getting chaotic. Alex gives us a major life update by announcing that she has OFFICIALLY retired from the streets. But don’t worry, she’s recounting ALL of her h*e memories, to ensure us that we’re not alone. With Violet and Alex, NO topic is off limits. From taboo fetishes, to spitting in mouths, to f*cking at Disney World - these two don’t miss a beat. We also get some hot role playing tips, a step-by-step tutorial on how to bleach your butthole, and even a brief health class discussing STI’s. This is gonna be an earful, but in the VERY best way. CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: Apartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the new line of products — remember, your first wax is free! Honey: Get Honey for FREE at https://www.joinhoney.com/VIOLET Lelo: https://lelo.to/VIOLET See you next Thursday baddies!

Has a man ever tried to make you feel like you're not worth a million dollars? News flash, YOU ARE! Welcome to Bad B*tch Bootcamp! Today we are getting RID of the narratives that society places on women! No husband? Who cares. No kids? That's one less bill to pay. No longer will we allow the world around us to control the type of life we should be living. We are owning our sh*t and being bosses while doing it. Women are NOT used goods once we hit a certain age, and we are most definitely not missing out if we're not married yet. Everything comes at the right time, and thats on OUR time. Violet also gives us a special Q&A segment because who can't use a therapy session with the queen herself? Remember, you ARE the prize! CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: Apartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the new line of products — remember, your first wax is free! See you next Thursday baddies!

So you’re considering leaving your entire life behind, packing all your stuff, and moving to LA to become the next Tana Mongeau…well you MAY want to reconsider. It’s not as easy as it seems.\n\nThis week Violet is accompanied by pop culture connoisseur, Heather McDonald. Heather is famously known as an actress, comedian, author, and host of hit podcast Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald. Together the two unpack ALL things problematic within Hollywood. Nepotism? Grooming? Creepy managers? Cancel Culture? Violet and Heather have stories for DAYS. Tune in as the two SPILL the ins and outs of the entertainment business and even expose some of your favorite childhood memories. Sorry, but it needed to be done. Throw on your oversized Mary Kate & Ashley sunglasses and turn the volume up, we’re going to Hollywood. \n\nCHECK OUT MY SPONSORS:\n\nApartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com\n\nEuropean Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the new line of products — remember, your first wax is free!\n\nLelo: Explore your desires without shame with LELO Enigma. https://lelo.to/EnigmaxViolet

Struggling to find the man of your dreams? He MIGHT just be halfway around the world. \n\nJoined by 90 Day Fiancé star Loren Brovarnik, the two relive their VERY unconventional Birthright experiences, which by the way…is NOT the place you want to experience your first black out. Loren also let us in on her trials and tribulations of motherhood and gives pro tips on how to make long distance relationships work (PSA: steal your neighbors wifi for Skype date night). Loren then takes us on a very descriptive journey of how she met her now husband Alex, and explains every chapter of the story that led to their 90 Day Fiancé fame. Delete your Hinge account, passports are the ONLY thing you need to swipe to find your man. \n\nCHECK OUT MY SPONSORS:\n\nApartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com\n\nEuropean Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the new line of products — remember, your first wax is free!\n\nHeadspace: Go to Headspace.com/tootired for a FREE ONE-MONTH TRIAL with access to Headspace’s full library of meditations for every situation!

BBC\'s, Double Penetration, feet fetish, and Creampies! Just normal conversation topic over here. \n\nThis week Violet is joined by adult film star Pressure! Together the two unpack ALL there is to know about the adult film industry from a black straight males perspective. They also discuss MANY different types of kinks, tips for you in bed, AND the perfect trick you may need to give head just a little bit better! P.S. If you need threesome advice, LISTEN NOW! \n\nFIND MORE OF PRESSURE HERE: \nTwitter @Pressuretheent1\nwww.onlyfans.com/wewantpressure\nwww.onlyfans.com/freepressure\n\nCHECK OUT MY SPONSORS:\n\nEuropean Wax Center: Visit https://waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the\nnew line of products — remember, your first wax is free!\n\nHoney: Get Honey for FREE at https://www.joinhoney.com/VIOLET\n\nLelo: https://www.lelo.com/enigma\n\nApartments.com: https://apartments.com

Usually when you hear that someone has tried meth AND that they know Vice President Kamala Harris personally, you\'d assume they\'re a convict. NOPE! Not Violet!\n\nThis week Violet delivers a VERY special solo episode that gets extremely personal. Taking us into her mind and elaborating on some of her recent battles she\'s been struggling with, Violet also takes us down memory lane, vividly retelling some of her wildest childhood stories. From being born in Russia with multiple birth defects, her sitcom-like first kiss, to running into court during a murder trial, it\'s safe to say Violet has truly lived her best life. This is Violet like you\'ve NEVER heard before.\n\nCHECK OUT MY SPONSORS!\n\nBright Cellars: brightcellars.com/tired? 50% off first 6 bottle box, plus a 7th bonus bottle! \n\nEuropean Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com and book your reservation today—your first wax is free!\n\nShip Station: ShipStation.com 2 months FREE of no-hassle, stress-free shipping.

Have you ever accidentally flew someone halfway around the world and bought a house for the two of you only to find out you didn’t even know his REAL name? You’re not the only one.\n\nToday Violet is joined by Internet personality, author, and comedian Manon Mathews! Together the two discuss their lives throughout the pandemic and how to handle internet trolls. Manon then tells us a VERY emotional tale about her ex-husband, revealing ALL of the signs of a classic narcissist and explains how easy it can be to miss the obvious signs when you are head over heels for someone. \n\nNaturally, with an experience like Manon’s follows the triumphant story of finding oneself again and learning to get over the worst of heartbreaks. No matter what you’re going through - there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel (and probably a better guy too!) \n\nCHECK OUT MY SPONSORS!\n\n European Wax Center: Visit wax center dot com and book your reservation today—your first wax is free!\n\nManscaped: Get 20% Off - PLUS Free Shipping – with the code VIOLET at Manscaped dot com\n\nShipStation: Use code VIOLET to get a 60-day free trial at ShipStation.com - click on the microphone at the top of the page, and type in VIOLET