Do you struggle to be direct, assertive, and confident in your communication? Maybe you find it difficult to say no, ask boldly for what you want, and feel overly nice and pleasing of people. Perhaps this struggle of assertiveness and confidence is affecting your career life, making it hard for you to ask for a raise or promotion.
Perhaps it’s stopping the men or women you find attractive from wanting to date you.
Maybe it’s stopping you from creating your ideal social life.
If any of this applies to you, I’ve been there too… Until I started to internalize and apply one secret technique.
One Secret Technique to Instantly Become Assertive and Confident To become instantly more assertive and confident, create your “Bill of Confidence Rights” and apply them in your life.
Your Bill of Confidence Rights is like the Bill of Rights in the United States Constitution. They are your inherent rights of showing up in social interactions as your most bold, assertive and confident self.
A few rights in my Bill of Confidence Rights include:
–> I have the right to start a conversation with anyone.
–> I have the right to approach anyone I find attractive.
–> I have the right to say no to anyone.
–> I have the right to disagree with anyone and share my perspective.
–> I have the right to end a conversation whenever I want to.
–> I have the right to confront anyone about an issue I have with them, and solve the problem right there on the spot.
–> I have the right to look anyone in the eyes, especially those I find attractive or powerful.
Now, it’s your turn. What is currently holding you back from being more assertive and confident in social interactions?
How would you like to show up in conversations?
Now, create your 5-10 Bill of Confidence Rights. You can write down the ones I shared if you want to. And, really figure out what social behavior you will now give yourself the right to have. Maybe it’s the right to say no to any request from someone to get you to do something for them.
A word of caution: When you apply your Bill of Confidence Rights, because you are stretching out of your comfort zone and doing something new and different, you may feel “guilt” or “shame” in being more assertive and confident.
You may feel like you are offending people, being rude or cruel. But the truth is you are just being a more powerful, attractive version of yourself. It’ll just feel a bit messy and uncomfortable at first because a part of you wants to avoid the scariness of being more assertive.
However, if you persist and have the courage to face the discomfort that arises from being more direct and assertive in your communication, you will reach peace on the other side, so you can be more fully yourself without feeling uncomfortable.
By creating and applying your Bill of Confidence Rights, you will feel more liberated to be yourself,and say and do whatever you want to that is in your best interest. You’ll feel more attractive and magnetic and others will certainly see you that way too.
You’ll advance quicker in your career, have more success with dating, and be more engaging and interesting in conversations, causing people to want to be your friend.
Awesome! Take action today and write down your 5-10 Bill of Confidence Rights and watch your life change drastically for the better.
Until we speak again, you were born to be real, not to be perfect. So go out there and be who you are.
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