What Would Love Do?

Dating Over 50: What Actually Matters (From a Real Couple) Dating these days is overall very casual. It lacks decision about whether you’re looking for casual fun or a longtime relationship. Commitment, on the other hand, involves conscious decision-making. And this is where open communication comes into play because by middle age, you each (most likely) have some strong opinions about what’s important in your lives. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to create clarity about what values are important to you in a relationship and how to communicate those to your partner. Let’s talk about…Dating Over 50: What Actually Matters (From a Real Couple) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Brutally Honest Relationship Advice For Women Are you stuck in victim mode? Are you quick to blame others for things that go wrong in your life? Playing the blame game is quite common these days and I consider it the ‘easy way out’. When someone else is to blame, then that absolves you of responsibility. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can recognize our own shortcomings in finding love and how to change our outlook instead of placing blame on others. Let’s talk about…Brutally Honest Relationship Advice For Women Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Going Slow Gets You Into A Relationship Faster In this episode I’m joined by sweetheart Paula and we’re discussing how we didn’t force a connection but instead felt neutral about each other when we first starting talking. So many people are desperate for a connection that they force it or trick themselves into thinking there’s a connection instead of waiting for it to develop organically. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways you can develop a connection via strong communication and a willingness to dive deep into your thoughts and feelings. Let’s talk about…Why Going Slow Gets You Into A Relationship Faster Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Need THIS Emotion To Fully Commit To You When you hear the term ‘all in’ as it pertains to relationships, what does that mean to you? At this age it doesn’t have to mean that one partner pays for the living expenses of the other. Usually midlife adults are living independently and can take good care of themselves. Let’s explore the DEEPER meaning of being ‘all in’ in a relationship and what that means emotionally. Let’s talk about…Men Need THIS Emotion To Fully Commit To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

THIS Texting Method Will Ruin Your Love Life Texting was NOT designed to build intimacy. It was meant for giving directions and quick answers to questions. And yet many people default to using texting as a way to connect with others. Is this really a desire to connect or is it avoiding the eye contact and authentic conversations of in person meetings? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways texting can hinder true love. Let’s talk about…THIS Texting Method Will Ruin Your Love Life Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

The First Kiss Is More Dangerous Than Sex Have you ever watched the movie Pretty Woman? In the movie, Julia Roberts (playing a sex worker) draws a boundary about no kissing because that’s too intimate whereas having sex with her clients was not on the same level. Somehow kissing has been demoted over time from a first step toward physical intimacy to a first date expectation. Kissing is not casual. It’s emotional electricity. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to make kissing important again in modern romantic relationships. Let’s talk about…The First Kiss Is More Dangerous Than Sex Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Most Men Are Scared To Face Calm Love So many of us equate chaos with connection. We believe that falling in love equals intensity and chemistry. And it’s easy to mistake adrenaline for intimacy. What would happen if you settled into love? In this case, you’re not “settling” in terms of lowering your standards for a partner. You’re settling calmly into a trusting relationship that your heart has been asking for all along. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons we often chase love instead of allowing it to happen calmly. Let’s talk about…Most Men Are Scared To Face Calm Love Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How to Spot a Man in Love Many emotionally wounded people seek out (unintentionally) other wounded people and their bond is often mistaken for love. This type of foundation doesn’t usually work out for a multitude of reasons. In this episode I’m sharing some personal stories and sharing – from MY perspective – how love can appear in different, healthier ways. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways love can manifest when two people feel confident in the relationship and are not only seeking validation. Let’s talk about…How to Spot a Man in Love Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Ways to Spot a Cheater I’m binge watching the series Mad Men, which is set in the 1960s and the main character is the definition of a player. The amount of workplace infidelity and the casualness of it all was surprising at first but then I realized this is a human problem that still exists today. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why wounded men cheat and why they seek out validation, often from women. Let’s talk about…5 Ways to Spot a Cheater Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust We’re talking about a very important topic today: Romance Cons. In today’s AI world and with how popular dating apps have become, it’s more important than ever to protect yourself and your bank accounts from unscrupulous con artists who will pretend to love you but only want your assets. Let’s explore the DEEPER workings of con artists and how to protect yourself with Laurel House and Dr Alex del Carmen, hosts of the show RomConned. Let’s talk about…New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS Do men chase a fully committed relationship or are they chasing sex? Or are midlife men looking for companionship and connection without a permanent commitment? All of these things are possible in the midlife dating pool but men and women both can get caught up in their own fears. Fear of the unknown, fear of having to sacrifice, not wanting to settle. When these types of fears arise, going silent is often easier than having a conversation about those fears. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to keep fear at bay and how to open up communication without judgment. Let’s talk about…If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You When was the last time you were in a healthy, heart-centered relationship? You probably only remember those unhealthy relationships, yet so often we repeat the same cycles. Falling in love is often based on lust or limerence and that is certainly a fun experience. But is this TRUE love or love based on physical chemistry? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to create a heart-centered relationship based on friendship instead of chemistry. Let’s talk about…Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First Have you ever been on a date where the other person only talks about themselves? Or they are so focused on giving you the ‘right’ answers to your questions that they don’t ask any questions of you? Being present is a big sign of respect IMO. Showing an equal interest in the conversation and asking your own questions helps drive the conversation but also helps both parties determine if another date is worth pursuing. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to be present in the dating world and how to determine if your guy is looking for a way to move on to the next person. Let’s talk about…Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush Have you experienced ‘love bombing’? Mostly women have this experience of receiving exaggerated feelings of love, often spurred by lust or limerence. Love bombing might feel good at first but it’s not an indication of true feelings. Lust is all about wanting to fulfill a sexual need and limerence is an exaggerated infatuation with a person. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to experience dopamine love and seratonin love (yes, they are different!) Let’s talk about…How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless? One of the most powerful things about being a human is that we have choices to make in every aspect of our lives. If you’re feeling hopeless about dating, I invite you to make a choice about how much negativity you watch or listen to online. Everyone has an opinion on every topic imaginable and if you CHOOSE to fill your mind with all the negative aspects of dating, that’s exactly what you’re inviting into your world. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about choosing to ignore the dating disaster negativity and embracing how dating can be a fun, positive experience. Let’s talk about…Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless? FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice In this episode I’m helping a listener, Jay, who wants to have a loving, long term relationship but feels his time is running out to find that special woman. We talk about the ways he ‘puts himself out there,’ how he socializes, and what his experiences with online dating were like. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to stay positive about finding love when it feels like you’re trying everything and you still don’t have that special person. Let’s talk about…Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally? Why can’t we keep the honeymoon phase of a new relationship going longer? Why do we seem to fall into a trap of having this phase and these feelings for only a short time before “real life” sets in? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what defines emotional and spiritual relationships and why very few people are good at examining their emotions. Let’s talk about…Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally? FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success In today’s world, women are able to take care of themselves financially. Gone are the days of the 1950s when women couldn’t buy their own home or get a credit card in their own name. With this empowerment, it’s no surprise that women are also more vocal about what they want in a relationship. Casual sex is great if that’s what both adults want. But long term relationships take more time to cultivate and these keys will help you build a strong foundation. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why it’s important to know what type of relationship you want and why there’s no harm in planning a future together. Let’s talk about…Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life? Psychics are not all created equally. Some do care about their clients and will use their intuition for good and others will give random answers just to make a buck. However, it’s less about the accuracy of the psychic and more about the willingness to be honest about […] The post Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love What types of men are you finding out in the dating world? Are they looking for a long-term commitment? Or are they just looking to fill a temporary void in their lives? There are 3 general categories that people fall into when it comes to relationships and YOU get to decide which one you want in your life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why chemistry does NOT equal relationship success and what it means to be a “grower/builder”. Let’s talk about…If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.