Training Them Wisely - discipling kids

Reading the Bible is such a delight! And when we read, we want to read with a purpose. The Bible is written so that we can know God.  It is about knowing God, hearing His truth, and allowing His Word to shape the way we think, live, pray, and parent. We also encourage parents to begin with prayer, ask thoughtful questions as they read, and use simple tools or Bible reading plans when helpful. The goal is not perfection or performance, but growing in faithfulness and helping our children see that God’s Word is living, active, true, and worth building our lives upon. I apologize this episode is a day late coming out. We are still recovering from our son's hospitalization, and so some things are behind. Thank you so much for your prayers! He is doing great now! Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language.

Sorry about the lateness of this podcast. Our son has had a life-threatening illness in the hospital, and it has been a long week.  But, I am excited to share this episode with you today . . . not our usual day, but if there is one thing I have seen over and over, His timing is perfect.  In this episode, we’re talking about how to help our kids grow in godly wisdom. Wisdom is more than making “good choices” — it’s learning to think God’s way. We’ll share simple, practical ways to build wisdom through Scripture, daily conversations, real-life training moments, wise friendships, and faithful modeling at home. Be encouraged: your daily investment matters. God is using the verses, conversations, prayers, and examples you give to shape your children’s hearts for a lifetime of discernment. Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language.

Cultivating Gratitude in Everyday Life Gratitude doesn’t just make our homes more peaceful. It also shapes the hearts of our children. In this episode of the Training Them Wisely Podcast, we talk about how thankfulness is more than good manners. It’s a biblical response to who God is and what He has done. Because the truth is… kids don’t become thankful automatically. Gratitude is something we intentionally disciple. In This Episode, We Cover: Why gratitude matters spiritually Simple daily Scripture to anchor thankfulness Practical, everyday ways to cultivate gratitude in your home How to help kids express meaningful thanks to others Using conversations and routines to shape thankful hearts Teaching contentment through gratitude Helping kids live out gratitude at school and beyond Practical Takeaways: Pray “thank you” prayers throughout the day Model gratitude out loud as a parent Ask intentional gratitude questions at meals or bedtime Teach kids to thank others with thoughtfulness Connect gratitude to contentment and joy Resources to Help You: Treasured by the King – helping families understand who God is and who we are in Him Who I Am in Christ Coloring Book – reinforcing biblical identity in a simple, engaging way Find these and more at: TrainingThemWisely.com Let’s Stay Connected: If this episode encouraged you: Follow the podcast Leave a review Share with a friend who wants to disciple her children intentionally Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language.  

  Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

How do we raise kids that have self-control? Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

  Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

Episode Summary In this episode, we focus on raising children who reflect the heart of Jesus through humility and service. Serving others is not something reserved for special events or church projects—it is a daily posture shaped through Scripture, modeling, conversations, and intentional discipleship at home. We explore how children can learn to serve willingly, joyfully, and humbly, beginning in the home and extending into their schools, churches, and communities. This episode encourages moms to see everyday moments as powerful opportunities to cultivate servant-hearted children who love others as Christ loves them. What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why serving others is central to following Jesus How humility and service can be taught from an early age Practical, everyday ways to nurture servant hearts at home The importance of modeling joyful service as parents How family conversations reinforce a lifestyle of serving Simple ideas for serving both inside and outside the home Encouragement for moms who are faithfully planting seeds Scripture References Mark 10:45 Philippians 2:3–4 Key Takeaways Serving others is an essential part of following Jesus, not an optional activity Children learn humility and service through daily discipleship, not occasional events Small acts of service build lasting character over time Modeling joyful service speaks louder than instruction alone God uses ordinary, faithful moments to grow Christlike hearts Resources Mentioned Fruit of the Spirit Activity Book Big Bible Words Cards Family Bible studies and discipleship tools available at TrainingThemWisely.com Encouragement for Moms Serving does not need to be big, organized, or impressive to be meaningful. Faithful, everyday acts of love—paired with prayer, Scripture, and example—shape hearts over time. God is at work in the small moments you may never see fully. If today’s episode encouraged you: Like the podcast Subscribe Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

Episode Summary As we begin a new year, we’re focusing on something every parent longs to see in their children: genuine, Christ-centered kindness. In this episode, we move beyond surface-level “being nice” and talk about the kind of heart-level kindness that flows from biblical love. Kindness doesn’t happen by accident. It is cultivated daily through Scripture, discipleship, modeling, prayer, and real conversations in the everyday moments of family life. Join us as we explore how God grows kindness in our children’s hearts and how moms can faithfully nurture that fruit at home. What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why true kindness starts in the heart, not behavior alone How biblical love from 1 Corinthians 13 forms the foundation of kindness Simple, daily ways to disciple children toward kindness How to use real-life conflicts as heart-shaping discipleship moments The importance of modeling kindness as parents Teaching kindness in school, co-op, and peer settings Encouragement for moms who feel like progress is slow Scripture References 1 Corinthians 13 Galatians 5:22–23 Key Takeaways Kindness is a fruit of the Spirit that God grows as children walk with Him Daily, small moments shape kind hearts more than big events Scripture, prayer, and modeling work together to form lasting character Parents are planting seeds, and God is faithful to bring growth Faithfulness matters more than perfection in the discipleship journey Resources Mentioned What the Bible Says About Love Coloring Book Fruit of the Spirit Activity Book Multi-age Bible studies and family discipleship tools available at TrainingThemWisely.com Encouragement for Moms If kindness doesn’t appear overnight, don’t lose heart. You are shaping hearts day by day through Scripture, conversations, prayer, and example. God is at work in ways you may not yet see. If today’s episode encouraged you: Like the podcast Subscribe so you never miss an episode Visit TrainingThemWisely.com to find discipleship tools designed to help you build Christ-centered character in your children every day Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

In the middle of Christmas week—when life feels loud, busy, and overwhelming—we pause to talk about the gift our children need most. More than presents, traditions, or picture-perfect moments, our kids need a mom whose life is deeply rooted in Jesus. In this episode, we address the pressure moms often feel at Christmas and gently redirect our hearts back to what truly matters: walking daily, intentionally, and wholeheartedly with Christ. A mom anchored in God’s Word gives her children a living picture of faith, stability, and the gospel—a gift that lasts far beyond the holiday season. What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why Christmas often places unrealistic pressure on moms The lie that a “perfect” Christmas equals faithful parenting What it truly means to be rooted in Jesus, not just spiritually busy Why your walk with God matters more than any gift under the tree A biblical call to meaningful, unhurried time with the Lord Encouragement for moms in every season—busy, weary, and imperfect Scripture References John 15:5 — “Whoever abides in me and I in him… apart from me you can do nothing.” Ephesians 2:10 — “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works…” Key Takeaways Your kids don’t need a picture-perfect Christmas—they need to see you walk with God. Being rooted in Jesus means abiding in Him, not running on spiritual leftovers. Time with God isn’t about convenience or legalism—it’s about love and devotion. Faithfulness, not perfection, is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. Closing Encouragement Friend, this Christmas, let go of the pressure to make everything magical. Choose what is eternal. Choose faithfulness. Choose to be a mom rooted deeply in Jesus—because that is the gift your children will carry with them long after the decorations come down. Listen & Share If this episode encouraged you, share it with another mom who may need this reminder during the Christmas season. For more family discipleship resources, visit TrainingThemWisely.com. Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

Christmas is filled with lights, traditions, and excitement — but the greatest gift we can give our children is a clear understanding of why Jesus came. In this episode, we talk through practical, grace-filled ways to teach kids the true story of Christmas — not just the manger scene, but God’s rescue plan from the very beginning. We’ll explore Scripture, simple discipleship rhythms, and encouraging reminders for moms navigating a busy December. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: •Why understanding the purpose of Jesus’ birth changes everything about Christmas •How Luke 2 and Isaiah 9:6 help kids see that Jesus is the promised Savior •Simple, age-appropriate ways to teach the Christmas story at home •How to keep Christ at the center during full December schedules •Why Christmas discipleship doesn’t have to be complicated to be meaningful Scripture Focus: • Luke 2:6–20 — The birth of Jesus • Isaiah 9:6 — God’s promise of a coming Savior Practical Ideas We Share: •Reading the Christmas story slowly and repeatedly throughout December •Emphasizing the why behind Jesus’ birth, not just the details •Using songs and hymns as tools for teaching theology •Connecting Christmas to the gospel story, from manger to cross to resurrection •Simple activities that make learning joyful and memorable Encouragement for Moms: You don’t need a Pinterest-perfect Christmas. Faithful, simple moments of Scripture, prayer, and conversation matter more than any tradition or gift. God uses your consistency, even in small moments, to shape your children’s hearts. Resources Mentioned: • Treasured by the King: Names of God & Who I Am in Christ Devotional • Names of God & Who I Am in Christ Devotional for Kids • Multi-age Bible Studies (Preschool through Teens) Find these and more Christmas discipleship resources at  TrainingThemWisely.com Enjoyed This Episode? •Like this podcast •Subscribe so you don’t miss an episode •Share it with another mom this Christmas season Thanks for joining us as we learn to train them wisely — one faithful moment at a time. Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

I'm excited to host Karri J. Iverson on our podcast today. I met her in Ohio at a conference that we were both at when I was looking for a science curriculum for my kids. My twelve year old calls this the "fun science curriculum" which I love hearing him say!   themysteryofscience.com https://www.facebook.com/mysteryofsciencebooks   So far we have these subjects for 4-8 grades:   The Mystery of Science: Biology The Mystery of Science: Physics (at the printer)   With these to come:   The Mystery of Science: Chemistry (coming 2026) The Mystery of Science: Earth Science (coming 2026) The Mystery of Science: Astronomy The Mystery of Science: Health and Nutrition The Mystery of Science: Botany The Mystery of Science: Marine Science The Mystery of Science: Forensics   About the book: Simplify your science teaching with our engaging, biblical curriculum!   Developed by a busy, homeschooling mom and science teacher, this unique, open and go curriculum will simplify your lesson and prep time.  Written to emphasize creation, The Mystery of Science provides a solid, biblical foundation in God's intelligent design.  With bold, colorful pictures and lab activities designed to engage your students, they'll be excited to explore science! Karri J. Iverson has been a major influence on the lives of many children and families for more than 20 years. She graduated from Western Michigan University summa cum laude in elementary education with minors in science/math and English. She has used her diverse education as well as her husband’s knowledge and help to homeschool their 5 children. In 1999 Karri recognized a growing need for homeschooled students to have further instruction in English and science, so she began a local homeschool tutorial. She taught classes in many subjects and managed several teachers as the group grew to meet the needs of local homeschoolers. Karri has also taught at other homeschool programs and co-ops and has enjoyed teaching Bible studies at her church. She has given direction and guidance to many parents during their homeschooling journeys and has privately tutored several students throughout their high school years. One of her passions is developing curriculum, which she has done for her own children, local homeschooling groups, the local school district’s summer and extracurricular camps, and private schools. In addition, she has taught for the Summer Institute for the Gifted and has designed her own science and math curriculum for summer camps. In addition, Karri trains and encourages teachers and evaluates programs to make sure they meet scientific objectives. She also loves helping students learn about their awesome Creator! Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

💬 Episode Summary Faith isn’t just something we talk about in church—it’s something we live out in car rides, bedtime routines, and unexpected questions from curious little hearts. In this episode, Rene and Rebekah share how to have faith conversations that feel natural—not forced, awkward, or overly scripted, but Spirit-led and deeply meaningful. If you’ve ever wondered how to talk about Jesus in everyday moments with your kids, this is your invitation to start simple, stay present, and trust that God is in the small stuff. 🧭 What You’ll Hear Why Scripture calls us to teach our kids about God as we go How a sunset, rainbow, or hard question can open up spiritual conversations 5 practical ways to weave faith naturally into everyday life How to respond with grace even when conversations are messy or emotional The power of listening well, asking open questions, and letting your kids see your own faith journey ✋ 5 Simple Ways to Make Faith Conversations Flow Use What’s Already Happening Tie God's truth into what you're seeing, hearing, or experiencing—like a rainbow or a movie scene. Ask Open-Ended Questions Spark reflection and dialogue by asking, “What do you think Jesus would do here?” Share Your Own Journey Be real about how you trust God—even in worry, sadness, or uncertainty. Listen More Than You Speak Sometimes the best discipleship happens when you create space for your child to process. Tie Faith to Rhythms Add Scripture to your family’s everyday routines—bedtime, mealtime, car rides. 📖 Colossians 3:17 reminds us: “Whatever you do… do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus.” 💛 Encouragement for Moms You don’t have to have all the right words. You don’t need a theology degree. You just need a heart that’s willing and present. God multiplies our small steps of obedience—even when the conversation is messy or interrupted by spilled juice and toddler questions.   📣 Want More? 💬 If this episode encouraged you, please leave a 5-star review! It helps more moms like you find the show. 📚 Explore more resources at trainingthemwisely.com, and grab Rene’s book, Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids, available on Amazon now.   Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

💡 Episode Summary Maybe your kids are older. Maybe you came to faith later. Maybe life just got in the way. If you've ever wondered, "Is it too late to start family discipleship?" — this episode is for you. Rene and Rebekah bring encouragement and real-world wisdom for parents starting fresh. Whether your children are toddlers, tweens, or teens, God’s grace meets you right where you are—and He can do amazing things, starting today. 🧭 What You’ll Hear 📖 Hope from Scripture reminding you that God can redeem any timeline ❌ Why guilt and comparison have no place in your parenting journey 🛠 4 practical ways to start discipling your kids right now—even if it feels awkward or late 🙌 Encouragement that small steps matter more than perfect plans 🗣 Personal stories of real families who started later and still saw God move powerfully 📖 Key Scriptures Isaiah 43:18–19 – “Forget the former things… I am doing a new thing!” 2 Corinthians 5:17 – “If anyone is in Christ… the new is here!” Galatians 6:4 – “Each one should test their own actions…” Zechariah 4:10 – “Do not despise these small beginnings.” Philippians 1:6 – “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion…” 🛠 4 Simple Ways to Start (or Restart) Discipleship Start with Prayer Begin by talking to God—and pray with your kids. Start Small Pick one habit Use Everyday Moments Talk about faith during drives, chores, or dinner. Life is the best classroom. Model Authentic Faith Let your kids see you reading your Bible, seeking God, and depending on Him in real time. 💡 Bonus Tip: Try simple Family Faith Goals, and aim for 1 Scripture moment, 1 prayer, and 1 act of kindness each week. ❤️ Encouragement for Parents You don’t need a flawless past—you just need a faithful present. Grace says: “Let’s start here.” Your effort matters. Your presence matters. And it’s never, ever too late to start. 💬 Favorite Quote "You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending." — C.S. Lewis (often attributed) 🙏 Closing Encouragement “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion…” – Philippians 1:6 God is faithful to finish what He starts—including the work of discipleship in your home. 📣 Share + Subscribe Was this episode a breath of fresh grace for you? Subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with another parent who’s ready to start strong—no matter when they begin. Check out our best-selling discipleship book! Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids has encouraged thousands of parents to grow in their faith with the Lord, model discipleship for their children and grow, and disciple their kids in every age and stage of life. It is practical, encouraging, and you can start working on it right away. You can find it on Amazon, at TrainingThemWisely.com or in Christian bookstores. Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

💡 Episode Summary The Bible isn’t just for Sunday mornings—it’s for breakfast tables, car rides, bedtime snuggles, and messy moments. In this episode of Training Them Wisely, Rene and Rebekah encourage parents to open God’s Word consistently and meaningfully with their kids—no matter their age or stage. You’ll hear real-life stories, practical tips, and biblical wisdom to help make Scripture a normal, joyful part of your everyday family rhythms. 🧭 What You’ll Hear 📖 Why the Bible should be the heartbeat of your home (2 Timothy 3:16) 🛠️ Simple ways to read Scripture as a family—even in 5 minutes a day 🗣 How to turn Bible time into a conversation, not a lecture 🌀 Encouragement for when it feels messy, inconsistent, or hard 🏡 How God’s Word can shape your family culture and language 🙏 Practical steps to start small and stay faithful 📖 Key Scriptures 2 Timothy 3:16 – “All Scripture is God-breathed…” Isaiah 55:11 – “My word… will not return to me empty.” Colossians 3:16 – “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly.” 💬 Real-Life Ideas & Examples Start your day by reading one chapter at breakfast Let each family member choose and share a favorite verse Use a child-friendly Bible for younger kids—like The Action Bible or Bible in Stories Ask open-ended questions like, “What does this show us about God?” Display Scripture around the house (mirrors, fridge, lunchboxes) Pray Scripture out loud together during family prayer time Keep going—even if your kids are coloring or interrupting! ❤️ Encouragement for Parents You don’t need a seminary degree to lead your kids spiritually. You just need a Bible, a little time, and a heart that says, “Let’s grow together.” Takeaway Thought: Start where you are. Open the Bible. Ask a question. Pray together. God promises His Word will never return empty—and that includes your living room.   📣 Share + Subscribe Encouraged by today’s episode? Be sure to subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with a fellow parent or church leader. Let’s raise a generation that sees God’s Word not as a task—but as life. 🎧 Listen now on your favorite podcast app—and start building a Bible-centered culture in your home, one conversation at a time.   Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

💡 Episode Summary Is your faith visible to your kids outside of Sunday mornings? In this episode of Training Them Wisely, Rene and Rebekah explore what it means to live a faith that’s consistent, contagious, and grounded in real life. From quiet prayers to big conversations, everyday moments matter. Faith is formed not just through what we say—but how we live when no one else is watching. You’ll walk away with encouragement, Scripture, and practical ways to help your kids see that Jesus is real… not just at church, but at home, in the car, and in the middle of life’s mess. 🧭 What You’ll Hear 📖 Why doing the Word matters more than just hearing it (James 1:22) 🏡 How to bring faith into daily rhythms—mealtimes, nature walks, bedtime, and beyond (Deuteronomy 6:6–7) 💔 How grace and humility when we mess up speak volumes (Psalm 51:17) ❓ Ways your faith can spark spiritual curiosity in your kids (1 Peter 3:15) 🛠 Practical ideas for praying out loud, modeling trust, and responding with peace in everyday situations 📖 Key Scriptures James 1:22 – “Do not merely listen to the word… Do what it says.” Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – Talk about God “when you sit, walk, lie down, and get up.” Psalm 51:17 – “A broken and contrite heart… you will not despise.” 1 Peter 3:15 – “Always be ready to give an answer for the hope that is in you.” ❤️ Encouragement for Parents You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be present. Your faith doesn’t need a spotlight—it shines best in the margins of everyday life. Ask yourself: “If my kids never heard a sermon, what would they know about God from watching me?” 🙏 Closing Prayer Highlight “Lord, help us to live a faith that speaks even when we say nothing…” This short prayer wraps the episode with grace, purpose, and encouragement to invite Jesus into the everyday. 📣 Share + Subscribe Was this helpful for your parenting journey? Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend. Let’s build homes where faith isn’t just something we talk about—it’s something our kids can see. 🎧 Available now wherever you listen to podcasts. Faith isn’t just for Sundays—it’s for the everyday. Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

💡 Episode Summary Life gets messy—and fast. From tantrums and laundry piles to heartache and broken plans, it’s easy to feel like discipleship is on pause when real life takes over. But in this episode of Training Them Wisely, Rene and Rebekah remind us that our everyday mess isn’t a distraction from discipleship—it’s the classroom God uses to grow our families in faith. Through Scripture, personal stories, and practical tools, this episode will equip you to find Jesus right in the middle of the chaos—and teach your children to do the same. 🧭 What You’ll Hear 🌪 Why the mess isn’t an obstacle to discipleship—it’s often the greatest opportunity 📖 Romans 8:28, Hebrews 4:15, Psalm 46:1, and more Scripture to anchor messy seasons 💬 Stories of real-life moments that turned into spiritual breakthroughs 🛠️ How to disciple your kids through squabbles, stress, and surprises 🙏 Practical tips for modeling grace, prayer, and honesty in the thick of family life 💛 Encouragement to trade perfection for presence—and let God use every part of your day 📖 Key Scriptures Romans 8:28 – “In all things God works for the good…” Hebrews 4:15 – “He was tempted in every way, just as we are…” Psalm 46:1 – “God is our refuge and strength…” 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you…” 🛠 Practical Discipleship Ideas Say out loud: “Jesus knows how this feels—and He’s with us right now.” Keep a visible family verse in the kitchen or living space Start a “Messy Moments Prayer Jar” to pray through hard things together Model age-appropriate honesty in your own struggles Use simple, everyday moments (spilled juice, meltdowns, stress) as teachable lessons in grace, forgiveness, and dependence on God 💬 Encouragement for Parents Your mess doesn’t disqualify you. It qualifies you to show your kids what real faith looks like. You don’t need to be perfect—just present, honest, and surrendered to Jesus. 📣 Share the Hope Encouraged by today’s episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and send it to another parent walking through the same messy season. God is at work—in your home, in your heart, and even in your hardest days. 🎧 Listen now on your favorite podcast app—and discover how Jesus shows up in the mess, again and again.   Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

💡 Episode Summary Let’s be real—parenting is hard, and the pressure to “get it all right” can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Training Them Wisely, Rene and Rebekah pull back the curtain on the myth of the perfect parent and offer a refreshing reminder: God doesn’t call us to perfection, but to faithfulness, humility, and honesty. Join us as we talk about discipling our children from a place of authenticity, not image. You'll hear practical stories, biblical encouragement, and real-life examples of how God uses our weaknesses to display His grace. 🧭 What You’ll Hear 💬 Why perfection isn’t the goal—and how God works through our realness 📖 2 Corinthians 12:9: “My grace is sufficient for you…” 💥 The cultural and church pressures parents feel to appear perfect 🛠️ Practical ways to disciple your kids when you're tired, overwhelmed, or discouraged 🗣️ How to have “real talk” moments with your kids about struggles and God’s faithfulness 🧎‍♀️ The power of apologizing, praying together, and modeling dependence on Jesus 💛 Encouragement to let go of the image and embrace the grace 📖 Key Scriptures 2 Corinthians 12:9–10 – “My grace is sufficient for you…” Proverbs 3:5–6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…” Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted…” Philippians 1:6 – “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion…” 🛠 Practical Tips Journal about areas where you feel weak as a parent—and ask God for strength Share age-appropriate struggles with your kids to model humility Apologize when needed—it builds trust and models grace Create a family “realness board” or prayer journal for tracking daily wins and struggles Have open conversations about depending on God together 📚 Recommended Resource 📘 Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids by Rene Christensen This book offers encouragement for your personal walk with Jesus and practical, age-appropriate discipleship tools to help you raise faith-filled kids. Perfect for parents, grandparents, and ministry leaders. 📣 Share the Hope If this episode encouraged you, consider subscribing, leaving a 5-star review, and sharing it with a friend or fellow parent. Realness is contagious—and freeing.   Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

How in the world have we recorded 100 episodes? Time flies by. We are so thankful for each and every listener, both new and old! We had so much fun recording this episode, and we're giving you some sneak peeks about what is coming up soon! https://www.trainingthemwisely.com Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

  💗 Episode Summary In this episode of Training Them Wisely, Rene and Rebekah explore how God’s love meets us—and our children—uniquely in every stage of life. From rocking a newborn in the quiet hours to texting a college student encouragement from afar, biblical love grows, stretches, and adapts through the seasons. You’ll walk away with encouragement, relatable stories, and Scripture-rooted insights for loving your kids well—right where they are today. 🧭 What You’ll Hear 💡 Why love isn’t one-size-fits-all—and how God models flexible, faithful love 👶 Early Years: Love as nurture and physical presence (Isaiah 40:11) 🧒 Elementary Years: Love as patient teaching and consistent discipline (Proverbs 22:6) 👦 Tween Years: Love as listening and emotional safety (Colossians 3:21) 👩‍🦰 Teen Years: Love as mutual respect and humble presence (Micah 6:8) 🧑‍🦱 Young Adult Years: Love as release, blessing, and ongoing prayer (Numbers 6:24–26) 🙏 A prayer to help you reflect God’s love through every season 📖 Key Scriptures Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything there is a season…” Isaiah 40:11 – “He gently leads those that have young.” Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way he should go…” Colossians 3:21 – “Do not provoke your children…” Micah 6:8 – “Walk humbly…” Numbers 6:24–26 – “The Lord bless you and keep you…” 💬 Let’s Reflect What does love look like for your child right now? Is it presence? Patience? Release? Ask God to help you love in the way they need most today. 📣 Share the Love If this episode encouraged you, would you take a second to share it with a friend or fellow parent? Every share helps us reach more families walking this discipleship journey. 💛 Check out our best-selling family discipleship book! Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids is available on Amazon, on our website TrainingThemWisely.com, and in Christian bookstores.  Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D

You don’t need a perfect devotional plan to disciple your kids—you just need a table, some time, and a heart to listen. In this episode of Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids, Rene and Rebekah share how simple, everyday moments—especially around the dinner table—can become powerful opportunities to point your children to Jesus. From chicken nugget dinners to bedtime chats, these ordinary routines hold extraordinary potential for spiritual growth. Together, they walk through Scripture, share personal stories, and offer practical conversation starters that help parents disciple with grace, not guilt. 🔑 In This Episode: Why your dinner table might be one of the most powerful places in your home How Jesus used meals to teach, connect, and reveal truth Simple ways to turn ordinary conversations into moments of grace What to do when things feel messy, loud, or far from “spiritual” Encouragement for showing up with consistency—not perfection 📖 Scripture Highlights: Deuteronomy 6:6–7 — Teach them when you sit at home Luke 24:30–32 — Jesus revealed at the table Colossians 4:6 — Let your conversation be full of grace 1 Corinthians 10:31 — Do it all for the glory of God 🙌 You’ll Walk Away With: Fresh vision for how everyday life can shape your child’s faith Encouragement that even chaotic dinners count Easy faith-filled questions to ask around the table A reminder that God works through your presence, not your perfection 💬 Let’s Keep the Conversation Going: If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend, subscribe for more weekly discipleship encouragement, and leave a review to help other parents discover simple, grace-filled ways to disciple their kids. ✨ Resource Mentioned: Check out Rene’s book, Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids—a practical, biblical guide for growing your faith and leading your kids with confidence and purpose. You can find it on Amazon or on our website: TrainingThemWisely.com.   Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter License code: QG9F8BI91PJEEH5D