Do you get what you want and need in your relationship? If not, you’re probably not using this highly effective “ninja” tool of communication. To get what you want, this is a must-use technique, and it’s soooo simple.
Normally, how we know we want something to change, is when we feel bad or irritated. Being in the same house and your partner (almost) all the time now, you get irritated about all kinds of stuff. And when you get upset or irriated, what do you do? You tell your partner.
You say stuff like,
"Why can't you leave me alone!"
"Do you have to clean up my stuff every time I turn around?" (example from our house:)
"Why are you on the phone all the time!?"
"You're so annoying right now!"
Add your own examples ...
Does that get you what you want? Nope!
But what's great about the stuff you get irritated about is they have a direct link to what you want, and when you use the tool we teach in this video, you're very likely to get it. Try it out!
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